SINGLE AND LOOKING

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  • MRSLJ1975
    MRSLJ1975 Posts: 309 Member
    BigDougie1211 wrote: »
    moya_bleh wrote: »
    TrailRunn3rMN wrote: »
    moya_bleh wrote: »
    ....... confidence crushed by hateful comments about my appearance and height on dating sites....

    @moya_bleh - I'm curious as to what was said. You're a good looking dude. Not sure what someone could say unless they were just a cold hearted *kitten*.

    Some from the top of my head:

    "You look gross."
    "Your profile pic makes me sick!"
    "Ew -Midget!"
    "5ft 8? You're a Hobbit!"
    "You're not attractive enough to be messaging me - so don't message me."
    "Yeah, I get told that all the time - usually by better looking men than you."
    "Your body is really weak looking compared to most other men's."

    Some people just go on there to take their frustrations out on people and be nasty for sport. That's teh interwebz for you, hey?

    Out of curiosity lad, is it Tinder?
    It's the new Tinder didn't u know lol
  • AdrianChr92
    AdrianChr92 Posts: 567 Member
    That feel when no cute girlfriend
  • moya_bleh
    moya_bleh Posts: 1,375 Member
    Tenster wrote: »
    moya_bleh wrote: »
    Tenster wrote: »
    moya_bleh wrote: »
    I've been single and looking for over three years. In that time, not one date, confidence crushed by hateful comments about my appearance and height on dating sites and since my last relatonship two of my younger relatives have now reached 16 and 17 respectively - both have girlfriends!!!!

    Meh haha!

    Hi mate, you're a decent looking bloke in good shape. 5ft 8 isn't that short, I'm only 5 '9. It's all about the confidence, maybe change your approach, sound's like that may be the problem. The quote i've copied is negative, women don't like negative (neither do men for that matter) I'd also look at changing your profile photo, in my opinion it's a little bit creepy. I hope you haven't took offence to that btw. Good luck in the future, be more confident and if you get rejected it's not a big deal, they'l be someone out there for you

    Thanks for the response, all taken onboard. Regarding the profile pic, my photos (or even my presence) on here isn't for dating purposes and I've never had anybody call my pics creepy before, especially when compared to many of the other six-pack/cleavage/butt selfies on here! :)

    I didn't mean that to come across too negative. I was referring more to the lighting ha

    Don't worry, no offence taken :)
  • tryasimighty
    tryasimighty Posts: 131 Member
    lisa9805 wrote: »

    I swap the mean comments for the photos I have been sent. I could open a penis gallery.....[/quote]

    yup the new rules of online dating is to send your dick pic and you might get chosen lmao

    [/quote]

    Hahahahaha! Ive started writing a book about my dating experiences over the last few years and it will have a special section for my collection of dickpics !!!!!!!
  • youdowant
    youdowant Posts: 69 Member
    I'm married, so I will have to politely decline your many requests. Thanks
  • lisa9805
    lisa9805 Posts: 303 Member
    tryasimighty wrote: »
    lisa9805 wrote: »

    I swap the mean comments for the photos I have been sent. I could open a penis gallery.....

    yup the new rules of online dating is to send your dick pic and you might get chosen lmao

    [/quote]

    Hahahahaha! Ive started writing a book about my dating experiences over the last few years and it will have a special section for my collection of dickpics !!!!!!![/quote]

    haha love that. I would read it lol
  • chloedanielle03
    chloedanielle03 Posts: 29 Member
    Dating on weight loss app...I've seen it all now lol. Perhaps POF might be a better choice? Random but good luck haha!
  • azulvioleta6
    azulvioleta6 Posts: 4,195 Member
    Holy desperation!

    Why not find someone in real life who, you know, lives near you?

    Choca as in morena?
  • Jnice928
    Jnice928 Posts: 2 Member
    How about in a relationship but still looking for a third?
  • Dumpty393
    Dumpty393 Posts: 127 Member
    Lol there are actual dating apps you could use.. Hope you find your hubby though g'luck.
  • JasonRainboze
    JasonRainboze Posts: 168 Member
    *fly on the wall
  • 47Jacqueline
    47Jacqueline Posts: 6,993 Member
    I tried using Coffee Meets Bagel and Tinder. They found three matches the first time and never matched anyone else again.
  • clutchitalian
    clutchitalian Posts: 39 Member
    i like what u wrote....its very rare that 2 people get together that have healthy interests in mind..u are very pretty and motivated ur gonna be fine hun.... ;)
  • wilsoncl6
    wilsoncl6 Posts: 1,280 Member
    Jnice928 wrote: »
    How about in a relationship but still looking for a third?

    I guess that's OK if all parties involved are down with it. Girl or guy would be my question.

  • wilsoncl6
    wilsoncl6 Posts: 1,280 Member
    47Jacqueline wrote: »
    I tried using Coffee Meets Bagel and Tinder. They found three matches the first time and never matched anyone else again.

    Tinder only works well if you're in or near a large city. At that point, the choices get a little overwhelming.
  • wilsoncl6
    wilsoncl6 Posts: 1,280 Member
    Also, what's this thing about dick pics? Does that really actually happen? I thought that was like some urban myth made up by the ladies.
  • Scamd83
    Scamd83 Posts: 808 Member
    So does anyone actually manage to successfully use MFP to count calories and arrange dates? Also on an entirely, completely unrelated note, anyone female and from North East England?
  • therealhyper
    therealhyper Posts: 124 Member
    Jnice928 wrote: »
    How about in a relationship but still looking for a third?

    Your inbox must be full ??
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    why wont OP date me
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    LOL - I am guessing OP has about a million emails from all the bros in MFP land...
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    cjferguson40 wrote: »
    I have a feeling anyone showing interest will learn how she made $800 last week working from home...and you can too!

    in….
  • jillian909
    jillian909 Posts: 31 Member
    What? No thread for the 'Married and Looking'?
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    i believe OP never came back …LOL
  • aadtamhankar
    aadtamhankar Posts: 17 Member
    hockeysniper8 wrote: »
    There needs to be a like button in communities, haha @TrailRunn3rMN

    TRUE. Someone needs to message the app people.

  • aadtamhankar
    aadtamhankar Posts: 17 Member
    wilsoncl6 wrote: »
    Also, what's this thing about dick pics? Does that really actually happen? I thought that was like some urban myth made up by the ladies.

    Yes. As an attractive young woman on dating sites, creeps will constantly send jarring, unsolicited dick pics to women. When I get them I usually say it's "so cute and tiny", but sometimes I just send em a Donald Trump meme.
  • coolets28
    coolets28 Posts: 15 Member
    So im also single,,, more time for soul searching lol
  • deaddolly
    deaddolly Posts: 107 Member
    It's hard for people to meet others if you're not into the bar/club scene or into religious stuff. I don't blame people for trying to find someone on here or anywhere. After you get a certain age or if you have kids, there's not a lot pf places to look. OKCupid or POF seems to be for the kiddies. And the pay sites....I actually went on Eharmony and filled our their application thing. I was totally honest and it told me it couldn't find me anyone. WTF? I was directed to go to Match.com - which I guess is a little more alternative. Haven't tried it yet. Some days I want to find someone, but most days, I'm happy being single.

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