Can a 19 year old guy be with 38 years old woman
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If you ask such stupid questions then you don't have the confidence to be with an older woman.6
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As a 42 year old Mom of sons that are 20 and 19. There isn't one single trait that would cause me to go "Stilflers Mom" on any single one of the young men my boys are friends with. They are children in every sense minus legal age!
Heck, I'm not even sure my 44 year old husband is grown up enough yet and I've been with him since he was a 19 year old.
And Taco Bell, Natty Light, and hit off a questionable bong just don't do it for me ya know.
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Absolutely!0
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TavistockToad wrote: »ValerieMartini2Olives wrote: »I'm 32 and would never hook up with someone under 25. 30 is about as young as I am willing to go.
Hook up with, yes!
Actually go out with, no way!
Even hook ups under 25 are a no no for me. I don't want to have to hold someone's hand and teach them how to do things. I'm experienced and know what I like and expect the same. I appreciate the stamina of someone young, but stamina doesn't necessarily make sex good.4 -
ValerieMartini2Olives wrote: »TavistockToad wrote: »ValerieMartini2Olives wrote: »I'm 32 and would never hook up with someone under 25. 30 is about as young as I am willing to go.
Hook up with, yes!
Actually go out with, no way!
Even hook ups under 25 are a no no for me. I don't want to have to hold someone's hand and teach them how to do things. I'm experienced and know what I like and expect the same. I appreciate the stamina of someone young, but stamina doesn't necessarily make sex good.
totally agree haha stamina does not make for good sex. that comes from feeling that connection which in turn ignites passion. where there is passion, there is the desire to please and so on and so forth lol3 -
I'm 40 and have nothing in common with 19 year olds....5
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singingflutelady wrote: »I'm 40 and have nothing in common with 19 year olds....
exactly - i would feel like i was babysitting lol4 -
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Do most of the women like young boys?
Why is it said that girl should be smaller than you?
A guy being in relationship with elder women is some kind of taboo?
majority of men like milfs why?
Alot of questions coming into my mind by watching a movie name "A Teacher".
Historically women probably married older men because they were more settled and prosperous... better providers, better connections. So it is the custom in many cultures.
Most women marry men who are the same age or 4-5 years older. A 19 year age gap is uncommon.
If you are wanting an actual long term relationship with an older person- not just sex- there could be some difficulties due to the age-life experience gap. Most women would not want take a relationship with a 19 year old seriously.
I married a man 6 years younger than me when he was 19. I did not go looking for someone younger than me. I was not and am not attracted to young boys. He was a very mature person and we had many things in common. I still had reservations about his age when I found out and this was only 6 years gap.
We have been married almost 17 years now. There were some issues I think early on with his friends being in a very different place in their lives (living with parents,college, partying) while he was independent, getting married, working, having a child. We had some bad reactions from family and friends because he was 19 and I was older.
A 19 year age gap seems like it would be even more difficult socially unless both people were over 30 years and relatively more settled in life and common experiences.1 -
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Yeah, I think for the vast, vast majority of young guys who go for "MILFs", it's a status thing, and a notch in the headboard, not actually a genuine attraction to older women.0
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Have dated 6 years older and 7 years younger, and a whole lot in between. The best relationships were always with women same age or older but who also had a zest for life (enjoyed hiking, working out etc.)
Age has no correlation on the type of relationship you will have. It is truly just a number. I promise.3 -
Do most of the women like young boys?
Why is it said that girl should be smaller than you?
A guy being in relationship with elder women is some kind of taboo?
majority of men like milfs why?
Alot of questions coming into my mind by watching a movie name "A Teacher".
1. Do most of the women like young boys? A: The key word here is the word 'boys', not men.
2. Why is it said that girl should be smaller than you? A: I have never heard of this and I have been around awhile. My wife is smaller then me, but I was 6', so the average woman is going to be smaller then me, even after I have shrunk a bit now that I am older
3. A guy being in relationship with elder women is some kind of taboo? A: It depends on what your definition of relationship is. I had a great relationship with my Mother, it was not taboo. You are suppose to have a good relationship with both your parents. If you are talking about romance, then it will have some unique challenges that most couples do not work out in the long run.
