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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    DasItMan91 wrote: »
    mralexjones wrote: »
    I think the creepy stigma for men can mean a few things. Sometimes just breaking social conventions such as an older man hitting on a younger woman, even if there is nothing inappropriate said, can result in the older man being called creepy. That is unless he is a celebrity or rich.

    It can also apply to unattractive men. Creepy basically means unattractive a lot of the times. It really has nothing to do with a man's behavior, just the woman's highly subjective feelings.

    Sometimes it means socially awkward men who may have social anxiety or even autistim.

    Then the basic act of creepiness which is being sexually suggestive to people you don't know.

    Basically this, if the guy is a Chad, Tyrone, Jamal or Rico Suave, he won't come off as creepy even if he is weird or socially awkward because the woman is so attracted to him, he can say stupid things and she might laugh it off or find it cute. However there is a limit to this like if the guy is a rapist or child molester. An ugly guy's game has to be on point 24/7 for him to be able to talk to a woman and get her number because if the woman is not attracted to him initially, one *kitten* up and he's screwed. Having money and status can help him too. Idc what anyone says but looks do matter, not only with dating but in life in general. It also depends how old the guy is, if it's a 5-10 year difference (a 30 year old man hitting on a 20-year old woman) then it's not that bad especially if he's good looking but if it's some 50 year old dude hitting on a 20 year old woman then he better be good looking, in shape or like you said before have money or be a celebrity because that would be weird especially if he's ugly.

    This is pretty spot on. But iv found myself attracted to 'ugly guys' I think if they have a great personality and wicked sense of humour it makes them attractive. Bags of confidence is very attractive especially when someone isn't outwardly gorgeous it kinda makes you admire them for over looking it. It might take more work but eventually an ugly person can become extremely attractive. Iv met quite a few attractive guys who's personality or lack thereof killed it within a few dates. They were so used to relying on their looks it actually made them look ugly to me. But yeah usually looks and age are the defining factors on wether someone is creeping or not, or wether their advances are welcomed or not.

    Wait.

    So, hideous is now a pantie dropper ?




    Yeeessss!
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    DasItMan91 wrote: »
    mralexjones wrote: »
    I think the creepy stigma for men can mean a few things. Sometimes just breaking social conventions such as an older man hitting on a younger woman, even if there is nothing inappropriate said, can result in the older man being called creepy. That is unless he is a celebrity or rich.

    It can also apply to unattractive men. Creepy basically means unattractive a lot of the times. It really has nothing to do with a man's behavior, just the woman's highly subjective feelings.

    Sometimes it means socially awkward men who may have social anxiety or even autistim.

    Then the basic act of creepiness which is being sexually suggestive to people you don't know.

    Basically this, if the guy is a Chad, Tyrone, Jamal or Rico Suave, he won't come off as creepy even if he is weird or socially awkward because the woman is so attracted to him, he can say stupid things and she might laugh it off or find it cute. However there is a limit to this like if the guy is a rapist or child molester. An ugly guy's game has to be on point 24/7 for him to be able to talk to a woman and get her number because if the woman is not attracted to him initially, one *kitten* up and he's screwed. Having money and status can help him too. Idc what anyone says but looks do matter, not only with dating but in life in general. It also depends how old the guy is, if it's a 5-10 year difference (a 30 year old man hitting on a 20-year old woman) then it's not that bad especially if he's good looking but if it's some 50 year old dude hitting on a 20 year old woman then he better be good looking, in shape or like you said before have money or be a celebrity because that would be weird especially if he's ugly.

    This is pretty spot on. But iv found myself attracted to 'ugly guys' I think if they have a great personality and wicked sense of humour it makes them attractive. Bags of confidence is very attractive especially when someone isn't outwardly gorgeous it kinda makes you admire them for over looking it. It might take more work but eventually an ugly person can become extremely attractive. Iv met quite a few attractive guys who's personality or lack thereof killed it within a few dates. They were so used to relying on their looks it actually made them look ugly to me. But yeah usually looks and age are the defining factors on wether someone is creeping or not, or wether their advances are welcomed or not.

    Wait.

    So, hideous is now a pantie dropper ?




    Yeeessss!

