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AllOutof_Bubblegum wrote: »A guy I met online lived across town and he picked me up for a 2nd or 3rd date and we went back to his house to make me dinner and have drinks and play pool. I don't remember the specifics of what happened, but he got unreasonably mad at something I said (like a gentle ribbing about a goofy face he pulled, something innocuous) and he started yelling in my face. I said I wanted to leave, and he refused to take me home. (I lived like 30 miles away.)
Just wanting to get away, I gathered my purse and went to leave anyway. HE BLOCKED THE DOOR, wedging his boot in the doorjamb. I pulled out my phone and threatened to call the cops if he didn't gtfo of my way. He snarled at me to get out, he never liked me anyway, good riddance you stupid beyotch, etc. As I walked out four seconds later, he begged "wait, don't go! I'm sorry! I'll drive you home!" Not a chance, looney. Then he switched gears again: "Fine, you horrible ****! GET OUT! Leave!" I kept walking and didn't look back. The last I heard was, "Please come back! I love you!"
I started to run.
Oh my f...g g! You sure did the best thing especially when you started to run. Seriously, he sounded as if he'd got something seriously wrong with his entire brain!
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AllOutof_Bubblegum wrote: »A guy I met online lived across town and he picked me up for a 2nd or 3rd date and we went back to his house to make me dinner and have drinks and play pool. I don't remember the specifics of what happened, but he got unreasonably mad at something I said (like a gentle ribbing about a goofy face he pulled, something innocuous) and he started yelling in my face. I said I wanted to leave, and he refused to take me home. (I lived like 30 miles away.)
Just wanting to get away, I gathered my purse and went to leave anyway. HE BLOCKED THE DOOR, wedging his boot in the doorjamb. I pulled out my phone and threatened to call the cops if he didn't gtfo of my way. He snarled at me to get out, he never liked me anyway, good riddance you stupid beyotch, etc. As I walked out four seconds later, he begged "wait, don't go! I'm sorry! I'll drive you home!" Not a chance, looney. Then he switched gears again: "Fine, you horrible ****! GET OUT! Leave!" I kept walking and didn't look back. The last I heard was, "Please come back! I love you!"
I started to run.
Oh my f...g g! You sure did the best thing especially when you started to run. Seriously, he sounded as if he'd got something seriously wrong with his entire brain!
He was a complete whack job. Without a doubt there were some screws loose.
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AllOutof_Bubblegum wrote: »AllOutof_Bubblegum wrote: »A guy I met online lived across town and he picked me up for a 2nd or 3rd date and we went back to his house to make me dinner and have drinks and play pool. I don't remember the specifics of what happened, but he got unreasonably mad at something I said (like a gentle ribbing about a goofy face he pulled, something innocuous) and he started yelling in my face. I said I wanted to leave, and he refused to take me home. (I lived like 30 miles away.)
Just wanting to get away, I gathered my purse and went to leave anyway. HE BLOCKED THE DOOR, wedging his boot in the doorjamb. I pulled out my phone and threatened to call the cops if he didn't gtfo of my way. He snarled at me to get out, he never liked me anyway, good riddance you stupid beyotch, etc. As I walked out four seconds later, he begged "wait, don't go! I'm sorry! I'll drive you home!" Not a chance, looney. Then he switched gears again: "Fine, you horrible ****! GET OUT! Leave!" I kept walking and didn't look back. The last I heard was, "Please come back! I love you!"
I started to run.
Oh my f...g g! You sure did the best thing especially when you started to run. Seriously, he sounded as if he'd got something seriously wrong with his entire brain!
He was a complete whack job. Without a doubt there were some screws loose.
lol, I doubt if the screws were there!
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Ok in the interest of fairness, here's ME being someone ELSE'S dating nightmare. Strap in!
*This was many years ago, when I was horrible and selfish and narcissistic and spoiled. I've changed a lot and I'm a lot nicer, now. LOL*
I was friends with a guy that desperately wanted to date me, and I friend-zoned him HARD. He had money and he was entertaining, so I kept him dangling for months.
We went on a trip and he booked us a room at the swankiest hotel in San Francisco for New Year's Eve, complete with a lobster and champagne dinner and a tickets to the NYE party in the hotel's ballroom. At dinner, he presented me with a pair of diamond solitaire earrings and formally asked me to be his girlfriend. I was not feeling it at all, he meant very little me, romantically.
So I did the only thing a respectable girl would do: took the earrings, gave him a noncommittal answer like "I'll think about it", got rip-roaring drunk at the open bar in the ballroom, made out with a different random guy right as the ball dropped when my date went to go find his coat, puked all over the carpeted ballroom floor, got baby-carried up to the hotel room, drunkenly got into the bathtub and started screaming at him how much I hated him and he disgusted me, to get out of my sight, and threw the earrings at him.
Security was alerted from all of my screaming, and they told us that one of us was going to have to leave the hotel room for the night. The guy ended up spending a freezing night in his car while I slept off the booze in a 5-star hotel bed that he paid for. Hilariously, this was NOT the end, this guy was no quitter. He took us back to his mom's house (where we were visiting) and finished out the trip like nothing ever happened. He gave me the earrings back, and I happily took them. Lolz.
