Men would you date a pretty 200 pound woman?
rikkejanell2014
Posts: 312 Member
And she was working on her weight loss and has a goal to lose all her weight in a year?
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My husband did. Kept dating her when she hit 254lbs too. Married her about 210lbs, still married to her at 180lbs.26
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My husband did (even before I started working on my weight) and tells me he loves me and that I am beautiful. I am losing weight for me (to get healthy and to be able to enjoy a more active lifestyle).
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Alatariel75 wrote: »My husband did. Kept dating her when she hit 254lbs too. Married her about 210lbs, still married to her at 180lbs.
But you're also a nice person.8 -
Only if she wasn't a hater.13
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Hypothetically since I'm married and no longer able to date, (much to the disappointment of all of the women at my gym, who are obviously swooning over my every move).
(For example, just the other day this very attractive lady said this to me:
"Are you done using this bench press?"
I mean my god woman, can you make it any more obvious that you yearn for my loins?)
(And then there's the senior center where they put out the coffee.
Gertrude was pouring her coffee while watching CNN and she said "Cold out there today!"
Jeez woman control yourself. I know I'm a strapping bearded hunk of ginger manliness but come on, this is a family oriented building).
Where was I....
Oh yes, back to the original question
Yes, I absolutely could. I do think I would need to have some amount of attraction (just being honest here) but that's entirely possible and I certainly wouldn't have some sort of weight standard.
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Hypothetically since I'm married and no longer able to date, (much to the disappointment of all of the women at my gym, who are obviously swooning over my every move).
(For example, just the other day this very attractive lady said this to me:
"Are you done using this bench press?"
I mean my god woman, can you make it any more obvious that you yearn for my loins?)
(And then there's the senior center where they put out the coffee.
Gertrude was pouring her coffee while watching CNN and she said "Cold out there today!"
Jeez woman control yourself. I know I'm a strapping bearded hunk of ginger manliness but come on, this is a family oriented building).
Where was I....
Oh yes, back to the original question
Yes, I absolutely could. I do think I would need to have some amount of attraction (just being honest here) but that's entirely possible and I certainly wouldn't have some sort of weight standard.
:laugh:
Tell us more about this manliness
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nutmegoreo wrote: »Hypothetically since I'm married and no longer able to date, (much to the disappointment of all of the women at my gym, who are obviously swooning over my every move).
(For example, just the other day this very attractive lady said this to me:
"Are you done using this bench press?"
I mean my god woman, can you make it any more obvious that you yearn for my loins?)
(And then there's the senior center where they put out the coffee.
Gertrude was pouring her coffee while watching CNN and she said "Cold out there today!"
Jeez woman control yourself. I know I'm a strapping bearded hunk of ginger manliness but come on, this is a family oriented building).
Where was I....
Oh yes, back to the original question
Yes, I absolutely could. I do think I would need to have some amount of attraction (just being honest here) but that's entirely possible and I certainly wouldn't have some sort of weight standard.
:laugh:
Tell us more about this manliness
Just the other day, I was eating some cheddar habanero mango chicken sausages. And I ate them without cutting them, so I just stabbed them with a fork and bit into them. Because that's how men eat, dammit. I only used the fork because my wife and kids were staring at me.
Hot cheese shot out and landed on my lip, and literally burned the skin off of my lip.
I woke up today with a bloody lip.
What did I eat for lunch today?
TWO MORE SAUSAGES.
That's right, I'm like man of the year over here, holy eff.
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nutmegoreo wrote: »Hypothetically since I'm married and no longer able to date, (much to the disappointment of all of the women at my gym, who are obviously swooning over my every move).
(For example, just the other day this very attractive lady said this to me:
"Are you done using this bench press?"
I mean my god woman, can you make it any more obvious that you yearn for my loins?)
(And then there's the senior center where they put out the coffee.
Gertrude was pouring her coffee while watching CNN and she said "Cold out there today!"
Jeez woman control yourself. I know I'm a strapping bearded hunk of ginger manliness but come on, this is a family oriented building).
Where was I....
Oh yes, back to the original question
Yes, I absolutely could. I do think I would need to have some amount of attraction (just being honest here) but that's entirely possible and I certainly wouldn't have some sort of weight standard.