    Oh yes I'm a ugly creeper creeper...the great thing about it is you actually have to spend time to get to know the person, instead of just jumping straight into bed with the 'stud' only to find out he's a dick

    I completely understand.

    Wait.



    ..... exactly how much time are we talking about?
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    DasItMan91 wrote: »
    mralexjones wrote: »
    I think the creepy stigma for men can mean a few things. Sometimes just breaking social conventions such as an older man hitting on a younger woman, even if there is nothing inappropriate said, can result in the older man being called creepy. That is unless he is a celebrity or rich.

    It can also apply to unattractive men. Creepy basically means unattractive a lot of the times. It really has nothing to do with a man's behavior, just the woman's highly subjective feelings.

    Sometimes it means socially awkward men who may have social anxiety or even autistim.

    Then the basic act of creepiness which is being sexually suggestive to people you don't know.

    Basically this, if the guy is a Chad, Tyrone, Jamal or Rico Suave, he won't come off as creepy even if he is weird or socially awkward because the woman is so attracted to him, he can say stupid things and she might laugh it off or find it cute. However there is a limit to this like if the guy is a rapist or child molester. An ugly guy's game has to be on point 24/7 for him to be able to talk to a woman and get her number because if the woman is not attracted to him initially, one *kitten* up and he's screwed. Having money and status can help him too. Idc what anyone says but looks do matter, not only with dating but in life in general. It also depends how old the guy is, if it's a 5-10 year difference (a 30 year old man hitting on a 20-year old woman) then it's not that bad especially if he's good looking but if it's some 50 year old dude hitting on a 20 year old woman then he better be good looking, in shape or like you said before have money or be a celebrity because that would be weird especially if he's ugly.

    This is pretty spot on. But iv found myself attracted to 'ugly guys' I think if they have a great personality and wicked sense of humour it makes them attractive. Bags of confidence is very attractive especially when someone isn't outwardly gorgeous it kinda makes you admire them for over looking it. It might take more work but eventually an ugly person can become extremely attractive. Iv met quite a few attractive guys who's personality or lack thereof killed it within a few dates. They were so used to relying on their looks it actually made them look ugly to me. But yeah usually looks and age are the defining factors on wether someone is creeping or not, or wether their advances are welcomed or not.

    Wait.

    So, hideous is now a pantie dropper ?




    Yeeessss!

    Oh yes I'm a ugly creeper creeper...the great thing about it is you actually have to spend time to get to know the person, instead of just jumping straight into bed with the 'stud' only to find out he's a dick

    I completely understand.

    Wait.



    ..... exactly how much time are we talking about?

    As much time as it takes ....lol

    I was afraid you might say something like that.......



    How bout a guy who's nearly, but not quite, hideous ?


    Quicker?
  • Motorsheen
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    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    DasItMan91 wrote: »
    mralexjones wrote: »
    I think the creepy stigma for men can mean a few things. Sometimes just breaking social conventions such as an older man hitting on a younger woman, even if there is nothing inappropriate said, can result in the older man being called creepy. That is unless he is a celebrity or rich.

    It can also apply to unattractive men. Creepy basically means unattractive a lot of the times. It really has nothing to do with a man's behavior, just the woman's highly subjective feelings.

    Sometimes it means socially awkward men who may have social anxiety or even autistim.

    Then the basic act of creepiness which is being sexually suggestive to people you don't know.

    Basically this, if the guy is a Chad, Tyrone, Jamal or Rico Suave, he won't come off as creepy even if he is weird or socially awkward because the woman is so attracted to him, he can say stupid things and she might laugh it off or find it cute. However there is a limit to this like if the guy is a rapist or child molester. An ugly guy's game has to be on point 24/7 for him to be able to talk to a woman and get her number because if the woman is not attracted to him initially, one *kitten* up and he's screwed. Having money and status can help him too. Idc what anyone says but looks do matter, not only with dating but in life in general. It also depends how old the guy is, if it's a 5-10 year difference (a 30 year old man hitting on a 20-year old woman) then it's not that bad especially if he's good looking but if it's some 50 year old dude hitting on a 20 year old woman then he better be good looking, in shape or like you said before have money or be a celebrity because that would be weird especially if he's ugly.

