Cheating!!
Replies
-
This might get as good as the douchbag thread from yesterday..
1 -
_A_Real_Mouthful wrote: »SassyMommasaurus wrote: »_A_Real_Mouthful wrote: »SassyMommasaurus wrote: »_A_Real_Mouthful wrote: »SassyMommasaurus wrote: »_A_Real_Mouthful wrote: »SassyMommasaurus wrote: »_A_Real_Mouthful wrote: »SassyMommasaurus wrote: »Sugar_Pill wrote: »SassyMommasaurus wrote: »I can't stand it when girls are like "oh my man cheated on me with this slut" no hunny, your boy is a pig, doesn't make the other girl a slut because your sh!tty boy couldn't keep it in his pants.
Nice girls don't meet fellas in the park in the middle of the night...
You don't know what happened, and yeah they do, a guy talks her up, says, hey, meet me here. Does not make her a slut.
And girls who enjoy sex, still aren't sluts.
i'd say replace "girls" with "people" and you're doing great.
i agree that the girl might not necessarily have been up to no good, but she was def naive if she's meeting new and strange men in the park at night. that's just a risk that most likely doesn't meet the reward.
now- if he wasn't new and strange to her, maybe they knew each other, most likely she knew he was in a relationship, and so she prob did go to the park with bad decisions on her mind.
No, girls, because it's always girls who are slut shammed. Guy can have sex with hundreds and all they get is a pat on the back. Girls do it and shes a slut.
you literally just slut shamed guys on the last page- "pig" and "sh!tty" in the same post as well. its not always girls.
besides the point anyhow- this particular woman feels this particular girl is/was indeed acting inappropriate around her man. what we/society think doesn't matter.
He isn't single and *kitten* a hundred girls. He's cheating. Not the same thing.
but you didn't address it in my last post to you either though- what if this girl knew he was in a relationship as well? the likelihood of that is probably higher than her not knowing anything about him, given how the OP seems to feel about it all and based on what she's said.
you can't just bash the man in that scenario. you have to bash both of them. which is what a majority of people ITT seem to be agreeing on. bad people exist in both sexes.
Again that is basically saying men are weak, he could of walked away and didn't. Still does not make the girl a slut.
so- please clarify because i'm having a hard time with what you're saying. if a man is in a relationship and cheats, he is a pig- but if a girl knows the man is in a relationship, and cheats with him, then he is weak and she is not a "slut"?
i cannot agree with that. i'd call them both pigs. and i say that having cheated more than once in my life. i know i was a pig.
You do realize that most women that are the other women, know about the wife/girlfriend. A lot of the time the guy is saying, he'll leave his wife/girlfriend that he loves her and she's the only girl for him. So a girl who was suckered in by a guy is a slut?
please that is what I'm asking you. what would YOU call the girl in this scenario?
I would call her his new girlfriend and say have fun and good luck. I don't blame the girl for what happened because I can't be 100% sure what happened. So I sure as hell wouldn't call her a slut.
0 -
Doesn't want paid child support anyways0
-
GOODBYE FOR GOOD DONE COMING ON HERE...0
-
Edited: I was too late. Sigh.
2 -
Good luck Sonia! 1 -
Sugar_Pill wrote: »PS: I think this went pretty well TBH- Nice work chit chatters!
Naahh.. we were just called trolls.. but i do not feel ashamed..1 -
GOODBYE FOR GOOD DONE COMING ON HERE...I'm done with this goodbyeI'm gonna stop . Changing the subject. I thought u guys will help me what to do STAY WITH HIM OR NOT. But it doesn't seem like it at a all . So I'm letting it go leaving byeYou rude I'm done being here. I thought I would get some help. But I guess not!! Goodbye
Wasta of my time talking some of use . So done have a good day GOODBYE
10 to 1 she'll be back.4 -
Well I'm strong . I beat the *kitten* outto her stupid Slut she is. She was married but her husband left her from other girl . Cause she cheated on him now
That's *kitten*ed up. Your boyfriend is the one who made promises to you and broke them, not her, so why physically attack her. Hitting people isn't a good way to deal with conflict but someone who doesn't owe you a *kitten*ing thing. Get help.2 -
CatMoves2718 wrote: »Well I'm strong . I beat the *kitten* outto her stupid Slut she is. She was married but her husband left her from other girl . Cause she cheated on him now
That's *kitten*ed up. Your boyfriend is the one who made promises to you and broke them, not her, so why physically attack her. Hitting people isn't a good way to deal with conflict but someone who doesn't owe you a *kitten*ing thing. Get help.
I can't take you serious in a thread like this whilst hanging upside down on a stripper pole :laugh:5 -
_incogNEATo_ wrote: »CatMoves2718 wrote: »Well I'm strong . I beat the *kitten* outto her stupid Slut she is. She was married but her husband left her from other girl . Cause she cheated on him now
That's *kitten*ed up. Your boyfriend is the one who made promises to you and broke them, not her, so why physically attack her. Hitting people isn't a good way to deal with conflict but someone who doesn't owe you a *kitten*ing thing. Get help.