It still took like three months after all that for us to fall out completely. Oi vey. Early 20s shenanigans, bruh!5 -
You should read the thread before posting silly popcorn-eating dog images, piggy.
So sorry to hear about all these terrible, terrifying experiences. I've had my share, too.
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My roommate and I took two girls to a Dodgers game.
They were so obnoxious that he and I seriously thought about leaving after the seventh inning without them.
We did the decent thing and drove back to the beach where we lived and dropped them off at their apartment.
It was the last time I even thought about her until this thread.3 -
Motorsheen wrote: »My roommate and I took two girls to a Dodgers game.
They were so obnoxious that he and I seriously thought about leaving after the seventh inning without them.
We did the decent thing and drove back to the beach where we lived and dropped them off at their apartment.
It was the last time I even thought about her until this thread.
Very thoughtful of you indeed!
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RegaliTea_69 wrote: »Had a guy talk about himself the whole time, I wouldn't have minded if he were more interesting. He talked about his sex with his ex girlfriends and referred to his pen!s as the "BFG"
Heavens! That's just intolerable!
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No offense.... but where do you womenz find these idiots?
Is it really that difficult out there? ( not a flippant question, okay? I really don't know. )0 -
Motorsheen wrote: »No offense.... but where do you womenz find these idiots?
Is it really that difficult out there? ( not a flippant question, okay? I really don't know. )
Dating websites, they're a; narcissist's party!0 -
Everyone has their game face on.... that's my experience...0
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Motorsheen wrote: »No offense.... but where do you womenz find these idiots?
Is it really that difficult out there? ( not a flippant question, okay? I really don't know. )
The decent ones are few and far between.1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »No offense.... but where do you womenz find these idiots?
Is it really that difficult out there? ( not a flippant question, okay? I really don't know. )
As a matter of fact these pathological narcissistic gentlemen cherry pick their victims.
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LittleHearseDriver wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »No offense.... but where do you womenz find these idiots?
Is it really that difficult out there? ( not a flippant question, okay? I really don't know. )
The decent ones are few and far between.
I am convinced that, the decent 1's are; already taken! So no, more seeking; for me!0 -
Motorsheen wrote: »No offense.... but where do you womenz find these idiots?
Is it really that difficult out there? ( not a flippant question, okay? I really don't know. )
It's horrible! Absolutely horrible. No exaggeration.
Wow; sorry to hear.....
The golden rule is: Treat others the way you would like to be treated.
I try to take it a step further: Treat others the way they would like to be treated.
It seems decent and manageable.2 -
Motorsheen wrote: »No offense.... but where do you womenz find these idiots?
Is it really that difficult out there? ( not a flippant question, okay? I really don't know. )
As a matter of fact these pathological narcissistic gentlemen cherry pick their victims.
And then make it look like they have been approached! So narcissistic surprisingly!
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RegaliTea_69 wrote: »
I was approached by the guy I mentioned in a library...I thought that'd be a winner. Nope. He was probably just there to get ideas on what to name his manhood next...in the children's section.Motorsheen wrote: »No offense.... but where do you womenz find these idiots?
Is it really that difficult out there? ( not a flippant question, okay? I really don't know. )
So true! LOL
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LittleHearseDriver wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »No offense.... but where do you womenz find these idiots?
Is it really that difficult out there? ( not a flippant question, okay? I really don't know. )
The decent ones are few and far between.
The "decent ones" are indoctrinated into a society that tells them "nice guys finish last" and either a. become exactly what a lot of this thread is about or b. just stop trying after they've had their heart broken because they were dumped for a "bad boy".
It's reall pretty simple. Nice guys are told they are betas. Bad boys are alphas. Society rewards alphas. Just one PP's humble opinion.1 -
Carillon_Campanello wrote: »LittleHearseDriver wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »No offense.... but where do you womenz find these idiots?
Is it really that difficult out there? ( not a flippant question, okay? I really don't know. )
The decent ones are few and far between.
The "decent ones" are indoctrinated into a society that tells them "nice guys finish last" and either a. become exactly what a lot of this thread is about or b. just stop trying after they've had their heart broken because they were dumped for a "bad boy".
It's reall pretty simple. Nice guys are told they are betas. Bad boys are alphas. Society rewards alphas. Just one PP's humble opinion.
I reckon we evolution has done its part on this as when cavemen lived in a small society populated by very few people, any cavemen that stood out or acted alpha became an outcast. These alpha males were looked down upon by everyone including the opposite sex, which resulted in alpha males not reproducing. As a result only beta males reproduced.
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Carillon_Campanello wrote: »LittleHearseDriver wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »No offense.... but where do you womenz find these idiots?
Is it really that difficult out there? ( not a flippant question, okay? I really don't know. )
The decent ones are few and far between.
The "decent ones" are indoctrinated into a society that tells them "nice guys finish last" and either a. become exactly what a lot of this thread is about or b. just stop trying after they've had their heart broken because they were dumped for a "bad boy".
It's reall pretty simple. Nice guys are told they are betas. Bad boys are alphas. Society rewards alphas. Just one PP's humble opinion.
I believe that, the "bad boys" created this myth to; justify themselves!2
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