    This is pretty spot on. But iv found myself attracted to 'ugly guys' I think if they have a great personality and wicked sense of humour it makes them attractive. Bags of confidence is very attractive especially when someone isn't outwardly gorgeous it kinda makes you admire them for over looking it. It might take more work but eventually an ugly person can become extremely attractive. Iv met quite a few attractive guys who's personality or lack thereof killed it within a few dates. They were so used to relying on their looks it actually made them look ugly to me. But yeah usually looks and age are the defining factors on wether someone is creeping or not, or wether their advances are welcomed or not.

    Wait.

    So, hideous is now a pantie dropper ?




    Yeeessss!

    Oh yes I'm a ugly creeper creeper...the great thing about it is you actually have to spend time to get to know the person, instead of just jumping straight into bed with the 'stud' only to find out he's a dick

    I completely understand.

    Wait.



    ..... exactly how much time are we talking about?

    As much time as it takes ....lol

    I was afraid you might say something like that.......



    How bout a guy who's nearly, but not quite, hideous ?


    Quicker?

    Nah needs to be real ugly
    You see, cos when I stand beside them I just simply glow. Plus zero concerns about cheating or jealousy issues. Plus the ugly guy has bagged a babe. Everyone's a winner !

    Wow.
    You have an awesome attitude; I like you!
  • beagletracks
    beagletracks Posts: 6,035 Member
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    I'm literally blowing chunks.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    DasItMan91 wrote: »
    mralexjones wrote: »
    I think the creepy stigma for men can mean a few things. Sometimes just breaking social conventions such as an older man hitting on a younger woman, even if there is nothing inappropriate said, can result in the older man being called creepy. That is unless he is a celebrity or rich.

    It can also apply to unattractive men. Creepy basically means unattractive a lot of the times. It really has nothing to do with a man's behavior, just the woman's highly subjective feelings.

    Sometimes it means socially awkward men who may have social anxiety or even autistim.

    Then the basic act of creepiness which is being sexually suggestive to people you don't know.

    Basically this, if the guy is a Chad, Tyrone, Jamal or Rico Suave, he won't come off as creepy even if he is weird or socially awkward because the woman is so attracted to him, he can say stupid things and she might laugh it off or find it cute. However there is a limit to this like if the guy is a rapist or child molester. An ugly guy's game has to be on point 24/7 for him to be able to talk to a woman and get her number because if the woman is not attracted to him initially, one *kitten* up and he's screwed. Having money and status can help him too. Idc what anyone says but looks do matter, not only with dating but in life in general. It also depends how old the guy is, if it's a 5-10 year difference (a 30 year old man hitting on a 20-year old woman) then it's not that bad especially if he's good looking but if it's some 50 year old dude hitting on a 20 year old woman then he better be good looking, in shape or like you said before have money or be a celebrity because that would be weird especially if he's ugly.

    This is pretty spot on. But iv found myself attracted to 'ugly guys' I think if they have a great personality and wicked sense of humour it makes them attractive. Bags of confidence is very attractive especially when someone isn't outwardly gorgeous it kinda makes you admire them for over looking it. It might take more work but eventually an ugly person can become extremely attractive. Iv met quite a few attractive guys who's personality or lack thereof killed it within a few dates. They were so used to relying on their looks it actually made them look ugly to me. But yeah usually looks and age are the defining factors on wether someone is creeping or not, or wether their advances are welcomed or not.

    Wait.

    So, hideous is now a pantie dropper ?




    Yeeessss!

    Oh yes I'm a ugly creeper creeper...the great thing about it is you actually have to spend time to get to know the person, instead of just jumping straight into bed with the 'stud' only to find out he's a dick

    I completely understand.

    Wait.



    ..... exactly how much time are we talking about?

    As much time as it takes ....lol

    I was afraid you might say something like that.......



    How bout a guy who's nearly, but not quite, hideous ?


    Quicker?

    Nah needs to be real ugly
    You see, cos when I stand beside them I just simply glow. Plus zero concerns about cheating or jealousy issues. Plus the ugly guy has bagged a babe. Everyone's a winner !

    Wow.
    You have an awesome attitude; I like you!

    Coffee sometime?

    My treat.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    peppermintpudgy wrote: »
    I'm literally blowing chunks.

