Can we make it work?

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  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
    Can what work? There's so relationship there.
    Just some dude you're chatting with when he feels like it.

    OP, save this post somewhere so you can laugh at it a few years from now.
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    salembambi wrote: »
    nope

    break up and move on
    Gots2Bfitter wrote: »
    Dump his *kitten*

    How is she in a position to dump anyone? Break up with who??
  • singingflutelady
    singingflutelady Posts: 8,736 Member
    edited September 2016
    Exactly. He already dumped her
  • DetroitDarin
    DetroitDarin Posts: 955 Member
    No relationship worth ANYTHING must be 'made' to work. Face forward and focus on yourself - start walking.
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  • Alluminati
    Alluminati Posts: 6,208 Member
    Psst......slush, slush,slush.

    Just slush dem tires.
  • rebel_26
    rebel_26 Posts: 1,826 Member
    lol at flagging my rabbit post. I was just providing a visual for what a previous poster said...to boot its a stuffed rabbit I could have gone much worse.
  • Alluminati
    Alluminati Posts: 6,208 Member
    rebel_26 wrote: »
    lol at flagging my rabbit post. I was just providing a visual for what a previous poster said...to boot its a stuffed rabbit I could have gone much worse.

    Shh. You're just begging to get slushed.
  • snickerscharlie
    snickerscharlie Posts: 8,578 Member
    newmeadow wrote: »
    Alluminati wrote: »
    Psst......slush, slush,slush.

    Just slush dem tires.

    I totally forgot about the slushing chronicles. Now it's all coming back to me. You might just be onto something...

    Didn't it get a little scary at one point?

    Several points. ;)
  • camoballerina91
    camoballerina91 Posts: 257 Member
    In my opinion I don't think it was ever destine to work out. I can see, especially by this post, that you wanted it to work more than he did (his last message to you is a big indicator as well). The fact that you two were having "scheduling" problems before the incident and that you tried and failed to make it work before shows that it just wasn't meant to be. I believe you did over react a bit by sending so many texts after he blew you off, but I also believe that if he really cared and really wanted to talk to you then he would have told you he couldn't make it.

    I don't think you should beat yourself up about it though. It's not your fault, it was just never meant to be. You need to focus on you and your life. You'll find the right guy, and hopefully he'll live close by so you won't have to worry with Skype.
  • Tanie98
    Tanie98 Posts: 675 Member
    UPDATE

    So he got back in contact and apologize about how he treated me.We both admitted that we over reacted so I decided to let it slide given the history we have...I mean it only happened once. We have been in daily contact now and he is driving down here to see me next weekend

    Thank you everyone for your answers
  • jenilla1
    jenilla1 Posts: 11,118 Member
    Haven't you wasted enough time on this guy? In my opinion, once a relationship dies, it should stay dead. Move on to better days.
  • sunnybeaches105
    sunnybeaches105 Posts: 2,831 Member
    Um. I doubt he thinks you're even a "thing" to make work.
  • sunnybeaches105
    sunnybeaches105 Posts: 2,831 Member
    jenilla1 wrote: »
    Haven't you wasted enough time on this guy? In my opinion, once a relationship dies, it should stay dead. Move on to better days.

    Some people like to beat a dead horse, and others, well, others like to do something a bit different with that dead horse
  • Tanie98
    Tanie98 Posts: 675 Member
    AmandaHugginkiss wrote: »
    Tanie98 wrote: »
    UPDATE

    So he got back in contact and apologize about how he treated me.We both admitted that we over reacted so I decided to let it slide given the history we have...I mean it only happened once. We have been in daily contact now and he is driving down here to see me next weekend

    Thank you everyone for your answers

    Nope nope nope.

    No.

    If he doesn't cancel, it's strictly a booty call. Don't get your hopes up, unless your only goal is to get laid.

