When your hubby has a head ache? We never
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6 yrs??? Dang...2
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It's been almost 2 years here and I am going effing crazy. Can not imagine 6. Mine at least completely crushed his pelvis and has a valid reason... oh and the fact that it's gotten to where he is such a dick I don't want him to touch me.2
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A relationship can't survive without sex. You need to talk to him about this as it's unreasonable for him to withhold sex (especially for 6 years). He will have his reasons and you may not like them but it's better to address that this is an issue.0
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RunHardBeStrong wrote: »It's been almost 2 years here and I am going effing crazy. Can not imagine 6. Mine at least completely crushed his pelvis and has a valid reason... oh and the fact that it's gotten to where he is such a dick I don't want him to touch me.
He's probably become a jerk because he's as sexually frustrated as you are, and probably insecure because he can't perform for you. Maybe if you tried a little touching. Stroke his head as you walk by. Or his arm. He'd probably be so shocked he might smile at you.5 -
thisonetimeatthegym wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »It's been almost 2 years here and I am going effing crazy. Can not imagine 6. Mine at least completely crushed his pelvis and has a valid reason... oh and the fact that it's gotten to where he is such a dick I don't want him to touch me.
He's probably become a jerk because he's as sexually frustrated as you are, and probably insecure because he can't perform for you. Maybe if you tried a little touching. Stroke his head as you walk by. Or his arm. He'd probably be so shocked he might smile at you.
Thank you but he was a jerk before his accident, it's only gotten worse. I know he is frustrated as am I, I understand that. I have done all the touching stuff, he doesn't reciprocate. It should be a two way street. We have been to a sex therapist and marriage therapy in the past year and a half. He chooses to continue to be mean and selfish.4 -
Spliner1969 wrote: »
he might be asexual or just have a low drive too. sexuality is actually a pretty wide spectrum. and compatibility is a thing - you can get two people who are miles apart on that spectrum and neither of them is unhealthy or wrong. they're just too different to mesh well together.
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Sex is good for the relief of headaches. He's probably got a headache from not busting in the past 6 years. Either that he hides in the bathroom with his cell phone for a bit after dinner...3
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Last time I checked when I have a headache and have sex it makes the headache go away, your endorphins, better than pain meds... maybe thats just me..
Do what the rest of the world does, get you a steady supply on the side...1 -
PowerMan40 wrote: »
Do what the rest of the world does, get you a steady supply on the side...
..........srsly?
Maybe I should have used sarcasm font...0 -
canadianlbs wrote: »Spliner1969 wrote: »
he might be asexual or just have a low drive too. sexuality is actually a pretty wide spectrum. and compatibility is a thing - you can get two people who are miles apart on that spectrum and neither of them is unhealthy or wrong. they're just too different to mesh well together.
Sounds like a medical issue to me if that's the case. It can be dealt with if there's the will to consult a doctor. I can see a delayed or lower sex drive making things go from the average every couple of weeks to every month or so, but 6 years? I stand by my assumptions.. something is wrong. I have a good friend who stays with his wife and they treat their marriage more like a business and they both see who they want, including each other if they feel like it. Each to their own I guess. But six years, maybe he has ED and just hasn't said anything. Again, a medical issue, one which can have other causes (not to mention serious causes).1 -
I am sure publicly embarrassing him will TOTALLY help.
Great job.3 -
OP really needs to come back and clarify.2
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This has got to be some kind of record.0
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The OP said she hasn't had sex with her husband in a number of years; there was no mention of anyone else.
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Speculation:
Think someone she knew saw this and she got embarrassed? Or is this a troll post?0 -
I can't help but think that it isn't hard to "get caught" by someone you'd rather not see what you posted. I hope that's not the case because we simply don't know her situation.1
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I can't help but think that it isn't hard to "get caught" by someone you'd rather not see what you posted. I hope that's not the case because we simply don't know her situation.
True. But it doesn't stop people using these forums to bad mouth their spouses and whine about their crappy relationships. Your spouse probably knows what user names you use, especially if you've been on here a while. I guess some people don't care, or maybe they want their spouse to see what they really think of them?1
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