What do you do when you feel unattractive?

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  • besaro
    besaro Posts: 1,858 Member
    strange as it seems, telling someone else that you like something about them, their hair, their outfit, jewelry, always makes me feel better. maybe doesnt fix my body blues but it makes me feel shinier.
  • iofred
    iofred Posts: 488 Member
    Lol, I was born unattractive, breathe in, breathe out
  • PrincessTinyheart
    PrincessTinyheart Posts: 679 Member
    iofred wrote: »
    Lol, I was born unattractive, breathe in, breathe out

    Ha! I'm right there with ya!!

  • tfranke513
    tfranke513 Posts: 20 Member
    Drink heavily.
  • PrincessTinyheart
    PrincessTinyheart Posts: 679 Member
    tfranke513 wrote: »
    Drink heavily.

    added bonus... everyone else around you is suddenly better-looking!

  • Savage__AF
    Savage__AF Posts: 96 Member
    JstTheWayIam wrote: »
    I'm not allowed to grow facial hair, might break the seal on the SCBA I have to wear while changing cl2 tanks...

    Yep, dangerous work ladies...

    same.....but I don't have to change out cl2 tanks

  • dc8066
    dc8066 Posts: 1,439 Member
    When I feel unattractive, I usually go and eat something from the garbage can
  • candythorns
    candythorns Posts: 246 Member
    Look through some old pictures, do something that makes u feel amazing. For me i love to dance.
  • IslaTiempo
    IslaTiempo Posts: 530 Member
    Honestly,

    I listen to Meghan Trainor's. "me Too" song and I feel like super sexy (much more than what I am) and ready to conquer the world. Great song to wake up to. LoL .. i listened to the song a few times at the gym today while running.. can you tell by my overly confident post? :D
  • Rhody_Hoosier
    Rhody_Hoosier Posts: 688 Member
    PrincessTinyheart wrote: »
    tfranke513 wrote: »
    Drink heavily.

    added bonus... everyone else around you is suddenly better-looking!

    Double bonus...drink heavily...look in the mirror...all the sudden "I'm not that bad looking."

    Problem solved.
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  • Rhody_Hoosier
    Rhody_Hoosier Posts: 688 Member
    happilymegan wrote: »
    I dig into some Ben and Jerry's and watch comedies. Comedy always helps. I'm having an "ugly" day today for example. But I know now it's only today and tomorrow I will likely feel better.

    Hagen Daz Caramel Cone is my jam. Same Same.
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    I leave the fun and games forums and come over to the chit chat forums :D
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  • PrincessTinyheart
    PrincessTinyheart Posts: 679 Member
    LL5lifts wrote: »
    I exist same as I always do but feel a little more broken than usual. Such is the life of the unwanteds.

    But. .. you're gorgeous. I don't understand ; (
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    I change my profile picture B)
  • kassierodriguez1
    kassierodriguez1 Posts: 357 Member
    I just ignore the feeling as best I can. We all are hard on ourselves. Usually harder on ourselves then others are on us. I feel that way often and I just put on a happy face and tell myself it's in my head. And I project confidence even when I'm not feeling it. Shoulders back and head held high. If nothing else, your confidence will be attractive. :)
  • FeraFilia
    FeraFilia Posts: 4,664 Member
    I take a selfie and add filters until I look good.
  • jennifer_417
    jennifer_417 Posts: 12,344 Member
    I usually just accept it as part of the rhythm of life and remind myself that I'll feel differently soon enough. We alll have up and down days.
  • JstTheWayIam
    JstTheWayIam Posts: 6,357 Member
    While I think all of you above are just beautiful... Well not "just" beautiful... ;);)
  • slacker80
    slacker80 Posts: 235 Member
    More often than not sexy/attractive appeal is in your attitude. and how you carry yourself regardless of your lack in Hollywood genetics.
    Be bold, be confident, be great.
  • PrincessTinyheart
    PrincessTinyheart Posts: 679 Member
    I'm desperately trying to learn what it means to be confident, or to even fake confidence. I have no idea what either means... and that makes me feel like a failure... which lowers what little tiny crumb of confidence I may have. It's a vicious cycle.
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  • Rhody_Hoosier
    Rhody_Hoosier Posts: 688 Member
    LL5lifts wrote: »
    I exist same as I always do but feel a little more broken than usual. Such is the life of the unwanteds.

    I cannot tell you how much I relate to this.

    Broken and more broken. The two states in which I spend my existence.
  • NinjaMuffinzoq
    NinjaMuffinzoq Posts: 4 Member
    Ha. You mean everyday? I just hide from all mirrors.
  • KatrinaJ8520
    KatrinaJ8520 Posts: 215 Member
    Stay at home eat cheetos play video games. Or sometimes get motivated to lift something.
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  • Rhody_Hoosier
    Rhody_Hoosier Posts: 688 Member
    edited March 2017
    Kasner1975 wrote: »
    I usually make it worse by drowning my lack of self-confidence in booze.

    Liquid courage....but rarely works as expected. Been there as well.
  • Savage__AF
    Savage__AF Posts: 96 Member
    Shave everything
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