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  • Posts: 5,332 Member
    King_Spicy wrote: »
    It's gonna go the same. I'm here to tell you that legit men aren't looking on tinder.

    :astonished:
    Totally giving up on online dating soon.
  • Posts: 2,817 Member
    melmelw03 wrote: »
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    I also would like an answer to this.

    At this age when I see "never been married, no kids" it's usually a red flag.
    If half my mfp guy friends didn't live several states away, this whole thing would be a lot easier for me!

    I know @melmelw03! I honestly think that I'd date any of the guys on my FL...except the married ones, of course lolol
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  • Posts: 2,817 Member
    I think my biggest issue is the distance thing. I set mine to 12 miles, but I live in Northern NJ so my matches are all in Manhattan. Dating is hard enough without putting a huge body of water, bridges and tunnels in it.
  • Posts: 22,834 Member
    Sugar_Pill wrote: »
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    I'm a certified preparer- I do payroll for a living :lol:

    Awesome. I don't need you to verify the stallion part.
  • Posts: 1,204 Member
    LOVE ISN'T REAL, BUT ORGASMS ARE. - Tinder
  • Posts: 140 Member
    Go over to the 'Fun&Games' section. Lots of connections going on there.
  • Posts: 10,968 Member
    melmelw03 wrote: »
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    I also would like an answer to this.

    At this age when I see "never been married, no kids" it's usually a red flag.
    If half my mfp guy friends didn't live several states away, this whole thing would be a lot easier for me!

    You want to adopt someone else's kids?
  • Posts: 3,861 Member
    I just signed up for match.com because I'm dumb. We'll see tho...
  • Posts: 295 Member
    I use Tinder because I'm too cheap to pay for a booty call. Plus the paid sites offer booty call with lifetime commitment. No thanks.
  • Posts: 5,332 Member
    NorthCascades wrote: »
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    You want to adopt someone else's kids?

    I'm 36, most guys my age or older (I prefer older) have usually had kids and/or been married. If not, it's kind of a warning sign. Also, if he doesn't have any kids, I find it's not an automatic easy fit for me, since I have 2.
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  • Posts: 140 Member
    Try okcupid. It used to be all free, then match.com bought it and it's only mostly free. If nothing else, it is fun to answer the personality questions.
  • Posts: 22,834 Member
    edwardetr wrote: »
    Try okcupid. It used to be all free, then match.com bought it and it's only mostly free. If nothing else, it is fun to answer the personality questions.

    I did that back in 2004 because it was fun. The forums were completely open then too so the image posting was excellent.
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    NorthCascades wrote: »
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    That makes perfect sense. There's no point wasting your time with somebody that won't work. Everybody has their own ways of recognizing when that's the case, and it's smart.

    But I hope you don't think not having children is any kind of personal failure. A lot of people just don't want children, for all kinds of reasons, a lot of which have nothing to do with maturity or responsibility. Some people just don't want them. Those people likely won't be compatible with you and there's no reason to put your time or energy into them, but I hope you don't look at it like they've failed to achieve what everybody should want.

    No not at all. I've dated someone who did not have his own kids, and although he said it wasn't an issue that I did....it did create some issues. Scheduling time alone together, he feeling the need to be authoritative, not really understanding completely how or why I parented a certain way. For me...I just think it's a better fit if they have a common understanding. I don't judge them if they have no kids.
  • Posts: 3,099 Member
    edited August 2016
    I believe that the difference is between a man that wants children but doesn't have them because he's sterile or hadn't found a woman, that he'd believe'd be a suitable mother & 1 whom dispute having the ability/a suitable woman available to him, just didn't desire to have them. So for me, the why he doesn't have children matters; not that he doesn't have children.
  • Posts: 4,902 Member
    x downloads Tinder x

    OP, I'm happy to volunteer to research this important question for scientific purposes...
  • Posts: 2,692 Member
    Jonesingmucho wrote: »
    x downloads Tinder x

    OP, I'm happy to volunteer to research this important question for scientific purposes...

    I think I shall download Tinder too. It sounds fun.
  • Posts: 522 Member
    edited August 2016
    PlaydohPants wrote: »
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    And throwing balls at their face only works some of the time.

    :D:D
  • Posts: 15,573 Member
    Not necessarily, but they'd all take one.
  • Posts: 1,826 Member
    I might have to join ...
  • Posts: 141 Member
    That is what tinder is all about... Be ware of the guys who hit you up for money.
  • Posts: 369 Member
    It's odd. I was told it was another dating app/site, but from talking with other guys that apparently is not what they were ever told. Definitely most guys think it's for hook-ups.
  • Posts: 7,682 Member
    well my sons friend met his wife on tinder. they started dating and have been married about a year,so I guess you could find a real relationship on there.
  • Posts: 1,682 Member
    I've only met one other guy from there and he was ok. He was an actor and name-dropped a lot and talk a lot of "the business we call show". Kinda boring but it wasn't awful.

    I have my 4th ever Tinder date this weekend. So we'll see how that goes. [/quote]

    He really used that? "This business we call show"? As a professional actor myself, you should have pimp slapped him upside his douchewad face.
  • Posts: 308 Member
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
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    Damn bro you need to change your search settings a bit...18's a bit young no?

    age ain't nothin but a #
  • Posts: 514 Member
    I guess it comes in handy if you're looking for a good lay. But hey, doesn't anyone want a real relationship anymore?
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