I can't take you serious in a thread like this whilst hanging upside down on a stripper pole :laugh:
You try that particular pose sometime and then we can discuss respect.5 -
_incogNEATo_ wrote: »SassyMommasaurus wrote: »I can't stand it when girls are like "oh my man cheated on me with this slut" no hunny, your boy is a pig, doesn't make the other girl a slut because your sh!tty boy couldn't keep it in his pants.
I don't think cheating makes anybody anything other than bored.
@_incogNEATo_ if they only saw our scorecards.........
0 -
CatMoves2718 wrote: »_incogNEATo_ wrote: »CatMoves2718 wrote: »Well I'm strong . I beat the *kitten* outto her stupid Slut she is. She was married but her husband left her from other girl . Cause she cheated on him now
That's *kitten*ed up. Your boyfriend is the one who made promises to you and broke them, not her, so why physically attack her. Hitting people isn't a good way to deal with conflict but someone who doesn't owe you a *kitten*ing thing. Get help.
I can't take you serious in a thread like this whilst hanging upside down on a stripper pole :laugh:
You try that particular pose sometime and then we can discuss respect.
Puhhhlease!! I said nothing about respect. You strippers are always the first ones demanding respect...
And my children's college is paid for so I have no reason to try any of your poses.2 -
This content has been removed.
-
This content has been removed.
-
This content has been removed.
-
_incogNEATo_ wrote: »CatMoves2718 wrote: »_incogNEATo_ wrote: »CatMoves2718 wrote: »Well I'm strong . I beat the *kitten* outto her stupid Slut she is. She was married but her husband left her from other girl . Cause she cheated on him now
That's *kitten*ed up. Your boyfriend is the one who made promises to you and broke them, not her, so why physically attack her. Hitting people isn't a good way to deal with conflict but someone who doesn't owe you a *kitten*ing thing. Get help.
I can't take you serious in a thread like this whilst hanging upside down on a stripper pole :laugh:
You try that particular pose sometime and then we can discuss respect.
Puhhhlease!! I said nothing about respect. You strippers are always the first ones demanding respect...
And my children's college is paid for so I have no reason to try any of your poses.
You mentioned "taking [me] serious". Perhaps I should rephrase... but I'm sure you can manage the word substitution.
Strippers provide a service people are eager to pay for and they don't hurt anyone. There is absolutely no shame in their game. That said, I've never stripped for money--I have too little patience for men's *kitten*. I have a Ph.D., and my professional job (in a male dominated field, no less) has paid for years of pole dance classes. I pole for the sheer joy and physical challenge of it. If the best argument you have against what I am saying is that I'm on a pole, that's a pretty lame argument. Assaulting people is wrong. Period. (Defense of self or others is a different issue--before you try to go there.) Blaming another person for your partner's real or perceived misdeeds is counter-productive. I'm married, and if my husband ever cheated on me, that's on him.*He* is the one who made me a promise, no one else.4 -
CatMoves2718 wrote: »_incogNEATo_ wrote: »CatMoves2718 wrote: »_incogNEATo_ wrote: »CatMoves2718 wrote: »Well I'm strong . I beat the *kitten* outto her stupid Slut she is. She was married but her husband left her from other girl . Cause she cheated on him now
That's *kitten*ed up. Your boyfriend is the one who made promises to you and broke them, not her, so why physically attack her. Hitting people isn't a good way to deal with conflict but someone who doesn't owe you a *kitten*ing thing. Get help.
I can't take you serious in a thread like this whilst hanging upside down on a stripper pole :laugh:
You try that particular pose sometime and then we can discuss respect.
Puhhhlease!! I said nothing about respect. You strippers are always the first ones demanding respect...
And my children's college is paid for so I have no reason to try any of your poses.
You mentioned "taking [me] serious". Perhaps I should rephrase... but I'm sure you can manage the word substitution.
Strippers provide a service people are eager to pay for and they don't hurt anyone. There is absolutely no shame in their game. That said, I've never stripped for money--I have too little patience for men's *kitten*. I have a Ph.D., and my professional job (in a male dominated field, no less) has paid for years of pole dance classes. I pole for the sheer joy and physical challenge of it. If the best argument you have against what I am saying is that I'm on a pole, that's a pretty lame argument. Assaulting people is wrong. Period. (Defense of self or others is a different issue--before you try to go there.) Blaming another person for your partner's real or perceived misdeeds is counter-productive. I'm married, and if my husband ever cheated on me, that's on him.*He* is the one who made me a promise, no one else.
So how much do you charge for personal 1 on 1 pole dancing 'classes?'0 -
CatMoves2718 wrote: »_incogNEATo_ wrote: »CatMoves2718 wrote: »_incogNEATo_ wrote: »CatMoves2718 wrote: »Well I'm strong . I beat the *kitten* outto her stupid Slut she is. She was married but her husband left her from other girl . Cause she cheated on him now
That's *kitten*ed up. Your boyfriend is the one who made promises to you and broke them, not her, so why physically attack her. Hitting people isn't a good way to deal with conflict but someone who doesn't owe you a *kitten*ing thing. Get help.