:laugh:
Tell us more about this manliness
Just the other day, I was eating some cheddar habanero mango chicken sausages. And I ate them without cutting them, so I just stabbed them with a fork and bit into them. Because that's how men eat, dammit. I only used the fork because my wife and kids were staring at me.
Hot cheese shot out and landed on my lip, and literally burned the skin off of my lip.
I woke up today with a bloody lip.
What did I eat for lunch today?
TWO MORE SAUSAGES.
That's right, I'm like man of the year over here, holy eff.
I think such claims of manliness require pictures :bigsmile:9 -
nutmegoreo wrote: »Hypothetically since I'm married and no longer able to date, (much to the disappointment of all of the women at my gym, who are obviously swooning over my every move).
(For example, just the other day this very attractive lady said this to me:
"Are you done using this bench press?"
I mean my god woman, can you make it any more obvious that you yearn for my loins?)
(And then there's the senior center where they put out the coffee.
Gertrude was pouring her coffee while watching CNN and she said "Cold out there today!"
Jeez woman control yourself. I know I'm a strapping bearded hunk of ginger manliness but come on, this is a family oriented building).
Where was I....
Oh yes, back to the original question
Yes, I absolutely could. I do think I would need to have some amount of attraction (just being honest here) but that's entirely possible and I certainly wouldn't have some sort of weight standard.
:laugh:
Tell us more about this manliness
Just the other day, I was eating some cheddar habanero mango chicken sausages. And I ate them without cutting them, so I just stabbed them with a fork and bit into them. Because that's how men eat, dammit. I only used the fork because my wife and kids were staring at me.
Hot cheese shot out and landed on my lip, and literally burned the skin off of my lip.
I woke up today with a bloody lip.
What did I eat for lunch today?
TWO MORE SAUSAGES.
That's right, I'm like man of the year over here, holy eff.
*swoon*7 -
nutmegoreo wrote: »nutmegoreo wrote: »Hypothetically since I'm married and no longer able to date, (much to the disappointment of all of the women at my gym, who are obviously swooning over my every move).
(For example, just the other day this very attractive lady said this to me:
"Are you done using this bench press?"
I mean my god woman, can you make it any more obvious that you yearn for my loins?)
(And then there's the senior center where they put out the coffee.
Gertrude was pouring her coffee while watching CNN and she said "Cold out there today!"
Jeez woman control yourself. I know I'm a strapping bearded hunk of ginger manliness but come on, this is a family oriented building).
Where was I....
Oh yes, back to the original question
Yes, I absolutely could. I do think I would need to have some amount of attraction (just being honest here) but that's entirely possible and I certainly wouldn't have some sort of weight standard.
:laugh:
Tell us more about this manliness
Just the other day, I was eating some cheddar habanero mango chicken sausages. And I ate them without cutting them, so I just stabbed them with a fork and bit into them. Because that's how men eat, dammit. I only used the fork because my wife and kids were staring at me.
Hot cheese shot out and landed on my lip, and literally burned the skin off of my lip.
I woke up today with a bloody lip.
What did I eat for lunch today?
TWO MORE SAUSAGES.
That's right, I'm like man of the year over here, holy eff.
I think such claims of manliness require pictures :bigsmile:
Funny enough, I do have some photos of my burned upper lip, my follow-up sausage lunch today, and some memes I made about it. But I'd hate to further derail this person's thread with....
....wait for it, omg hnnnngggggggg here comes the punch line
..with my sausage.
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nutmegoreo wrote: »nutmegoreo wrote: »Hypothetically since I'm married and no longer able to date, (much to the disappointment of all of the women at my gym, who are obviously swooning over my every move).
(For example, just the other day this very attractive lady said this to me:
"Are you done using this bench press?"
I mean my god woman, can you make it any more obvious that you yearn for my loins?)
(And then there's the senior center where they put out the coffee.
Gertrude was pouring her coffee while watching CNN and she said "Cold out there today!"
Jeez woman control yourself. I know I'm a strapping bearded hunk of ginger manliness but come on, this is a family oriented building).
Where was I....
Oh yes, back to the original question
Yes, I absolutely could. I do think I would need to have some amount of attraction (just being honest here) but that's entirely possible and I certainly wouldn't have some sort of weight standard.
