Toughen up, you snowflakes

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  • littleluvbug
    littleluvbug Posts: 137 Member
    I agree...there is no easy way out, you're either all in or you're not! If you want to lose weight, guess what? It's going to HURT! I weight 133 pounds and it still hurts now to work hard like it did when I was 240 pounds. No gimmicks, no surgeries, no pills, just blood sweat and tears poured out...that's the right way!
  • littleluvbug
    littleluvbug Posts: 137 Member
    I agree...there is no easy way out, you're either all in or you're not! If you want to lose weight, guess what? It's going to HURT! I weight 133 pounds and it still hurts now to work hard like it did when I was 240 pounds. No gimmicks, no surgeries, no pills, just blood sweat and tears poured out...that's the right way!
  • VegGrrl
    VegGrrl Posts: 336 Member
    Oh how I love a nice "drill sgt" moment!
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member


    The "rules" of success are easy - eat right and work out. Following them is not always easy. It's hard work and it takes discipline. You *will* spill blood, sweat, and tears before it's all over. Save your crying and your tears for the workout where you've hit a new personal best, and spare us your crying on the forum when someone didn't beat around the bush and gave you some straight info without sugar coating.

    Don't be lazy. Don't come crying about lack of support when people advise you to avoid bull****.

    The first time I spilled blood on a run I cried, not because it hurt, or I was frustrated, but I had doubts about my own commitment to getting fit, and in that moment, bleeding on a particularly long and hot run (my first 5miler!) I knew I was serious, and that felt...amazing.

    So AMEN and well said!
  • corsayre8
    corsayre8 Posts: 551 Member
    LUV IT!!!!! :love:
  • TheGoktor
    TheGoktor Posts: 1,138 Member
    I agree...there is no easy way out, you're either all in or you're not! If you want to lose weight, guess what? It's going to HURT! I weight 133 pounds and it still hurts now to work hard like it did when I was 240 pounds. No gimmicks, no surgeries, no pills, just blood sweat and tears poured out...that's the right way!

    Well said! And to Taso too. I really can't be doing with all the fluff - it's one thing being positive and supportive, and quite another being sycophantic and saccharine....especially when it's evident that someone could be putting themselves in danger.

    Oh and yes, use the Google-Fu!
  • lizziebeth1028
    lizziebeth1028 Posts: 3,602 Member
    OMG yes yes yes!!!!! This is so true! I have a very overweight friend (she's not on this or any site...but should be). Sometimes the things she says and asks!?!?!? My god, I want to smack her upside her head. How many calories is lettuce? Really..you think lettuce made you 100 pound overweight. (no I did not say that to her, wanted to tho). She's all over fad diets. She tells me I don't understand because I'm 'naturally thin'. This is soooo not true! I have been working out all my adult life and practicing a healthy lifestyle.....it's hard, it takes a lot of discipline and hard work. It doesn't come easy. To see a change, you have to make a change!
  • Kityngirl
    Kityngirl Posts: 14,304 Member
    Well said.
  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    WAIT !!!!!!! So do you mean I cant lose weight with sprinklng that majic powder on my food or by sitting on my *kitten* and taking dexatrim??? gosh you mean I have to EAT healthy and Exercise??? Well this sucks !!!!!!!!!!!


    LOL LOVE IT !
  • erickirb
    erickirb Posts: 12,294 Member
    I agree...there is no easy way out, you're either all in or you're not! If you want to lose weight, guess what? It's going to HURT! I weight 133 pounds and it still hurts now to work hard like it did when I was 240 pounds. No gimmicks, no surgeries, no pills, just blood sweat and tears poured out...that's the right way!

    Congrats on the loss, 107lbs is amazing.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    You a**hole. How dare you tell us to be accountable for our own actions... and stuff.

