I feel weird when ppl talk about my weight loss

Yes... Why are people making comments about your body? Tell them to stfu.

That's life unfortunately.
And the funny thing is some people like it and some don't
If it bothers you speak up

I went through this, I found it really distressing actually, sometimes I would cry. But I'm happy to tell you, eventually the comments start to tail off, when people get used to your new size. Hang in there!!

Have lost large amounts of weight, and gained it all back more than a few times. When I start to look smaller I hated all the "good job" "oh you look so good" etc. Like oh well I guess I looked like poo before but now I am behaving and losing. Of course then when it turns around, and it happens over a number of years I get the look. Nothing is said but you can hear it loud and clear "awe you failed again". Makes me crazy. I am still the same person big or little, and at 62 I don't appreciate people telling me I am doing a good job just because I lose some weight. There is so much more to me. hmmmm.....

I have asked friends and family not to comment as in the past this has been my trigger to self sabotage

I understand how you feel. I'm a teacher, so when I started losing weight in June 2015, I went back to work at the end of August 20 pounds down and everyone was shocked. The amount of focus on me was boggling. I hate the spotlight. Some people just complimented me, some people wanted advice, then there were the people that thought I was lying about it simply being "Stay active, count calories". When I kept losing, some people made it their business to comment that I should stop, that I no longer look womanly, that I have an eating disorder, etc.

Now that more time has passed, I get far less comments than before. Now all I get is the occasional "Oh, you don't eat things like cake" or "You're such a skinny minny" in passing or at luncheons and whatnot. It's just the last few same people that have to comment either because they have nothing else to say yet always feel the need to talk or they lack the motivation to focus on their own health. I just let it roll off, but it used to bother me a lot more because it feels so invasive. I guess because people see weight loss as fair game since the majority of the population could stand to lose weight but normally don't. If we ever said to someone "Oh wow, looks like you put on a good 15 pounds as of late!" there would be an uproar, but commenting on weight loss is okay.

It makes sense. Everyone has their own comfort level when discussing their weight, weight loss or dietary beliefs.

The only thing that bothers me is when they ask "how I did it?". So I tell them the basics of CICO and they go on to spew the many myths that they hear about, read about etc...basically contradicting everything CICO stands for. So for not wanting to sound like a know it all, I just smile and change the subject.

Congrats and hope the pestering dies down

I don't like it but I understand it is human nature to say something, and I can't change anyone else. I know I would be disturbed if nobody at all noticed, and that schism is human nature too. I don't know what exactly the right thing IS to say to someone who has lost tons of weight (what, pretend I don't notice a thing?) so I understand that they don't know, either.