:laugh:
Tell us more about this manliness
Just the other day, I was eating some cheddar habanero mango chicken sausages. And I ate them without cutting them, so I just stabbed them with a fork and bit into them. Because that's how men eat, dammit. I only used the fork because my wife and kids were staring at me.
Hot cheese shot out and landed on my lip, and literally burned the skin off of my lip.
I woke up today with a bloody lip.
What did I eat for lunch today?
TWO MORE SAUSAGES.
That's right, I'm like man of the year over here, holy eff.
I think such claims of manliness require pictures :bigsmile:
Funny enough, I do have some photos of my burned upper lip, my follow-up sausage lunch today, and some memes I made about it. But I'd hate to further derail this person's thread with....
....wait for it, omg hnnnngggggggg here comes the punch line
..with my sausage.
I can't tell you how much I needed to laugh tonight! Thank you...
OP, back to your thread:
I can't speak for men, but for myself I have dated men of all shapes and sizes. I find that when they are kind hearted, caring, giving of themselves, and are focused on others more than themselves it makes them more attractive. There are people who are just amazing, kind, and funny. Those people will always be able to draw others to them, regardless of looks or weight. People want to be around them, because they make them feel good about themselves and who they are.6 -
I have dated in the past larger men..what attracted me was their sense of humor and how confident they are. Some people are hung up on image..but we all are going to get old add on pounds and not be what we used to look like. A man or woman who loves u as is..is going to love you when u are more mature. If someone is only dating u for your outside..well they are just temporary stops..in your life. You are beautiful most when you love yourself. ..and THAT is not a size!5
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nutmegoreo wrote: »Hypothetically since I'm married and no longer able to date, (much to the disappointment of all of the women at my gym, who are obviously swooning over my every move).
(For example, just the other day this very attractive lady said this to me:
"Are you done using this bench press?"
I mean my god woman, can you make it any more obvious that you yearn for my loins?)
(And then there's the senior center where they put out the coffee.
Gertrude was pouring her coffee while watching CNN and she said "Cold out there today!"
Jeez woman control yourself. I know I'm a strapping bearded hunk of ginger manliness but come on, this is a family oriented building).
Where was I....
Oh yes, back to the original question
Yes, I absolutely could. I do think I would need to have some amount of attraction (just being honest here) but that's entirely possible and I certainly wouldn't have some sort of weight standard.
:laugh:
Tell us more about this manliness
Just the other day, I was eating some cheddar habanero mango chicken sausages. And I ate them without cutting them, so I just stabbed them with a fork and bit into them. Because that's how men eat, dammit. I only used the fork because my wife and kids were staring at me.
Hot cheese shot out and landed on my lip, and literally burned the skin off of my lip.
I woke up today with a bloody lip.
What did I eat for lunch today?
TWO MORE SAUSAGES.
That's right, I'm like man of the year over here, holy eff.
Just remember @SideSteel - to maintain your manly manhood, you have to always eat sausage sideways, like an ear of corn. Because....well, because sausage.10 -
nutmegoreo wrote: »nutmegoreo wrote: »Hypothetically since I'm married and no longer able to date, (much to the disappointment of all of the women at my gym, who are obviously swooning over my every move).
(For example, just the other day this very attractive lady said this to me:
"Are you done using this bench press?"
I mean my god woman, can you make it any more obvious that you yearn for my loins?)
(And then there's the senior center where they put out the coffee.
Gertrude was pouring her coffee while watching CNN and she said "Cold out there today!"
Jeez woman control yourself. I know I'm a strapping bearded hunk of ginger manliness but come on, this is a family oriented building).
Where was I....
Oh yes, back to the original question
Yes, I absolutely could. I do think I would need to have some amount of attraction (just being honest here) but that's entirely possible and I certainly wouldn't have some sort of weight standard.
:laugh:
Tell us more about this manliness
Just the other day, I was eating some cheddar habanero mango chicken sausages. And I ate them without cutting them, so I just stabbed them with a fork and bit into them. Because that's how men eat, dammit. I only used the fork because my wife and kids were staring at me.
Hot cheese shot out and landed on my lip, and literally burned the skin off of my lip.
I woke up today with a bloody lip.
What did I eat for lunch today?
TWO MORE SAUSAGES.
That's right, I'm like man of the year over here, holy eff.
I think such claims of manliness require pictures :bigsmile:
Funny enough, I do have some photos of my burned upper lip, my follow-up sausage lunch today, and some memes I made about it. But I'd hate to further derail this person's thread with....
