Cheating!!

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SassyMommasaurus wrote: »

I can't stand it when girls are like "oh my man cheated on me with this slut" no hunny, your boy is a pig, doesn't make the other girl a slut because your sh!tty boy couldn't keep it in his pants.

Nice girls don't meet fellas in the park in the middle of the night...

You don't know what happened, and yeah they do, a guy talks her up, says, hey, meet me here. Does not make her a slut.

And girls who enjoy sex, still aren't sluts.

i'd say replace "girls" with "people" and you're doing great.

i agree that the girl might not necessarily have been up to no good, but she was def naive if she's meeting new and strange men in the park at night. that's just a risk that most likely doesn't meet the reward.

now- if he wasn't new and strange to her, maybe they knew each other, most likely she knew he was in a relationship, and so she prob did go to the park with bad decisions on her mind.

No, girls, because it's always girls who are slut shammed. Guy can have sex with hundreds and all they get is a pat on the back. Girls do it and shes a slut.

you literally just slut shamed guys on the last page- "pig" and "sh!tty" in the same post as well. its not always girls.



besides the point anyhow- this particular woman feels this particular girl is/was indeed acting inappropriate around her man. what we/society think doesn't matter.

He isn't single and *kitten* a hundred girls. He's cheating. Not the same thing.

but you didn't address it in my last post to you either though- what if this girl knew he was in a relationship as well? the likelihood of that is probably higher than her not knowing anything about him, given how the OP seems to feel about it all and based on what she's said.

you can't just bash the man in that scenario. you have to bash both of them. which is what a majority of people ITT seem to be agreeing on. bad people exist in both sexes.

Again that is basically saying men are weak, he could of walked away and didn't. Still does not make the girl a slut.

so- please clarify because i'm having a hard time with what you're saying. if a man is in a relationship and cheats, he is a pig- but if a girl knows the man is in a relationship, and cheats with him, then he is weak and she is not a "slut"?

i cannot agree with that. i'd call them both pigs. and i say that having cheated more than once in my life. i know i was a pig.

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SassyMommasaurus wrote: »

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SassyMommasaurus wrote: »

I can't stand it when girls are like "oh my man cheated on me with this slut" no hunny, your boy is a pig, doesn't make the other girl a slut because your sh!tty boy couldn't keep it in his pants.

Nice girls don't meet fellas in the park in the middle of the night...

You don't know what happened, and yeah they do, a guy talks her up, says, hey, meet me here. Does not make her a slut.

And girls who enjoy sex, still aren't sluts.

i'd say replace "girls" with "people" and you're doing great.

i agree that the girl might not necessarily have been up to no good, but she was def naive if she's meeting new and strange men in the park at night. that's just a risk that most likely doesn't meet the reward.

now- if he wasn't new and strange to her, maybe they knew each other, most likely she knew he was in a relationship, and so she prob did go to the park with bad decisions on her mind.

No, girls, because it's always girls who are slut shammed. Guy can have sex with hundreds and all they get is a pat on the back. Girls do it and shes a slut.

you literally just slut shamed guys on the last page- "pig" and "sh!tty" in the same post as well. its not always girls.



besides the point anyhow- this particular woman feels this particular girl is/was indeed acting inappropriate around her man. what we/society think doesn't matter.

He isn't single and *kitten* a hundred girls. He's cheating. Not the same thing.

but you didn't address it in my last post to you either though- what if this girl knew he was in a relationship as well? the likelihood of that is probably higher than her not knowing anything about him, given how the OP seems to feel about it all and based on what she's said.

you can't just bash the man in that scenario. you have to bash both of them. which is what a majority of people ITT seem to be agreeing on. bad people exist in both sexes.

Again that is basically saying men are weak, he could of walked away and didn't. Still does not make the girl a slut.

so- please clarify because i'm having a hard time with what you're saying. if a man is in a relationship and cheats, he is a pig- but if a girl knows the man is in a relationship, and cheats with him, then he is weak and she is not a "slut"?

i cannot agree with that. i'd call them both pigs. and i say that having cheated more than once in my life. i know i was a pig.

You do realize that most women that are the other women, know about the wife/girlfriend. A lot of the time the guy is saying, he'll leave his wife/girlfriend that he loves her and she's the only girl for him. So a girl who was suckered in by a guy is a slut?

thequeena47 wrote: »

none of this has anything to do with health and fitness, diet or nutrition, which is what i come to these forums for. Perhaps the whole sordid tale can be concluded now?