    Big chunks or more like a spray?
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    peppermintpudgy wrote: »
    I'm literally blowing chunks.

    How long have you known this Chunks guy?
  • teenytinyprincesspea
    teenytinyprincesspea Posts: 33 Member
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    mralexjones wrote: »
    I think the creepy stigma for men can mean a few things. Sometimes just breaking social conventions such as an older man hitting on a younger woman, even if there is nothing inappropriate said, can result in the older man being called creepy. That is unless he is a celebrity or rich.

    It can also apply to unattractive men. Creepy basically means unattractive a lot of the times. It really has nothing to do with a man's behavior, just the woman's highly subjective feelings.

    Sometimes it means socially awkward men who may have social anxiety or even autistim.

    Then the basic act of creepiness which is being sexually suggestive to people you don't know.

    Creepy to me is men talking sexually to me or buying me when it is not my actual job to do such a thing.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
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    I don't even know what is going on here...

    When bored I sometimes (creepy? I'm not sure) message people here on mfp....people I find interesting...most reply, I've only had 3 so far not respond...
    (I keep track of who doesn't want to talk to me so I don't bother them again...its good to know!)
  • Vikka_V
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    OutOfUserName wrote: »
    When im bored i come to chit chat and mess with everyone or go to fun and games and revive old threads

    me too!
  • DasItMan91
    DasItMan91 Posts: 5,753 Member
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    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    DasItMan91 wrote: »
    mralexjones wrote: »
    I think the creepy stigma for men can mean a few things. Sometimes just breaking social conventions such as an older man hitting on a younger woman, even if there is nothing inappropriate said, can result in the older man being called creepy. That is unless he is a celebrity or rich.

    It can also apply to unattractive men. Creepy basically means unattractive a lot of the times. It really has nothing to do with a man's behavior, just the woman's highly subjective feelings.

    Sometimes it means socially awkward men who may have social anxiety or even autistim.

    Then the basic act of creepiness which is being sexually suggestive to people you don't know.

    Basically this, if the guy is a Chad, Tyrone, Jamal or Rico Suave, he won't come off as creepy even if he is weird or socially awkward because the woman is so attracted to him, he can say stupid things and she might laugh it off or find it cute. However there is a limit to this like if the guy is a rapist or child molester. An ugly guy's game has to be on point 24/7 for him to be able to talk to a woman and get her number because if the woman is not attracted to him initially, one *kitten* up and he's screwed. Having money and status can help him too. Idc what anyone says but looks do matter, not only with dating but in life in general. It also depends how old the guy is, if it's a 5-10 year difference (a 30 year old man hitting on a 20-year old woman) then it's not that bad especially if he's good looking but if it's some 50 year old dude hitting on a 20 year old woman then he better be good looking, in shape or like you said before have money or be a celebrity because that would be weird especially if he's ugly.

    This is pretty spot on. But iv found myself attracted to 'ugly guys' I think if they have a great personality and wicked sense of humour it makes them attractive. Bags of confidence is very attractive especially when someone isn't outwardly gorgeous it kinda makes you admire them for over looking it. It might take more work but eventually an ugly person can become extremely attractive. Iv met quite a few attractive guys who's personality or lack thereof killed it within a few dates. They were so used to relying on their looks it actually made them look ugly to me. But yeah usually looks and age are the defining factors on wether someone is creeping or not, or wether their advances are welcomed or not.

    Looks get you through the door, having a good personality keeps you there.
  • DasItMan91
    DasItMan91 Posts: 5,753 Member
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    teenytinyprincesspea wrote: »
    mralexjones wrote: »
    I think the creepy stigma for men can mean a few things. Sometimes just breaking social conventions such as an older man hitting on a younger woman, even if there is nothing inappropriate said, can result in the older man being called creepy. That is unless he is a celebrity or rich.

    It can also apply to unattractive men. Creepy basically means unattractive a lot of the times. It really has nothing to do with a man's behavior, just the woman's highly subjective feelings.

    Sometimes it means socially awkward men who may have social anxiety or even autistim.

    Then the basic act of creepiness which is being sexually suggestive to people you don't know.

