Well that was discouraging...

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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Role playing tonight

    Naughty school girl and teacher

    Special detention
  • brewer054
    brewer054 Posts: 32 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    brewer054 wrote: »
    _unsteady_ wrote: »
    Lemme guess this isnt the first time? The weekly gym going thing i mean

    Actually, this is the first time I've ever been to the gym.

    congrats on making this step

    * side note: hubby is intimidated. he's afraid of what you might become and the changes that come with it. that's his issue but it might become yours too. best of luck.

    just remember,you can't out train a junk diet (I've tried; it doesn't work)

    and.... what are you doing there?

    imho; in this order:

    diet
    diet
    diet
    diet
    weights
    diet
    diet
    weights
    diet
    cardio (hiit)
    diet
    diet
    diet

    I believe he is intimidated as well, but I got him a free month membership to the gym so he could go with me, but he doesn't want too. Yes I know you can't outtrain a junk diet, and I've been eating good foods.

    My gym schedule is:
    40 mins. Of cardio every day at the beginning of my workouts. I spend 2 hrs at the gym.

    Monday: Cardio day
    Tuesday: Quads/Glutes
    Wednesday: Arms/Shoulders
    Thursday:Cardio day
    Friday: Quads/Glutes
    Saturday: Arms/Shoulders
  • sbrandt37
    sbrandt37 Posts: 403 Member
    Your husband is a fool (I was going to use a different word, but I'm pretty sure MFP would have replaced it with *kitten*). Every single day you go to the gym is a success and a gift to yourself that contributes to your long-term health and well-being. Don't be discouraged by your husband's negativity. Keep doing what you are doing, for you, because you deserve to be healthy and happy.
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  • nolan44219
    nolan44219 Posts: 1,221 Member
    J_Surita3 wrote: »
    Seriously though, who goes to the gym 365 days a year? I'm curious. That wasn't very nice of him. Dunk his toothbrush in the toilet, just one time. ;)

    haha you are guilty of this aren't you?

  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    johnmfp68 wrote: »
    brewer054 wrote: »
    So this morning I was packing gym bag for a workout later (if I feel well enough, I've been sick for the past two days,) and my husband made the comment of "...So what? You've only been going for a week. Talk to me when you've been going for 365 days."

    What?! Okay, I'm sorry.
    How hurtful.
    I'm trying to change myself, and be happy with myself.


    Time for a new hubby

    yeah, reading between the lines, the clock might be ticking on this one.

    I hope not; I wish her well.
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    nolan44219 wrote: »
    J_Surita3 wrote: »
    Seriously though, who goes to the gym 365 days a year? I'm curious. That wasn't very nice of him. Dunk his toothbrush in the toilet, just one time. ;)

    haha you are guilty of this aren't you?

    I plead the 5th :#;)
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    J_Surita3 wrote: »
    nolan44219 wrote: »
    J_Surita3 wrote: »
    Seriously though, who goes to the gym 365 days a year? I'm curious. That wasn't very nice of him. Dunk his toothbrush in the toilet, just one time. ;)

    haha you are guilty of this aren't you?

    I plead the 5th :#;)

    note to self: Never, effin' ever, upset Surita.
  • nolan44219
    nolan44219 Posts: 1,221 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    J_Surita3 wrote: »
    nolan44219 wrote: »
    J_Surita3 wrote: »
    Seriously though, who goes to the gym 365 days a year? I'm curious. That wasn't very nice of him. Dunk his toothbrush in the toilet, just one time. ;)

    haha you are guilty of this aren't you?

    I plead the 5th :#;)

    note to self: Never, effin' ever, upset Surita.

    I was going to say or keep your real toothbrush hidden in a secret spot....

    But I am guessing she probably has other tricks up her sleeve too so yea I'm agreeing with you
  • brewer054
    brewer054 Posts: 32 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    johnmfp68 wrote: »
    brewer054 wrote: »
    So this morning I was packing gym bag for a workout later (if I feel well enough, I've been sick for the past two days,) and my husband made the comment of "...So what? You've only been going for a week. Talk to me when you've been going for 365 days."

    What?! Okay, I'm sorry.
    How hurtful.
    I'm trying to change myself, and be happy with myself.


    Time for a new hubby

    yeah, reading between the lines, the clock might be ticking on this one.

    I hope not; I wish her well.

    I hope not. However nobody knows the future. :/
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    edited December 2016
    brewer054 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    johnmfp68 wrote: »
    brewer054 wrote: »
    So this morning I was packing gym bag for a workout later (if I feel well enough, I've been sick for the past two days,) and my husband made the comment of "...So what? You've only been going for a week. Talk to me when you've been going for 365 days."

    What?! Okay, I'm sorry.
    How hurtful.
    I'm trying to change myself, and be happy with myself.