    :drinker:
  • OSUalum
    OSUalum Posts: 449 Member
    Amen! So nice to hear a refreshing, self-accountable, non-entitlement point of view!
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    hear, hear

    Losing weight is hard.
    Don't like it? Tough.
  • chrissym78
    chrissym78 Posts: 628 Member
    I'd rather be a pansy too!! A snowflake would never make it as hot as it is!! ;) Great post though.... I heard a whip crack!! WAAA-PSH!
  • smersh
    smersh Posts: 36
    I'm with Taso here.

    I've got no problem with giving support. I have a huge problem with giving validation to choices that won't work in the long run, or are unhealthy and possibly dangerous.

    And before anyone chimes in with "everyone's journey is different, you shouldn't judge!" - I'll judge as much as I want. If you ask me the question, I'll give you an honest answer and tell you that HCG is not a great idea, that doing a cleanse won't help as much as eating clean, and that lifting weights is good for you. (And, no, ladies, unless you're a genetic outlier, you won't turn into She-Hulk just because you put some plates on a barbell.)

    Health is hard. It takes work. You can't short-cut it.

    Yeah, I'm judging you. But that's because I know what you're unwilling to admit to yourself - the shortcuts don't work. When you ask, you already know the answer. I don't have to support stupidity.

    Finally: www.shouldieatmyexercisecalories.com
  • UpToAnyCool
    UpToAnyCool Posts: 1,673
    Great post though.... I heard a whip crack!! WAAA-PSH!

    Not really on topic, but I'm gonna get out my Devo hat...
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,275 Member
    Yeah, this has been waaaaaaay overdue
  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    I'd rather be a pansy too!! A snowflake would never make it as hot as it is!! ;) Great post though.... I heard a whip crack!! WAAA-PSH!


    can I just say thank you !!!! I alwasy wanted to know how to spell the whip crack sound...for realChrissy

    WAAAA-PPSHHH
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
    I'd rather be a pansy too!! A snowflake would never make it as hot as it is!! ;) Great post though.... I heard a whip crack!! WAAA-PSH!

    yep yep - good post!!
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    And before anyone chimes in with "everyone's journey is different, you shouldn't judge!" - I'll judge as much as I want.

    I put this in a post not too long ago. I forget which. But it went something like...
    I judge everyone. Including myself. Some measure up. Some don't.
  • stephanielynn76
    stephanielynn76 Posts: 709 Member
    I adore you.

    So do I... :wink:
  • Schwiggity
    Schwiggity Posts: 1,449 Member
    YOURE GONNA MAKE ME CRY!
  • ebramlett
    ebramlett Posts: 306 Member
    I totally agree!! Couldnt have said it better! Except I have a question, dude what is an OP?
  • skittybang
    skittybang Posts: 1,525 Member
    If you say so...
  • smersh
    smersh Posts: 36
    And before anyone chimes in with "everyone's journey is different, you shouldn't judge!" - I'll judge as much as I want.

    I put this in a post not too long ago. I forget which. But it went something like...
    I judge everyone. Including myself. Some measure up. Some don't.

    MFP is as much about accountability as it is about support.
  • therobinator
    therobinator Posts: 832 Member
    Maybe you asked a question that was already asked 5 minutes ago and will be asked again 5 minutes from now, and people are sick and tired of hearing and answering the same thing over and over?
    I agree with your post, except this ^this^ part.....if the forum thread search feature worked at all in a sensible way, then the above-problem would be alleviated. MFP, pleeeeeaaaaase fix the forum serach feature.
  • Amen <3
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    OP - Original Post/Original Poster Person if you are down with OPP.
  • blueeyedtraveler
    blueeyedtraveler Posts: 209 Member
    I totally agree!! Couldnt have said it better! Except I have a question, dude what is an OP?

    Original poster?
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
    I totally agree!! Couldnt have said it better! Except I have a question, dude what is an OP?


    I'm glad you asked and not me. I don't want my head bitten off, because I didn't go look it up myself in the gazillion other posts out there.... :tongue:
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