    Creepy to me is men talking sexually to me or buying me when it is not my actual job to do such a thing.
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    DasItMan91 wrote: »
    mralexjones wrote: »
    I think the creepy stigma for men can mean a few things. Sometimes just breaking social conventions such as an older man hitting on a younger woman, even if there is nothing inappropriate said, can result in the older man being called creepy. That is unless he is a celebrity or rich.

    It can also apply to unattractive men. Creepy basically means unattractive a lot of the times. It really has nothing to do with a man's behavior, just the woman's highly subjective feelings.

    Sometimes it means socially awkward men who may have social anxiety or even autistim.

    Then the basic act of creepiness which is being sexually suggestive to people you don't know.

    Basically this, if the guy is a Chad, Tyrone, Jamal or Rico Suave, he won't come off as creepy even if he is weird or socially awkward because the woman is so attracted to him, he can say stupid things and she might laugh it off or find it cute. However there is a limit to this like if the guy is a rapist or child molester. An ugly guy's game has to be on point 24/7 for him to be able to talk to a woman and get her number because if the woman is not attracted to him initially, one *kitten* up and he's screwed. Having money and status can help him too. Idc what anyone says but looks do matter, not only with dating but in life in general. It also depends how old the guy is, if it's a 5-10 year difference (a 30 year old man hitting on a 20-year old woman) then it's not that bad especially if he's good looking but if it's some 50 year old dude hitting on a 20 year old woman then he better be good looking, in shape or like you said before have money or be a celebrity because that would be weird especially if he's ugly.

    This is pretty spot on. But iv found myself attracted to 'ugly guys' I think if they have a great personality and wicked sense of humour it makes them attractive. Bags of confidence is very attractive especially when someone isn't outwardly gorgeous it kinda makes you admire them for over looking it. It might take more work but eventually an ugly person can become extremely attractive. Iv met quite a few attractive guys who's personality or lack thereof killed it within a few dates. They were so used to relying on their looks it actually made them look ugly to me. But yeah usually looks and age are the defining factors on wether someone is creeping or not, or wether their advances are welcomed or not.

    Wait.

    So, hideous is now a pantie dropper ?




    Yeeessss!

    Oh yes I'm a ugly creeper creeper...the great thing about it is you actually have to spend time to get to know the person, instead of just jumping straight into bed with the 'stud' only to find out he's a dick

    I completely understand.

    Wait.



    ..... exactly how much time are we talking about?

    As much time as it takes ....lol

    I was afraid you might say something like that.......



    How bout a guy who's nearly, but not quite, hideous ?


    Quicker?

    Nah needs to be real ugly
    You see, cos when I stand beside them I just simply glow. Plus zero concerns about cheating or jealousy issues. Plus the ugly guy has bagged a babe. Everyone's a winner !

    Lol that's funny because you're basically dating down so you won't have to worry about him cheating on you or hitting on other chicks and so you feel better about yourself. Not every good looking guy is gonna cheat on you but I can kinda understand why you feel this way.
  • DasItMan91
    DasItMan91 Posts: 5,753 Member
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    abitoftrouble wrote: »
    DasItMan91 wrote: »
    teenytinyprincesspea wrote: »
    mralexjones wrote: »
    I think the creepy stigma for men can mean a few things. Sometimes just breaking social conventions such as an older man hitting on a younger woman, even if there is nothing inappropriate said, can result in the older man being called creepy. That is unless he is a celebrity or rich.

    It can also apply to unattractive men. Creepy basically means unattractive a lot of the times. It really has nothing to do with a man's behavior, just the woman's highly subjective feelings.

    Sometimes it means socially awkward men who may have social anxiety or even autistim.

    Then the basic act of creepiness which is being sexually suggestive to people you don't know.

    Creepy to me is men talking sexually to me or buying me when it is not my actual job to do such a thing.
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    DasItMan91 wrote: »
    mralexjones wrote: »
    I think the creepy stigma for men can mean a few things. Sometimes just breaking social conventions such as an older man hitting on a younger woman, even if there is nothing inappropriate said, can result in the older man being called creepy. That is unless he is a celebrity or rich.

    It can also apply to unattractive men. Creepy basically means unattractive a lot of the times. It really has nothing to do with a man's behavior, just the woman's highly subjective feelings.