    Time for a new hubby

    yeah, reading between the lines, the clock might be ticking on this one.

    I hope not; I wish her well.

    I hope not. However nobody knows the future. :/

    I know the future...I have ESPN... :s

    edit...don't mind me please, I've been drinking champagne and it makes me silly.
  • nolan44219
    nolan44219 Posts: 1,221 Member
    J_Surita3 wrote: »
    brewer054 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    johnmfp68 wrote: »
    brewer054 wrote: »
    So this morning I was packing gym bag for a workout later (if I feel well enough, I've been sick for the past two days,) and my husband made the comment of "...So what? You've only been going for a week. Talk to me when you've been going for 365 days."

    What?! Okay, I'm sorry.
    How hurtful.
    I'm trying to change myself, and be happy with myself.


    Time for a new hubby

    yeah, reading between the lines, the clock might be ticking on this one.

    I hope not; I wish her well.

    I hope not. However nobody knows the future. :/

    I know the future...I have ESPN... :s

    edit...don't mind me please, I've been drinking champagne and it makes me silly.

    :lol:@J_Surita3 yes please. Continue posting!
  • incisron
    incisron Posts: 550 Member
    brewer054 wrote: »
    So this morning I was packing gym bag for a workout later (if I feel well enough, I've been sick for the past two days,) and my husband made the comment of "...So what? You've only been going for a week. Talk to me when you've been going for 365 days."

    What?! Okay, I'm sorry.
    How hurtful.
    I'm trying to change myself, and be happy with myself.

    People say many discouraging things when you try to do better :/ I'm learning.
  • everher
    everher Posts: 909 Member
    I agree that communication is key, OP. I hope y'all were able to have an open and honest dialogue about what he said and why it hurt your feelings.

    That aside, I hope in the moment you had a saucy comeback. Something along the lines of, "Do you like being happily married to me? Because that can change."
  • thisonetimeatthegym
    thisonetimeatthegym Posts: 1,977 Member
    everher wrote: »
    I agree that communication is key, OP. I hope y'all were able to have an open and honest dialogue about what he said and why it hurt your feelings.

    That aside, I hope in the moment you had a saucy comeback. Something along the lines of, "Do you like being happily married to me? Because that can change."

    That's one way to put the fear of her losing weight in his heart and his insecurities to bubble right up and cause her grief and all manner of sabotage. Because that's what she's looking for, right?
  • thisonetimeatthegym
    thisonetimeatthegym Posts: 1,977 Member
    OP, some great advice here (for once, webmd actually is helpful, lol)

    http://www.webmd.com/diet/obesity/features/are-they-jealous-of-your-new-body
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  • EricNewark
    EricNewark Posts: 295 Member
    brewer054 wrote: »
    So this morning I was packing gym bag for a workout later (if I feel well enough, I've been sick for the past two days,) and my husband made the comment of "...So what? You've only been going for a week. Talk to me when you've been going for 365 days."

    What?! Okay, I'm sorry.
    How hurtful.
    I'm trying to change myself, and be happy with myself.

    Sorry to hear it. My wife appears supportive sometimes, on certain days when it seems convenient to her. It sucks. She will make crappy comments. I call her out on it occasionally and she acts like I'm stupid for thinking that way.

    Move on. Evaluate the rest of your relationship to make sure it isn't just about going to then gym. Try to talk to him. Evaluate again after.

    Over all - f@ck him. Do it for yourself.
  • lauamy96
    lauamy96 Posts: 102 Member
    Sleep on the couch for 365 days lol
  • jenilla1
    jenilla1 Posts: 11,118 Member
    J_Surita3 wrote: »
    ...Dunk his toothbrush in the toilet, just one time. ;)

    Not if you kiss that mouth. Might as well dunk your own toothbrush, too. :p
  • incisron
    incisron Posts: 550 Member
    EricNewark wrote: »
    brewer054 wrote: »
    So this morning I was packing gym bag for a workout later (if I feel well enough, I've been sick for the past two days,) and my husband made the comment of "...So what? You've only been going for a week. Talk to me when you've been going for 365 days."

    What?! Okay, I'm sorry.
    How hurtful.
    I'm trying to change myself, and be happy with myself.

    Sorry to hear it. My wife appears supportive sometimes, on certain days when it seems convenient to her. It sucks. She will make crappy comments. I call her out on it occasionally and she acts like I'm stupid for thinking that way.

    Move on. Evaluate the rest of your relationship to make sure it isn't just about going to then gym. Try to talk to him. Evaluate again after.

    Over all - f@ck him. Do it for yourself.

    But what if she doesn't feel like it after what he did to her? Then only he gets enjoyment.
  • TrailRunn3r82
    TrailRunn3r82 Posts: 126 Member
    Wow. This thread makes me want to find that special someone and get married

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