5'6 fat as *kitten*, expends 1kcal of cardio a day cutting on a caloric intake of 700kcal a day

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  • DannyDo678
    DannyDo678 Posts: 20 Member
    For everyone responding who is attacking the OP's word choice and not addressing the OP's problem, shame on you. How insensitive. The OP is mentally fragile, and already shown that he will take desperate measures (700 cal/day) because he is depressed. Your lectures and insensitivity is not helping him, and could do more damage. The OP is reaching out for help because he feels low, and your attacks and name calling (
    You sound a lot worse off intellectually
    ) is not helpful.

    This opened my eyes. Sometimes you can't see what you're doing until someone else tells you. Thank you
  • DannyDo678
    DannyDo678 Posts: 20 Member
    BZAH10 wrote: »
    @DannyDo678, from your last post I can tell that you meant no harm by the word usage and that you are just overwhelmed with emotions right now. Completely understandable. I see from your profile that you are 22 yrs. old. ONLY 22. You have your whole life ahead of you! You will find the right person for you and you have plenty of time to do so. Enjoy your youth and freedom while you have it!

    In the meantime, take care of your health. Don't do anything drastic. From your profile pic it looks like you're on the right track. Focus on fitness goals and make sure you eat enough calories and nutrients to fuel your body. Once you feel better physically it is much easier to deal with the emotional stuff.

    Thank you so much and you're absolutely right the last thing I need right now is to be overly hormonal due to lack of enough calories and thanks to everyone here if it wasn't for ou guys I probably wouldn't have even recognized how much damage it has caused so far
  • CoffeeNCardio
    CoffeeNCardio Posts: 1,847 Member
    edited February 2016
    Sorry about your loss man. The girl I mean. But I'm in agreement with others.

    You can spend your life pining for something you can't have, or you can let it go and decide to love what you can have. Happy people are always, always, always in the latter group.

    Also, the use of the word "retarded" IS, in fact, offensive to those of us with relatives who have mental/physical disabilities, as we've had to hear it in the context where it's used with the worst possible intent. I appreciate your apology, and hope you choose not to use this word in the future.
  • cross2bear
    cross2bear Posts: 1,106 Member
    Whenever you feel down on yourself, and are tempted to say you're stupid, or the "r" word (yeah, its not appropriate) just substitute "human" - we have all felt like you at some point, we have all hurt like you, and we are all going to get through it - like you!!