4. majority of men like milfs why? A: The majority of women appreciate a man's body. That does not mean there is going to be a meaningful relationship. I can appreciate a nice looking woman (no matter what the age), that does not mean we are going to have a relationship.2 -
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I'm 39 and there is no way in hell I would even hook up with a 19 year old, let alone "date" one.2
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Do most of the women like young boys?
Why is it said that girl should be smaller than you?
A guy being in relationship with elder women is some kind of taboo?
majority of men like milfs why?
Alot of questions coming into my mind by watching a movie name "A Teacher".
47 here, and I don't enjoy talking with men under 30....looking at them, yes....talking? Not so much! No offense!0 -
I guess OP can't handle the truth. :laugh:2
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I could never date a boy that is 19. I would still be calling him baby.1
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Well, men have their sexual peak around 18...for women, it is around 40. It makes sense to me--men in their 40s and 50s generally cannot keep up. At all.
19 is a bit young, but age gaps are far less important than the personalities of the people involved.1 -
I can relate to the OP in preferring women that were older than me. When I was 16 I had a ...well, I wouldn't call it a relationship, but it was more than just a hookup with a lady who was 16yrs older. Even today at 48, I smile when I think back to that positive experience with her.
I feel that if it makes the 2 of you happy, then age shouldn't be an issue.
One thing to consider... A good friend of mine married a girl who was 20 when he was 43. They have 2 wonderful children and have been together 22 years. Now though, he is 65 and has ED. His 42 yr old wife is incredibly frustrated by his failing body due to hereditary health issues.
He is so very distraught as he loves his family. The age difference wasn't a big deal at 20 and 43, but now at 42 and 65, their ages are a much bigger deal.2 -
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projectsix wrote: »As a 39 year old man, I say yes, all the power to them! I intend to trade my spouse in for 2 x 20 year olds once she turns 40.
i've gone so far as telling mine i'm trading her for 3x 20yo when she terns 60... she slept on the couch for 3 nights, which is weird because we have a "guest suite" and most of the kids have moved out of their rooms... for a total of 5 empty beds, yet she chose the couch, some people.3 -
I'm pretty sure the OP wasn't quite expecting some of the responses. Many people have also responded while including their own assumptions into the nature of the guy.
In the United States, we see it perfectly acceptable for a considerably older man to date a younger woman (age difference of 5+ years). While the reverse has a bit of a stigma (but diminishing from my perspective). In France, they have no such stigma about an older woman being with a younger man. I The nature of the relationship is entirely up to them. have no preference either way. My wife is 5 years older than me.
Our assumption is that it's physical only for him and probably physical for her, or maybe filling an emotional void, as stated by other posters. There is the potential for it to be lasting IF he is as or more mature than she is. For example, he's smart, ambitious, and already has his life goals set and is disciplined and actively working towards them. A vast majority of their beliefs, values, and interests must be compatible. Although possible, it's improbable to be anything lasting.
If I were single tomorrow, I most certainly would NOT be even interested in anyone quite so young. My head is in such a different place compared to then. It's difficult to explain the experience of those years to someone who has no foundation to even begin to comprehend it.6 -
Everyone likes different qualities in partners. I tend to go for guys about 10-15 years older than I am. Do whatever floats your boat.3
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azulvioleta6 wrote: »Well, men have their sexual peak around 18...for women, it is around 40. It makes sense to me--men in their 40s and 50s generally cannot keep up.
Meh. Total BS.
Men get to the 40's and 50's and look to younger women for exactly the same reasons women look to younger men. It isn't about energy, but the lack of excitement with who they are with and trying to recapture some part of their fleeting youth.
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