What are single people supposed to do other than eat?

GobletofFlames
GobletofFlames Posts: 113 Member
edited December 2 in Chit-Chat
I get the whole thing about creating a caloric deficit

But if you are single what are you supposed to do other than eat, go to work, and sleep?

People in relationships can:

have coffee with their husband
talk to their husband about their day
hold their husband's hand
have sex with their husband
go on a hike with their husband

Whereas single people have a lot of time on their hands which is why they eat and get fat

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  • Neanbean13
    Neanbean13 Posts: 211 Member
    When I was single I was fit and toned! I over did it but I exercised more then than with someone. Went out more too.And well got more sex single too lol girl your head space is all wrong! Di you like to exercise? By that photo I'd say no. Are you just relying on being on a food deficit? If so that makes it difficult to maintain and suck for the social life. I'd say add in the exercise as part of the social life...
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    Some of them have therapy. I suggest you try it.

    QFT
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    I get the whole thing about creating a caloric deficit

    But if you are single what are you supposed to do other than eat, go to work, and sleep?

    People in relationships can:

    have coffee with their husband
    talk to their husband about their day
    hold their husband's hand
    have sex with their husband
    go on a hike with their husband

    Whereas single people have a lot of time on their hands which is why they eat and get fat

    i would ask if you have any friends, but if your other posts are to be believed, i know the answer to that...
  • kate141987
    kate141987 Posts: 513 Member
    I can't help but think you sound a bit bitter about the fact your still single and other people are in relationships.
    You must be doing something wrong, but it doesn't mean there is something wrong with YOU.
    Maybe give internet dating a try ?
    I can assure you not all single people sit around just eating and becoming fat, that's just a choice some people make.

    If you think about it some couples sit together and become fat, so it's nothing to do with being single, I think you sound like you've given up hope of finding someone I think the trick is work on yourself, get fit not fat and try to lighten up a bit about stuff. Good luck hope you do meet someone nice
  • lisahebert186
    lisahebert186 Posts: 736 Member
    Being married doesn't mean you do those things. I work, come home, cook, take care of kids then go to bed. I don't get a lot of help from my husband therefore leaving me very little time for anything else.
  • StealthHealth
    StealthHealth Posts: 2,417 Member
    ejinvt wrote: »
    lithezebra wrote: »
    Read a book without anyone interrupting you, go for a walk, go wherever you want without having to explain it to anyone, enjoy having your own thoughts, see a movie or a show, build a computer, paint a picture of your cat, take a class, take selfies.

    I do these things, all the time. ;)

    You paint a picture of @lithezebra 's cat? Does she know?
  • Osiris275
    Osiris275 Posts: 228 Member
    Get a dog :) they're great company and love you regardless!
  • amusedmonkey
    amusedmonkey Posts: 10,330 Member
    Osiris275 wrote: »
    Get a dog :) they're great company and love you regardless!

    That would be a very bad idea. It would cause issues in the gym.
  • ponycyndi
    ponycyndi Posts: 858 Member
    I get the whole thing about creating a caloric deficit

    But if you are single what are you supposed to do other than eat, go to work, and sleep?

    People in relationships can:

    have coffee with their husband
    talk to their husband about their day
    hold their husband's hand
    have sex with their husband
    go on a hike with their husband

    Whereas single people have a lot of time on their hands which is why they eat and get fat

    I've been married for sixteen years. I do none of these things.
  • Char231023
    Char231023 Posts: 700 Member
    Osiris275 wrote: »
    Get a dog :) they're great company and love you regardless!

    That would be a very bad idea. It would cause issues in the gym.

    But if she got a Beagle she could take it everywhere, like a cheese and wine tasting.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    Effing really?

    The possibilities are endless when you're single...all of your time is actually your time to do what you will...you get married and have a family and suddenly time becomes a real issue because priorities have to focus on more than just you...you're single, you're all you have to worry about or be concerned with...

    When I was single I:

    Had coffee with friends...or not...sometimes I just enjoy a cup of coffee on the patio and taking in a beautiful morning.

    I went hiking...a lot...sometimes with friends, sometimes on my own...a hike in the woods on your own is a beautiful thing...I still do it.

    I road my bike a lot

    I hit the gym

    I played frisbee golf and ultimate frisbee with my buddies

    I played video games for hours on end

    I spent a lot of time reading without being interrupted

    I could go on and on and on....

    Please, give me a break! It's so much easier to do what you want to do when you want to do it when you don't have other considerations like a wife and family...it's great and all, but your time ceases to be your time...it's everyone's time.

  • RachelElser
    RachelElser Posts: 427 Member
    I am single. I read, quilt, clean my house, play with the cats, hang out with my friends, play video games, exercise, go to festivals and craft shows, volunteer at different organizations in my town, and travel.
  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,646 Member
    I had so much more time to focus on fitness, golf, fishing and other activities before my family demanded most of my free time...
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    newmeadow wrote: »
    cwolfman13 wrote: »
    Effing really?

    The possibilities are endless when you're single...all of your time is actually your time to do what you will...you get married and have a family and suddenly time becomes a real issue because priorities have to focus on more than just you...you're single, you're all you have to worry about or be concerned with...

    When I was single I:

    Had coffee with friends...or not...sometimes I just enjoy a cup of coffee on the patio and taking in a beautiful morning.

    I went hiking...a lot...sometimes with friends, sometimes on my own...a hike in the woods on your own is a beautiful thing...I still do it.

    I road my bike a lot

    I hit the gym

    I played frisbee golf and ultimate frisbee with my buddies

    I played video games for hours on end

    I spent a lot of time reading without being interrupted

    I could go on and on and on....

    Please, give me a break! It's so much easier to do what you want to do when you want to do it when you don't have other considerations like a wife and family...it's great and all, but your time ceases to be your time...it's everyone's time.

    Were you really serious when you were single or did that happen after you were married for awhile?

    @newmeadow serious about what?
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