My MFP girlfriend just dumped me

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

jmule24 wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

Some_Watery_Tart wrote: »

Bbg340 wrote: »

Women are crazy
Call your boys and go out for a beer or 10

And all your friends here are women. What does that make you exactly?

Men love the crazy!!

This belongs here......

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So does this

That's kinky and crazy!!!!

ald783 wrote: »

odusgolp wrote: »

Derp_Diggler wrote: »

ald783 wrote: »

If I say "leave me alone", I want attention.
If I say, "I'm fine", I want attention.
If I say, "I hate you", I want attention.

I always want attention. If I don't, I'll go somewhere where you can't find me. I'm not the cool off in silence type. Just give me attention.

And people wonder why they don't get what they want. SMDH.

Please... don't let her represent women everywhere. I have never and will never play such games with a man. Or in any relationship with SO or just friends. Cause this is complete bullsh*t.

Ah of course, because everyone else in the world acts completely rationally when they're angry. I'm sure you have a fantastic checklist of all of the mature and thoughtful ways you'd like to express yourself when you're fighting with someone but sometimes logic and levelheadedness go out the window when you're emotional. I hope I can one day get on your level!

So, how has this approached worked for you?

I have absolutely never told a significant other than I hate them. I've had some knock down, drag out fights with my ex-boyfriend and my husband (the two most significant relationships of my adult life). Have I always been totally rational? No. I've been angry about all kinds of things that weren't worth being angry over in the end. But not expressing my needs and thinking it's somebody else's responsibility to "read me". That's really immature, don't you think?

Again, everyone has their MOMENTS, but having these moments so often they are a pattern is well, worrisome.

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

I would never tell someone I was in a relationship to leave me alone. So he can go do what? Think of how crazy and rude I am? No
The truth is I'm 32 and no one wants me anymore because I no longer have the energy for crazy and fighting. Just binge watch shows with me and play with my hair. That's not enough though... Guys want the crazy.

Uh huh, tell me more unicorn

You wouldn't believe me if I did

*Sticks fingers in ears*
I'm not asposed to listen to redheads!! DANGER ZONE DANGER ZONE!!!!

Did your mama tell you they were the devil?

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

I would never tell someone I was in a relationship to leave me alone. So he can go do what? Think of how crazy and rude I am? No
The truth is I'm 32 and no one wants me anymore because I no longer have the energy for crazy and fighting. Just binge watch shows with me and play with my hair. That's not enough though... Guys want the crazy.

Uh huh, tell me more unicorn

You wouldn't believe me if I did

*Sticks fingers in ears*
I'm not asposed to listen to redheads!! DANGER ZONE DANGER ZONE!!!!

Did your mama tell you they were the devil?

No personal experience told me that! Lmao!

Technically I'm a red violet so only plug 1 ear

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

I would never tell someone I was in a relationship to leave me alone. So he can go do what? Think of how crazy and rude I am? No
The truth is I'm 32 and no one wants me anymore because I no longer have the energy for crazy and fighting. Just binge watch shows with me and play with my hair. That's not enough though... Guys want the crazy.

Uh huh, tell me more unicorn

You wouldn't believe me if I did

*Sticks fingers in ears*
I'm not asposed to listen to redheads!! DANGER ZONE DANGER ZONE!!!!

Did your mama tell you they were the devil?

No personal experience told me that! Lmao!

Technically I'm a red violet so only plug 1 ear

I'm not falling for that! ...again

You poor thing! I'd love to meet who made you this way hahaha

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

I would never tell someone I was in a relationship to leave me alone. So he can go do what? Think of how crazy and rude I am? No
The truth is I'm 32 and no one wants me anymore because I no longer have the energy for crazy and fighting. Just binge watch shows with me and play with my hair. That's not enough though... Guys want the crazy.

Uh huh, tell me more unicorn

You wouldn't believe me if I did

*Sticks fingers in ears*
I'm not asposed to listen to redheads!! DANGER ZONE DANGER ZONE!!!!

Did your mama tell you they were the devil?

No personal experience told me that! Lmao!

Technically I'm a red violet so only plug 1 ear

I'm not falling for that! ...again

You poor thing! I'd love to meet who made you this way hahaha

Hahaha

Get a room already

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Do you really mean you and your girlfriend?

_dracarys_ wrote: »

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

errollm wrote: »

JessicaJS23 wrote: »

I would never tell someone I was in a relationship to leave me alone. So he can go do what? Think of how crazy and rude I am? No
The truth is I'm 32 and no one wants me anymore because I no longer have the energy for crazy and fighting. Just binge watch shows with me and play with my hair. That's not enough though... Guys want the crazy.

Uh huh, tell me more unicorn

You wouldn't believe me if I did

*Sticks fingers in ears*
I'm not asposed to listen to redheads!! DANGER ZONE DANGER ZONE!!!!

Did your mama tell you they were the devil?

No personal experience told me that! Lmao!

Technically I'm a red violet so only plug 1 ear

I'm not falling for that! ...again

You poor thing! I'd love to meet who made you this way hahaha

Hahaha

Get a room already

You paying?

You must be new here dude lol From my experience on this site relationships never workout. Or maybe I'm just unlucky too. Good luck though.

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itsfuntobenormal wrote: »

ald783 wrote: »

odusgolp wrote: »

Derp_Diggler wrote: »

ald783 wrote: »

If I say "leave me alone", I want attention.
If I say, "I'm fine", I want attention.
If I say, "I hate you", I want attention.

I always want attention. If I don't, I'll go somewhere where you can't find me. I'm not the cool off in silence type. Just give me attention.

And people wonder why they don't get what they want. SMDH.

Please... don't let her represent women everywhere. I have never and will never play such games with a man. Or in any relationship with SO or just friends. Cause this is complete bullsh*t.

Ah of course, because everyone else in the world acts completely rationally when they're angry. I'm sure you have a fantastic checklist of all of the mature and thoughtful ways you'd like to express yourself when you're fighting with someone but sometimes logic and levelheadedness go out the window when you're emotional. I hope I can one day get on your level!

So, how has this approached worked for you?

I have absolutely never told a significant other than I hate them. I've had some knock down, drag out fights with my ex-boyfriend and my husband (the two most significant relationships of my adult life). Have I always been totally rational? No. I've been angry about all kinds of things that weren't worth being angry over in the end. But not expressing my needs and thinking it's somebody else's responsibility to "read me". That's really immature, don't you think?

Again, everyone has their MOMENTS, but having these moments so often they are a pattern is well, worrisome.

To be clear, since I'm not sure how well people pick up on these things, my first post was mostly facetious. I assumed this whole thread was seeing as how the topic is about getting dumped by a MFP girlfriend. I mean, I do love attention and I am frequently crazy and irrational, but I keep that a little more under the radar.

For what it's worth, I've found that women who are always whining about hating drama and how other chicks are crazy, are by and large the craziest most dramatic broads.

So looks like we are all waiting with baited breath to see how you got on..

"Leave me alone" can mean ..leave me alone or..I want your attention..no matter what you pick you will be wrong

When the pics work and you get her back I want an edible arrangements!!