Do u like getting flirted with?

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  • Justn7883
    Justn7883 Posts: 4,764 Member
    Yes. It's fun.
  • JeromeBarry1
    JeromeBarry1 Posts: 10,179 Member
    No.
  • JeromeBarry1
    JeromeBarry1 Posts: 10,179 Member
    joesgal22 wrote: »
    Why is it men say that they are usually not sure that they are being flirted with? Just curious.

    Because men think with the little head.
  • Beverly2Hansen
    Beverly2Hansen Posts: 378 Member
    Cameron_1969 wrote: »
    I never learned how to flirt IRL without liquor.

    You didn't have too, you clearly got by on your looks
  • kaylaortega81
    kaylaortega81 Posts: 5 Member
    I don't see how you married ones can "get away with flirting" or make it a game or something fun...I'm a major flirt, I don't do it intentionally... But I have 2 kids, not married but I am in a relationship, I honestly think flirting is fun. Its a confidence booster. And its always good to meet new people! But my man totally disapproves!!! :neutral:
  • Beverly2Hansen
    Beverly2Hansen Posts: 378 Member
    Break_You wrote: »
    I was eating lunch at the bar at Chilis the other day and a random waitress (not mine) approached me, lingered around a sec, then told me "I'm bored, I usually do things to get in trouble when I'm bored".

    Was she flirting with me? If she was, how should I have responded? I would have totally served this girl but have no game.

    She came on strong, damn near panties falling off. How you respond- well there's only so much trouble you can get into on the job here's my number if you'd like to go for drinks after work sometime I make a great partner in crime (wink at her)- make sure you mention her beautiful smile and sound like you've never been shot down in your life even when you're *kitten* your pants. Women are programed to like confidence.
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    Awkwards me out, honestly. I just go "okayyyy...." and move on.

    (Almost typoed in o.o BAD BAD "smart phones").
  • tmjnd0
    tmjnd0 Posts: 52 Member
    On the rare occasion...sure
  • Pantera69
    Pantera69 Posts: 177 Member
    Wow this post has gone farther than i initially thought :worried:
  • wilsoncl6
    wilsoncl6 Posts: 1,280 Member
    joesgal22 wrote: »
    Why is it men say that they are usually not sure that they are being flirted with? Just curious.

    Because women are a lot more subtle about it than guys and guys are generally oblivious to anything that isn't direct. We don't beat around the bush.
  • Angela937
    Angela937 Posts: 514 Member
    I'm extremely friendly, and a lot of people mistake that for flirting. I'm a very hands on person, I will touch your arm while talking, or put my hand on your back while squeezing to get behind you.
  • Gioeyebrow
    Gioeyebrow Posts: 404 Member
    One time some guy who came to my work went upt to the register to talk to me and we talked for like an hour while i was working and he kept asking me what time i got off and what i was gonna do later tonight it wasnt till he left and my brother came up to me and said "you, doo kno that guy was trying to ask you out right? You guys where flirting for like an hour" that i was like ooooooh!
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    Ewww ick....flirting.
  • JeffreyMGiron
    JeffreyMGiron Posts: 3,582 Member
    no, because i get uncomfortable. BUT i dont mind the occasional tease ;)
  • Kvm11628
    Kvm11628 Posts: 7,386 Member
    Me like flirting? That's un-possible.

    (Points to the person who can get that reference.)
  • JeffreyMGiron
    JeffreyMGiron Posts: 3,582 Member
    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    Me like flirting? That's un-possible.

    (Points to the person who can get that reference.)

    may i ask if you are referring to a tv show thats been running for age nows? has an awesome little dood named ralph?
  • brittanica2491
    brittanica2491 Posts: 714 Member
    Sure why not!
  • Kvm11628
    Kvm11628 Posts: 7,386 Member
    Awww, Jeffrey, I choo-choo-choose you!
  • Peter_Brady
    Peter_Brady Posts: 3,750 Member
    No
  • mockchoc
    mockchoc Posts: 6,573 Member
    Hell yes.
  • Crhan05
    Crhan05 Posts: 1,608 Member
    I don't know who doesn't like it
  • saramickeydee
    saramickeydee Posts: 115 Member
    No, subtlety is wasted on me and directness just gets rejected. :)
  • saramickeydee
    saramickeydee Posts: 115 Member
    ejinvt wrote: »
    saramickeydee wrote: »
    No, subtlety is wasted on me and directness just gets rejected. :)

    You sound fun. ;)

    I have trouble with social cues - which makes for some pretty funny stories about when I THOUGHT I was being flirted with but I was wrong. :#
  • gcibsthom
    gcibsthom Posts: 30,145 Member
    I think most people do enjoy it. When I do recognize it, yeah, it feels good. It's like ego massage....For the most part, though I have a hard time recognizing a flirt, even though I enjoy flirting....A woman would pretty much have to ask me for sex before I would recognize it...lol...cry
  • saramickeydee
    saramickeydee Posts: 115 Member
    ejinvt wrote: »
    saramickeydee wrote: »
    ejinvt wrote: »
    saramickeydee wrote: »
    No, subtlety is wasted on me and directness just gets rejected. :)

    You sound fun. ;)

    I have trouble with social cues - which makes for some pretty funny stories about when I THOUGHT I was being flirted with but I was wrong. :#

    I invented social awkwardness, so...I get it. As for those stories...OMG, I can't even. You really should share. ;)

    Someday there will be a thread and I will consider contributing.
  • Stacy80651
    Stacy80651 Posts: 21 Member
    Heck ya! It's fun and a good way to get to know someone!
  • that70sbaby
    that70sbaby Posts: 5 Member
    joesgal22 wrote: »
    Why is it men say that they are usually not sure that they are being flirted with? Just curious.

    I think some guys are very humbled and/or maybe have low self esteem and have no clue how smart, sexy, and cool they are to some women. So they are unsure. Some women on the other hand know when they have sex appeal etc. and pick up on pick up lines, gestures etc. Also sometimes we can send mixed messages and they may not know when we are just being friendly or flirting or both lol.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Still yes, though I usually have no clue.
  • LexiM1028
    LexiM1028 Posts: 47 Member
    Definitely makes you feel better. Nothing wrong with it. I enjoy it
  • tcarp8
    tcarp8 Posts: 369 Member
    Yes

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