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Will it's he's lost not mind. I don't care what anyone says that it's his fault it's her too. . This slut was married before that's why her husband left her for a another girl . I'm worried about my son when he grows up & says where's daddy how am I supposed to tell my son that I can't..0
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Ya I did . Called a girl a slut. TO ME SHE IS. U don't know her like I do..0
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People acting like men are weak and it's the girls fault, his @ss could of walked away, he could of gone home to his girl, but no he didn't. Men aren't weak it's just an excuse for bad behavior.2
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SLUT MEANS : a women who has many
casual sexual partners . 0 -
_A_Real_Mouthful wrote: »SassyMommasaurus wrote: »Sugar_Pill wrote: »SassyMommasaurus wrote: »I can't stand it when girls are like "oh my man cheated on me with this slut" no hunny, your boy is a pig, doesn't make the other girl a slut because your sh!tty boy couldn't keep it in his pants.
Nice girls don't meet fellas in the park in the middle of the night...
You don't know what happened, and yeah they do, a guy talks her up, says, hey, meet me here. Does not make her a slut.
And girls who enjoy sex, still aren't sluts.
i'd say replace "girls" with "people" and you're doing great.
i agree that the girl might not necessarily have been up to no good, but she was def naive if she's meeting new and strange men in the park at night. that's just a risk that most likely doesn't meet the reward.
now- if he wasn't new and strange to her, maybe they knew each other, most likely she knew he was in a relationship, and so she prob did go to the park with bad decisions on her mind.
No, girls, because it's always girls who are slut shammed. Guy can have sex with hundreds and all they get is a pat on the back. Girls do it and shes a slut.0 -
SassyMommasaurus wrote: »People acting like men are weak and it's the girls fault, his @ss could of walked away, he could of gone home to his girl, but no he didn't. Men aren't weak it's just an excuse for bad behavior.
It's the fault of both cheating parties. The side chick is not a victim and nether is the boyfriend.3 -
Sugar_Pill wrote: »SassyMommasaurus wrote: »_A_Real_Mouthful wrote: »SassyMommasaurus wrote: »Sugar_Pill wrote: »SassyMommasaurus wrote: »I can't stand it when girls are like "oh my man cheated on me with this slut" no hunny, your boy is a pig, doesn't make the other girl a slut because your sh!tty boy couldn't keep it in his pants.
Nice girls don't meet fellas in the park in the middle of the night...
You don't know what happened, and yeah they do, a guy talks her up, says, hey, meet me here. Does not make her a slut.
And girls who enjoy sex, still aren't sluts.
i'd say replace "girls" with "people" and you're doing great.
i agree that the girl might not necessarily have been up to no good, but she was def naive if she's meeting new and strange men in the park at night. that's just a risk that most likely doesn't meet the reward.
now- if he wasn't new and strange to her, maybe they knew each other, most likely she knew he was in a relationship, and so she prob did go to the park with bad decisions on her mind.
No, girls, because it's always girls who are slut shammed. Guy can have sex with hundreds and all they get is a pat on the back. Girls do it and shes a slut.
Maybe something happened and this is a personal thing?
Maybe not...
I can count all people I've been with on one hand and was with one person for over 10 years, so no, nice try. I'm just sick of seeing slut shamming all over the place.0 -
I'm gonna stop . Changing the subject. I thought u guys will help me what to do STAY WITH HIM OR NOT. But it doesn't seem like it at a all . So I'm letting it go leaving bye0
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_A_Real_Mouthful wrote: »SassyMommasaurus wrote: »SassyMommasaurus wrote: »Sugar_Pill wrote: »SassyMommasaurus wrote: »I can't stand it when girls are like "oh my man cheated on me with this slut" no hunny, your boy is a pig, doesn't make the other girl a slut because your sh!tty boy couldn't keep it in his pants.
Nice girls don't meet fellas in the park in the middle of the night...
You don't know what happened, and yeah they do, a guy talks her up, says, hey, meet me here. Does not make her a slut.
And girls who enjoy sex, still aren't sluts.
Can you tell me your definition of a slut?
I'm not into slut shamming, so no situation ever would I ever call a girl a slut. Because society definition of slut is any girl who actually enjoys sex, you believe that then every man is a slut too.
Well my definition of a slut is the man and the girl in this thread -.- not because they enjoy sex because both are /was on a relationship and screwed around
you're really growing into one of my favorite people on here. FR sent.
Lol slut shamming is just one of my pet peeves lol0 -
I'm gonna stop . Changing the subject. I thought u guys will help me what to do STAY WITH HIM OR NOT. But it doesn't seem like it at a all . So I'm letting it go leaving bye
So many people have given you extremely good advice. It's up to you at the end of the day to decide what you want to do with your life.
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I looked it up I know what it means.0
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SassyMommasaurus wrote: »_A_Real_Mouthful wrote: »SassyMommasaurus wrote: »Sugar_Pill wrote: »SassyMommasaurus wrote: »I can't stand it when girls are like "oh my man cheated on me with this slut" no hunny, your boy is a pig, doesn't make the other girl a slut because your sh!tty boy couldn't keep it in his pants.
Nice girls don't meet fellas in the park in the middle of the night...
You don't know what happened, and yeah they do, a guy talks her up, says, hey, meet me here. Does not make her a slut.
And girls who enjoy sex, still aren't sluts.
i'd say replace "girls" with "people" and you're doing great.
i agree that the girl might not necessarily have been up to no good, but she was def naive if she's meeting new and strange men in the park at night. that's just a risk that most likely doesn't meet the reward.
now- if he wasn't new and strange to her, maybe they knew each other, most likely she knew he was in a relationship, and so she prob did go to the park with bad decisions on her mind.
No, girls, because it's always girls who are slut shammed. Guy can have sex with hundreds and all they get is a pat on the back. Girls do it and shes a slut.
We get it you're a feminist.... but wrong fight -.-
No it's not because they other girl isn't always the one who starts it.0 -
I'm gonna stop . Changing the subject. I thought u guys will help me what to do STAY WITH HIM OR NOT. But it doesn't seem like it at a all . So I'm letting it go leaving bye
In our defense, you never ASKED for anything. You just said you couldn't believe it. Couple that with your terrible English and we just rolled with it the best way we knew how. Don't be bitter; go have revenge sects!!5 -
Cutaway_Collar wrote: »How did you catch him? Was the woman thin and blonde????
lol...you stereotyping here? Not all thin blonde women cheat with married men...lol..
OP...the woman may or may not have been a slut...do you know her personally? If not, there is a very good chance she may not even known about you, therefore, your man is the slut.
Cutaway said it best, don't lay with the man again. Not only because you could catch something, but because you need to define YOUR OWN WORTH. YOU deserve better than a man who can't keep his pants on.1 -
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I'm inclined to agree with SassyMomma, but not because I'm a white-hat feminist. The BF is at fault, not the other woman. The other lady didn't make any commitments to the OP and owes her nothing. People will do as they will, for good or worse. And good on them for it.2
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Some people on here begin rude to me .. I'm just gonna deal with it.. & worry about my son.. He will be back my husband trust me he will be knocking at my door0
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