I can't take you serious in a thread like this whilst hanging upside down on a stripper pole :laugh:
You try that particular pose sometime and then we can discuss respect.
Puhhhlease!! I said nothing about respect. You strippers are always the first ones demanding respect...
And my children's college is paid for so I have no reason to try any of your poses.
You mentioned "taking [me] serious". Perhaps I should rephrase... but I'm sure you can manage the word substitution.
Strippers provide a service people are eager to pay for and they don't hurt anyone. There is absolutely no shame in their game. That said, I've never stripped for money--I have too little patience for men's *kitten*. I have a Ph.D., and my professional job (in a male dominated field, no less) has paid for years of pole dance classes. I pole for the sheer joy and physical challenge of it. If the best argument you have against what I am saying is that I'm on a pole, that's a pretty lame argument. Assaulting people is wrong. Period. (Defense of self or others is a different issue--before you try to go there.) Blaming another person for your partner's real or perceived misdeeds is counter-productive. I'm married, and if my husband ever cheated on me, that's on him.*He* is the one who made me a promise, no one else.
I'm so sorry you took the time to write all of that. I don't care.7 -
Sugar_Pill wrote: »CatMoves2718 wrote: »_incogNEATo_ wrote: »CatMoves2718 wrote: »_incogNEATo_ wrote: »CatMoves2718 wrote: »Well I'm strong . I beat the *kitten* outto her stupid Slut she is. She was married but her husband left her from other girl . Cause she cheated on him now
That's *kitten*ed up. Your boyfriend is the one who made promises to you and broke them, not her, so why physically attack her. Hitting people isn't a good way to deal with conflict but someone who doesn't owe you a *kitten*ing thing. Get help.
I can't take you serious in a thread like this whilst hanging upside down on a stripper pole :laugh:
You try that particular pose sometime and then we can discuss respect.
Puhhhlease!! I said nothing about respect. You strippers are always the first ones demanding respect...
And my children's college is paid for so I have no reason to try any of your poses.
You mentioned "taking [me] serious". Perhaps I should rephrase... but I'm sure you can manage the word substitution.
Strippers provide a service people are eager to pay for and they don't hurt anyone. There is absolutely no shame in their game. That said, I've never stripped for money--I have too little patience for men's *kitten*. I have a Ph.D., and my professional job (in a male dominated field, no less) has paid for years of pole dance classes. I pole for the sheer joy and physical challenge of it. If the best argument you have against what I am saying is that I'm on a pole, that's a pretty lame argument. Assaulting people is wrong. Period. (Defense of self or others is a different issue--before you try to go there.) Blaming another person for your partner's real or perceived misdeeds is counter-productive. I'm married, and if my husband ever cheated on me, that's on him.*He* is the one who made me a promise, no one else.
To merge your two points: While strippers would hold no responsibility when it came to their job hurting a marriage- the same isn't true for the situation presented here today.
I don't think the "other woman" was ever blamed, but did she hold fault (again- were still under the impression she knew he was married)- OP probably shouldn't have assaulted her- HOWEVER, that doesn't negate the fact that a woman who would sleep with a (practically) married man is in fact- an *kitten*.
Is the boyfriend a bigger *kitten*?! Absolutely. But the idea that one party shouldn't hold some responsibility is absurd- thats an ugly human.
Even if you think someone is an ugly human, that does not mean you have the right to assault them. If you think it does, and you think it's okay to go around bragging about it on the internet, it might be time to see a mental health professional.3 -
Cutaway_Collar wrote: »Why is someone who posted an opinion getting attacked?
Because if you don't have the 'popular' opinion you're just wrong...............2 -
Cutaway_Collar wrote: »
Does it feel good?
Oh, he asks everybody this. (Insert: condescending face bow tie emoji) I think he's looking for ideas on how to feel good.
3 -
^ LOL.2
-
This content has been removed.
-
This went from 0 to 100 so damn fast. Omg1
-
Oh the amount of people who get got on the interwebz ... seriously though OP (if you happen to come back) NEVER marry someone just cause' you have a kid with them. Postpone said wedding, go to counseling, and work/figure things out from there.1
Categories
- All Categories
- 1.4M Health, Wellness and Goals
- 393.4K Introduce Yourself
- 43.8K Getting Started
- 260.2K Health and Weight Loss
- 175.9K Food and Nutrition
- 47.4K Recipes
- 232.5K Fitness and Exercise
- 424 Sleep, Mindfulness and Overall Wellness
- 6.5K Goal: Maintaining Weight
- 8.5K Goal: Gaining Weight and Body Building
- 153K Motivation and Support
- 8K Challenges
- 1.3K Debate Club
- 96.3K Chit-Chat
- 2.5K Fun and Games
- 3.7K MyFitnessPal Information
- 24 News and Announcements
- 1.1K Feature Suggestions and Ideas
- 2.6K MyFitnessPal Tech Support Questions