She left me because I'm losing weight

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FoodManagement
FoodManagement Posts: 5 Member
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I have 80lbs to drop so I can hit my goal of 199lbs, I'm doing this for me and I would have thought I had the support of my lady but it seems as I drop weight she becomes unsure of herself and our relationship. So as of today she is now out of my life and I'm on this road that I'm enjoying alone but hey...it is what it is. Blessings to everyone as you start this road to weight lost or you have already started.

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  • TheBeachgod
    TheBeachgod Posts: 825 Member
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    Good luck on your health and fitness goals.

    Check this out.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9mbp0DugfCA
  • Shrinking_Erin
    Shrinking_Erin Posts: 125 Member
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    That sucks, but i guess it's better to know now rather than later.
  • FoodManagement
    FoodManagement Posts: 5 Member
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    I agree and it's a lesson learned
  • luissc3388
    luissc3388 Posts: 18 Member
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    I would think that she'd want to stay by your side on your journey; well, whatever happens from now on, stay strong !
  • Amara411
    Amara411 Posts: 54 Member
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    It all happens for a reason
    Good luck on your journey
  • junodog1
    junodog1 Posts: 4,792 Member
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    TheBeachgod wrote: »
    Good luck on your health and fitness goals.

    Check this out.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9mbp0DugfCA

    If you jusy blew by it - watch this video! It's relevant to the OP and it's freaking hilarious. Love it BeachGod
  • ValerieMartini2Olives
    ValerieMartini2Olives Posts: 3,041 Member
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    She is insecure and jealous that you're doing what she won't
  • sarahfadell87
    sarahfadell87 Posts: 182 Member
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    TheBeachgod wrote: »
    Good luck on your health and fitness goals.

    Check this out.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9mbp0DugfCA

    This is so freakin' relatable it isn't even funny. Thanks for sharing.

    OP, keep going. Setting personal goals and fullfilling them when you know it's time is so important. Good luck. I hope she finds her way
  • coalz
    coalz Posts: 308 Member
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    I had a yoga instructor once tell me:
    once you make a conscious choice to shift your life & follow your path, it will naturally repel away individuals who would hinder your destination, but you never know who's just around the bend on your trail to happiness.
  • motivated310
    motivated310 Posts: 19 Member
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    If she really loves you she will come around. If not, then she wasn't the person for you & plus you need someone that is supportive of you and your goals
  • billutzman
    billutzman Posts: 74 Member
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    4 Steps ? No Fruit Juice???? Damn!!
  • RodaRose
    RodaRose Posts: 9,562 Member
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    That stinks. Keep working on you. You will feel better eventually. <3
  • nats2508
    nats2508 Posts: 45 Member
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    Sometimes when you make changes partners/friends feel threatened, like you don't love or have time for them anymore but if she really cared she would support your journey. Y are doing something positive, so keep going and maybe you will find someone who will journey with you!
  • christinaleigh44
    christinaleigh44 Posts: 28 Member
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    Very sad, I'm sorry. A great partner would be happy for you and encourage you to get healthy. Time will heal this.
  • cocacoleman1
    cocacoleman1 Posts: 2 Member
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    You can do this. Someone who abandons you for making a positive change in your life that isn't hurting anyone is toxic. You are better off. Now go finish what you've started, you got this!!!!
  • Francl27
    Francl27 Posts: 26,372 Member
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    TheBeachgod wrote: »
    Good luck on your health and fitness goals.

    Check this out.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9mbp0DugfCA

    Love it!

    OP, you're better off!
  • FoodManagement
    FoodManagement Posts: 5 Member
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    Thank you everyone for your comments, I truly do appreciate them.
  • StacyChrz
    StacyChrz Posts: 865 Member
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    I'm sorry to hear that she was too insecure in herself to support the healthy lifestyle you are living. Congratulations for your success and determination to continue and best of luck in your future. I'm sure you will succeed. Take care of yourself, we're here to support you!

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