....wait for it, omg hnnnngggggggg here comes the punch line
..with my sausage.
LOL im crying hahahaha. Your my favorite1 -
nutmegoreo wrote: »Alatariel75 wrote: »My husband did. Kept dating her when she hit 254lbs too. Married her about 210lbs, still married to her at 180lbs.
But you're also a nice person.
This is an excellent point.
The type of person we are in a determining factor in whether we date, or have significant others. If a guy won't date us because of our size, then we are not meant to be with him anyway.4 -
nutmegoreo wrote: »Hypothetically since I'm married and no longer able to date, (much to the disappointment of all of the women at my gym, who are obviously swooning over my every move).
(For example, just the other day this very attractive lady said this to me:
"Are you done using this bench press?"
I mean my god woman, can you make it any more obvious that you yearn for my loins?)
(And then there's the senior center where they put out the coffee.
Gertrude was pouring her coffee while watching CNN and she said "Cold out there today!"
Jeez woman control yourself. I know I'm a strapping bearded hunk of ginger manliness but come on, this is a family oriented building).
Where was I....
Oh yes, back to the original question
Yes, I absolutely could. I do think I would need to have some amount of attraction (just being honest here) but that's entirely possible and I certainly wouldn't have some sort of weight standard.
:laugh:
Tell us more about this manliness
Just the other day, I was eating some cheddar habanero mango chicken sausages. And I ate them without cutting them, so I just stabbed them with a fork and bit into them. Because that's how men eat, dammit. I only used the fork because my wife and kids were staring at me.
Hot cheese shot out and landed on my lip, and literally burned the skin off of my lip.
I woke up today with a bloody lip.
What did I eat for lunch today?
TWO MORE SAUSAGES.
That's right, I'm like man of the year over here, holy eff.
Just remember @SideSteel - to maintain your manly manhood, you have to always eat sausage sideways, like an ear of corn. Because....well, because sausage.
I might try this tomorrow but it depends on how scabby and bloody my lip is. Every time I bite into one I get hot cheese of death on my lip and somehow it lands RIGHT IN THE SAME SPOT every time.2 -
Well I've been dating a pretty 225 lb woman for 21 years, she's now 209 and working towards getting smaller. ;-)
But I'm not as manly as SideSteel and definitely don't get as many overtures as he does now that I'm on my sixth anniversary of my 39th birthday.16 -
nutmegoreo wrote: »Hypothetically since I'm married and no longer able to date, (much to the disappointment of all of the women at my gym, who are obviously swooning over my every move).
(For example, just the other day this very attractive lady said this to me:
"Are you done using this bench press?"
I mean my god woman, can you make it any more obvious that you yearn for my loins?)
(And then there's the senior center where they put out the coffee.
Gertrude was pouring her coffee while watching CNN and she said "Cold out there today!"
Jeez woman control yourself. I know I'm a strapping bearded hunk of ginger manliness but come on, this is a family oriented building).
Where was I....
Oh yes, back to the original question
Yes, I absolutely could. I do think I would need to have some amount of attraction (just being honest here) but that's entirely possible and I certainly wouldn't have some sort of weight standard.
:laugh:
Tell us more about this manliness
Just the other day, I was eating some cheddar habanero mango chicken sausages. And I ate them without cutting them, so I just stabbed them with a fork and bit into them. Because that's how men eat, dammit. I only used the fork because my wife and kids were staring at me.
Hot cheese shot out and landed on my lip, and literally burned the skin off of my lip.
I woke up today with a bloody lip.
What did I eat for lunch today?
TWO MORE SAUSAGES.
That's right, I'm like man of the year over here, holy eff.
ohhhh......you had me at senior center.....
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nutmegoreo wrote: »Hypothetically since I'm married and no longer able to date, (much to the disappointment of all of the women at my gym, who are obviously swooning over my every move).
(For example, just the other day this very attractive lady said this to me:
"Are you done using this bench press?"
I mean my god woman, can you make it any more obvious that you yearn for my loins?)
(And then there's the senior center where they put out the coffee.
Gertrude was pouring her coffee while watching CNN and she said "Cold out there today!"
Jeez woman control yourself. I know I'm a strapping bearded hunk of ginger manliness but come on, this is a family oriented building).