    Sometimes it means socially awkward men who may have social anxiety or even autistim.

    Then the basic act of creepiness which is being sexually suggestive to people you don't know.

    Basically this, if the guy is a Chad, Tyrone, Jamal or Rico Suave, he won't come off as creepy even if he is weird or socially awkward because the woman is so attracted to him, he can say stupid things and she might laugh it off or find it cute. However there is a limit to this like if the guy is a rapist or child molester. An ugly guy's game has to be on point 24/7 for him to be able to talk to a woman and get her number because if the woman is not attracted to him initially, one *kitten* up and he's screwed. Having money and status can help him too. Idc what anyone says but looks do matter, not only with dating but in life in general. It also depends how old the guy is, if it's a 5-10 year difference (a 30 year old man hitting on a 20-year old woman) then it's not that bad especially if he's good looking but if it's some 50 year old dude hitting on a 20 year old woman then he better be good looking, in shape or like you said before have money or be a celebrity because that would be weird especially if he's ugly.

    This is pretty spot on. But iv found myself attracted to 'ugly guys' I think if they have a great personality and wicked sense of humour it makes them attractive. Bags of confidence is very attractive especially when someone isn't outwardly gorgeous it kinda makes you admire them for over looking it. It might take more work but eventually an ugly person can become extremely attractive. Iv met quite a few attractive guys who's personality or lack thereof killed it within a few dates. They were so used to relying on their looks it actually made them look ugly to me. But yeah usually looks and age are the defining factors on wether someone is creeping or not, or wether their advances are welcomed or not.

    Wait.

    So, hideous is now a pantie dropper ?




    Yeeessss!

    Oh yes I'm a ugly creeper creeper...the great thing about it is you actually have to spend time to get to know the person, instead of just jumping straight into bed with the 'stud' only to find out he's a dick

    I completely understand.

    Wait.



    ..... exactly how much time are we talking about?

    As much time as it takes ....lol

    I was afraid you might say something like that.......



    How bout a guy who's nearly, but not quite, hideous ?


    Quicker?

    Nah needs to be real ugly
    You see, cos when I stand beside them I just simply glow. Plus zero concerns about cheating or jealousy issues. Plus the ugly guy has bagged a babe. Everyone's a winner !

    Lol that's funny because you're basically dating down so you won't have to worry about him cheating on you or hitting on other chicks and so you feel better about yourself. Not every good looking guy is gonna cheat on you but I can kinda understand why you feel this way.

    What if ugly guy is dating you because he's dating down for the same reason as she is?

    Edited to add not you, I mean you in general

    He wouldn't be dating down if she is attractive. Like if he's a 4 and she's a 7 or 8. No ugly guy wants to date down but sometimes people do settle for people below them because they're insecure and think they can't get a better looking person. I've seen it before. Also you hear alot of desperate, thirsty dudes that have sex with these ugly and fat chicks because they want a easy nut (Hodgetwins syndrome). In the case of Avocado, she just wants a man who can make her feel good and not cheat on her. Every man wants a woman at least at their level or above. If I was looking for a relationship, I'll choose the 6-7 who is a good girl with a great personality over the 8-9 who is a *kitten*.
  • DasItMan91
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    abitoftrouble wrote: »
    DasItMan91 wrote: »
    abitoftrouble wrote: »
    DasItMan91 wrote: »
    teenytinyprincesspea wrote: »
    mralexjones wrote: »
    I think the creepy stigma for men can mean a few things. Sometimes just breaking social conventions such as an older man hitting on a younger woman, even if there is nothing inappropriate said, can result in the older man being called creepy. That is unless he is a celebrity or rich.

    It can also apply to unattractive men. Creepy basically means unattractive a lot of the times. It really has nothing to do with a man's behavior, just the woman's highly subjective feelings.

    Sometimes it means socially awkward men who may have social anxiety or even autistim.

    Then the basic act of creepiness which is being sexually suggestive to people you don't know.

    Creepy to me is men talking sexually to me or buying me when it is not my actual job to do such a thing.
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    DasItMan91 wrote: »
    mralexjones wrote: »
    I think the creepy stigma for men can mean a few things. Sometimes just breaking social conventions such as an older man hitting on a younger woman, even if there is nothing inappropriate said, can result in the older man being called creepy. That is unless he is a celebrity or rich.