    This wouldn't even be FWB. This is straight up FB at best.

    lmaoo why would someone drive 4 hours strictly for a booty call?Not to mention booked 5 days off at work to spend time with me. I certainly wouldn't make that effort if I wasn't into someone

  • Coachjr29
    Coachjr29 Posts: 81 Member
    Dump him like taking off a bandage. One full swoop, a little pain, and move on.
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    Tanie98 wrote: »
    UPDATE

    So he got back in contact and apologize about how he treated me.We both admitted that we over reacted so I decided to let it slide given the history we have...I mean it only happened once. We have been in daily contact now and he is driving down here to see me next weekend

    Thank you everyone for your answers

    Sidepieces gonna Sidepiece
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    Tanie98 wrote: »
    AmandaHugginkiss wrote: »
    Tanie98 wrote: »
    UPDATE

    So he got back in contact and apologize about how he treated me.We both admitted that we over reacted so I decided to let it slide given the history we have...I mean it only happened once. We have been in daily contact now and he is driving down here to see me next weekend

    Thank you everyone for your answers

    Nope nope nope.

    No.

    If he doesn't cancel, it's strictly a booty call. Don't get your hopes up, unless your only goal is to get laid.

    This wouldn't even be FWB. This is straight up FB at best.

    lmaoo why would someone drive 4 hours strictly for a booty call?Not to mention booked 5 days off at work to spend time with me. I certainly wouldn't make that effort if I wasn't into someone

    So much sidepiecing
  • jaxass
    jaxass Posts: 2,128 Member
    Am I the only one who thinks this isn't going to end well? I think the guy is playing one hell of a game and getting away with it. One thing I do know...his game is working on Tanie98.

    Smart move, mister...smart move!
  • MonkeyMel21
    MonkeyMel21 Posts: 2,396 Member
    bahahahaha! You just typed out the whole convo for us. This is why I stopped dating women and why I married a man that doesn't tolerate drama (well, he did tolerate it before me, apparently, but is very thankful that he doesn't have to anymore).


    To answer your question, no. And I suggest next time you get in to a similar situation, never text back more than 2 times with out receiving a reply.
  • arleban
    arleban Posts: 369 Member
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
    yay

    giphy.gif

    But all that interweb drama we get to feast on...
  • snickerscharlie
    snickerscharlie Posts: 8,578 Member
    Nice story, brah.
  • DetroitDarin
    DetroitDarin Posts: 955 Member
    jaxass wrote: »
    Am I the only one who thinks this isn't going to end well? I think the guy is playing one hell of a game and getting away with it. One thing I do know...his game is working on Tanie98.

    Smart move, mister...smart move!

    I think everyone but the OP thinks this will end poorly. She should dump him and date me - I'm really a good guy :)
  • camoballerina91
    camoballerina91 Posts: 257 Member
    Tanie98 wrote: »
    AmandaHugginkiss wrote: »
    Tanie98 wrote: »
    UPDATE

    So he got back in contact and apologize about how he treated me.We both admitted that we over reacted so I decided to let it slide given the history we have...I mean it only happened once. We have been in daily contact now and he is driving down here to see me next weekend

    Thank you everyone for your answers

    Nope nope nope.

    No.

    If he doesn't cancel, it's strictly a booty call. Don't get your hopes up, unless your only goal is to get laid.

    This wouldn't even be FWB. This is straight up FB at best.

    lmaoo why would someone drive 4 hours strictly for a booty call?Not to mention booked 5 days off at work to spend time with me. I certainly wouldn't make that effort if I wasn't into someone

    You'd be surprised honey.

    Best of luck to you either way.
  • rebel_26
    rebel_26 Posts: 1,826 Member
    DetroitDarin wrote: »
    jaxass wrote: »
    Am I the only one who thinks this isn't going to end well? I think the guy is playing one hell of a game and getting away with it. One thing I do know...his game is working on Tanie98.

    Smart move, mister...smart move!

    I think everyone but the OP thinks this will end poorly. She should dump him and date me - I'm really a good guy :)
    Well played sir well played.
  • JukeboxHeroine
    JukeboxHeroine Posts: 348 Member
    DetroitDarin wrote: »
    jaxass wrote: »
    Am I the only one who thinks this isn't going to end well? I think the guy is playing one hell of a game and getting away with it. One thing I do know...his game is working on Tanie98.

    Smart move, mister...smart move!

    I think everyone but the OP thinks this will end poorly. She should dump him and date me - I'm really a good guy :)

    Didn't you say this to me last week? Or a variation of the same?
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