Where was I....
Oh yes, back to the original question
Yes, I absolutely could. I do think I would need to have some amount of attraction (just being honest here) but that's entirely possible and I certainly wouldn't have some sort of weight standard.
:laugh:
Tell us more about this manliness
Just the other day, I was eating some cheddar habanero mango chicken sausages. And I ate them without cutting them, so I just stabbed them with a fork and bit into them. Because that's how men eat, dammit. I only used the fork because my wife and kids were staring at me.
Hot cheese shot out and landed on my lip, and literally burned the skin off of my lip.
I woke up today with a bloody lip.
What did I eat for lunch today?
TWO MORE SAUSAGES.
That's right, I'm like man of the year over here, holy eff.
ohhhh......you had me at senior center.....
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Well I've been dating a pretty 225 lb woman for 21 years, she's now 209 and working towards getting smaller. ;-)
But I'm not as manly as SideSteel and definitely don't get as many overtures as he does now that I'm on my sixth anniversary of my 39th birthday.
You sir, are plenty manly. Nicely done.5 -
nutmegoreo wrote: »Hypothetically since I'm married and no longer able to date, (much to the disappointment of all of the women at my gym, who are obviously swooning over my every move).
(For example, just the other day this very attractive lady said this to me:
"Are you done using this bench press?"
I mean my god woman, can you make it any more obvious that you yearn for my loins?)
(And then there's the senior center where they put out the coffee.
Gertrude was pouring her coffee while watching CNN and she said "Cold out there today!"
Jeez woman control yourself. I know I'm a strapping bearded hunk of ginger manliness but come on, this is a family oriented building).
Where was I....
Oh yes, back to the original question
Yes, I absolutely could. I do think I would need to have some amount of attraction (just being honest here) but that's entirely possible and I certainly wouldn't have some sort of weight standard.
:laugh:
Tell us more about this manliness
Just the other day, I was eating some cheddar habanero mango chicken sausages. And I ate them without cutting them, so I just stabbed them with a fork and bit into them. Because that's how men eat, dammit. I only used the fork because my wife and kids were staring at me.
Hot cheese shot out and landed on my lip, and literally burned the skin off of my lip.
I woke up today with a bloody lip.
What did I eat for lunch today?
TWO MORE SAUSAGES.
That's right, I'm like man of the year over here, holy eff.
Just remember @SideSteel - to maintain your manly manhood, you have to always eat sausage sideways, like an ear of corn. Because....well, because sausage.
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*reads thread*
*looks at avatar*
*backs out of manly thread*
Ok, married slim beautiful woman, fell even more in love with her when she hit 210, still tripping over myself to keep her happy at her current 165, so yes.
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where do us regular guys get these awesome sounding sausages?
I love hot cheese of death.
Op I started dating my wife at a weight that I could only assume was near 200lbs. I had never been attracted to anyone that heavy before but we were friends for a while before both being single at the same time. 16 years later 2 kids and several pounds gained and lost between the pair of us we're still together. We are both working hard on becoming fit happy healthy people at the moment.
I can tell she's madly in love with me because of the way she politely reminded me that I left my drink cup in the living room and forgot to turn some lights off before I came to bed last night. How do you ask can one return such love and devotion. Obviously you can't you just grunt at them and head for the on button on the coffee pot.4 -
rikkejanell2014 wrote: »And she was working on her weight loss and has a goal to lose all her weight in a year?
Working on weighloss or not. If I fell in love
With you I'm going to be buy your side through the thick and thin
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@SideSteel Thank you for making me LOL this morning. What a great way to start the day! 0
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I dislike questions like that. It makes men sound like superficial morons - and most of them are not. Love comes in all forms and sizes and hits unexpectedly and that's a good thing. I am happily married since 33 years (to the same man) and we went through thick and thin effortless.
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Personally, I would not date a 200+ lb woman. But it has nothing to do with the 200+ lbs. I'm gay. SO....
We could have all those nice long talks she enjoys. Maybe even a Pinkberry after the gym. We could talk hair for days and go to the mall. We could realistically do a lot of the things that dating people do. But we couldn't date. ;-)24 -
i have done.
dated 80lbs ladies as well.
weight bears no connection to coolness.2 -
They would. My longest and best romantic relationships happened when I weighed over 300 pounds.0
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