    It can also apply to unattractive men. Creepy basically means unattractive a lot of the times. It really has nothing to do with a man's behavior, just the woman's highly subjective feelings.

    Sometimes it means socially awkward men who may have social anxiety or even autistim.

    Then the basic act of creepiness which is being sexually suggestive to people you don't know.

    Basically this, if the guy is a Chad, Tyrone, Jamal or Rico Suave, he won't come off as creepy even if he is weird or socially awkward because the woman is so attracted to him, he can say stupid things and she might laugh it off or find it cute. However there is a limit to this like if the guy is a rapist or child molester. An ugly guy's game has to be on point 24/7 for him to be able to talk to a woman and get her number because if the woman is not attracted to him initially, one *kitten* up and he's screwed. Having money and status can help him too. Idc what anyone says but looks do matter, not only with dating but in life in general. It also depends how old the guy is, if it's a 5-10 year difference (a 30 year old man hitting on a 20-year old woman) then it's not that bad especially if he's good looking but if it's some 50 year old dude hitting on a 20 year old woman then he better be good looking, in shape or like you said before have money or be a celebrity because that would be weird especially if he's ugly.

    This is pretty spot on. But iv found myself attracted to 'ugly guys' I think if they have a great personality and wicked sense of humour it makes them attractive. Bags of confidence is very attractive especially when someone isn't outwardly gorgeous it kinda makes you admire them for over looking it. It might take more work but eventually an ugly person can become extremely attractive. Iv met quite a few attractive guys who's personality or lack thereof killed it within a few dates. They were so used to relying on their looks it actually made them look ugly to me. But yeah usually looks and age are the defining factors on wether someone is creeping or not, or wether their advances are welcomed or not.

    Wait.

    So, hideous is now a pantie dropper ?




    Yeeessss!

    Oh yes I'm a ugly creeper creeper...the great thing about it is you actually have to spend time to get to know the person, instead of just jumping straight into bed with the 'stud' only to find out he's a dick

    I completely understand.

    Wait.



    ..... exactly how much time are we talking about?

    As much time as it takes ....lol

    I was afraid you might say something like that.......



    How bout a guy who's nearly, but not quite, hideous ?


    Quicker?

    Nah needs to be real ugly
    You see, cos when I stand beside them I just simply glow. Plus zero concerns about cheating or jealousy issues. Plus the ugly guy has bagged a babe. Everyone's a winner !

    Lol that's funny because you're basically dating down so you won't have to worry about him cheating on you or hitting on other chicks and so you feel better about yourself. Not every good looking guy is gonna cheat on you but I can kinda understand why you feel this way.

    What if ugly guy is dating you because he's dating down for the same reason as she is?

    Edited to add not you, I mean you in general

    He wouldn't be dating down if she is attractive. Like if he's a 4 and she's a 7 or 8. No ugly guy wants to date down but sometimes people do settle for people below them because they're insecure and think they can't get a better looking person. Also you hear alot of desperate, thirsty dudes that have sex with these ugly and fat chicks because they want a easy nut (Hodgetwins syndrome). In the case of Avocado, she just wants a man who can make her feel good and not cheat on her. Every man wants a woman at least at their level or above. If I was looking for a relationship, I'll choose the 6-7 who is a good girl with a great personality over the 8-9 who is a *kitten*.
    DasItMan91 wrote: »
    abitoftrouble wrote: »
    DasItMan91 wrote: »
    teenytinyprincesspea wrote: »
    mralexjones wrote: »
    I think the creepy stigma for men can mean a few things. Sometimes just breaking social conventions such as an older man hitting on a younger woman, even if there is nothing inappropriate said, can result in the older man being called creepy. That is unless he is a celebrity or rich.

    It can also apply to unattractive men. Creepy basically means unattractive a lot of the times. It really has nothing to do with a man's behavior, just the woman's highly subjective feelings.

    Sometimes it means socially awkward men who may have social anxiety or even autistim.

    Then the basic act of creepiness which is being sexually suggestive to people you don't know.

    Creepy to me is men talking sexually to me or buying me when it is not my actual job to do such a thing.
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Avocado_Angel wrote: »
    DasItMan91 wrote: »
    mralexjones wrote: »
    I think the creepy stigma for men can mean a few things. Sometimes just breaking social conventions such as an older man hitting on a younger woman, even if there is nothing inappropriate said, can result in the older man being called creepy. That is unless he is a celebrity or rich.

    It can also apply to unattractive men. Creepy basically means unattractive a lot of the times. It really has nothing to do with a man's behavior, just the woman's highly subjective feelings.

    Sometimes it means socially awkward men who may have social anxiety or even autistim.

    Then the basic act of creepiness which is being sexually suggestive to people you don't know.

    Basically this, if the guy is a Chad, Tyrone, Jamal or Rico Suave, he won't come off as creepy even if he is weird or socially awkward because the woman is so attracted to him, he can say stupid things and she might laugh it off or find it cute. However there is a limit to this like if the guy is a rapist or child molester. An ugly guy's game has to be on point 24/7 for him to be able to talk to a woman and get her number because if the woman is not attracted to him initially, one *kitten* up and he's screwed. Having money and status can help him too. Idc what anyone says but looks do matter, not only with dating but in life in general. It also depends how old the guy is, if it's a 5-10 year difference (a 30 year old man hitting on a 20-year old woman) then it's not that bad especially if he's good looking but if it's some 50 year old dude hitting on a 20 year old woman then he better be good looking, in shape or like you said before have money or be a celebrity because that would be weird especially if he's ugly.

    This is pretty spot on. But iv found myself attracted to 'ugly guys' I think if they have a great personality and wicked sense of humour it makes them attractive. Bags of confidence is very attractive especially when someone isn't outwardly gorgeous it kinda makes you admire them for over looking it. It might take more work but eventually an ugly person can become extremely attractive. Iv met quite a few attractive guys who's personality or lack thereof killed it within a few dates. They were so used to relying on their looks it actually made them look ugly to me. But yeah usually looks and age are the defining factors on wether someone is creeping or not, or wether their advances are welcomed or not.

    Wait.

    So, hideous is now a pantie dropper ?




    Yeeessss!

    Oh yes I'm a ugly creeper creeper...the great thing about it is you actually have to spend time to get to know the person, instead of just jumping straight into bed with the 'stud' only to find out he's a dick

    I completely understand.

    Wait.



    ..... exactly how much time are we talking about?

    As much time as it takes ....lol

    I was afraid you might say something like that.......



    How bout a guy who's nearly, but not quite, hideous ?


    Quicker?

    Nah needs to be real ugly
    You see, cos when I stand beside them I just simply glow. Plus zero concerns about cheating or jealousy issues. Plus the ugly guy has bagged a babe. Everyone's a winner !

    Lol that's funny because you're basically dating down so you won't have to worry about him cheating on you or hitting on other chicks and so you feel better about yourself. Not every good looking guy is gonna cheat on you but I can kinda understand why you feel this way.

    What if ugly guy is dating you because he's dating down for the same reason as she is?

    Edited to add not you, I mean you in general

    He wouldn't be dating down if she is attractive. Like if he's a 4 and she's a 7 or 8. No ugly guy wants to date down but sometimes people do settle for people below them because they're insecure and think they can't get a better looking person. Also you hear alot of desperate, thirsty dudes that have sex with these ugly and fat chicks because they want a easy nut (Hodgetwins syndrome). In the case of Avocado, she just wants a man who can make her feel good and not cheat on her. Every man wants a woman at least at their level or above. If I was looking for a relationship, I'll choose the 6-7 who is a good girl with a great personality over the 8-9 who is a *kitten*.

    But since attraction is subjective, I was asking what if "pretty girl" is really just the 4 that ugly guy settled on?

    You mean that to him she's attractive but to others she's a 4? Well if that's what you mean....if he finds her attractive for whatever reason, he finds her attractive. Sure his friends might tell him otherwise and give him *kitten* about him. This is a classic case of beauty is in the eye of the beholder or love is blind. Like you said, attraction is subjective, me for example, there are woman that think I'm a 5 and there are others that think I'm a 7 or even a 8. If you're talking about a pretty woman with the personality of a 4 then yeah...in a way, he did settle. I'm assuming I answered your question.

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