My boss - Im torn
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abitoftrouble wrote: »I would just flap one of her bingo wings and say "is this what we are calling toned these days?"
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BedsideTableKangaroo wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »raleighgirl09 wrote: »I'm thinking she was likely making conversation on a personal level and thinking it was ok. If it wasn't then just say so. But I am wondering - were you actually indignant, slightly amused or somewhere in between? Sounded like a compliment from a thousand miles away... => Revel in your gorgeousness, they can't take that away.
I think her plan is to get me fat too, but that's a totally different issue.
do y'all often travel together for work? she might be worried of plane crashes in hard-to-reach, mountainous locations in winter.
Are you saying my boss wants to eat me?1 -
I want to evaluate your levels now post a full length selfie!!0
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Ironandwine69 wrote: »BedsideTableKangaroo wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »raleighgirl09 wrote: »I'm thinking she was likely making conversation on a personal level and thinking it was ok. If it wasn't then just say so. But I am wondering - were you actually indignant, slightly amused or somewhere in between? Sounded like a compliment from a thousand miles away... => Revel in your gorgeousness, they can't take that away.
I think her plan is to get me fat too, but that's a totally different issue.
do y'all often travel together for work? she might be worried of plane crashes in hard-to-reach, mountainous locations in winter.
Are you saying my boss wants to eat me?
could you blame her?3 -
your boss is jealous, I'd be stoked that she is taking that much notice2
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bigmuneymfp wrote: »I want to evaluate your levels now post a full length selfie!!
Yes sir. This is the bicep in question.
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dylans1789 wrote: »your boss is jealous, I'd be stoked that she is taking that much notice
Actually no, I don't think she is jealous. There's alot of people that don't like the muscular look in women. And that's fine. It's not for everyone. When I started listing around ten years ago I was almost the only woman at the weight room with the guys( I'm sure other women lifted, but didn't happen to be lifting at the same time). Now it's filled with women, and I love it. We are growing and accepting women being muscular.3 -
Ironandwine69 wrote: »bigmuneymfp wrote: »I want to evaluate your levels now post a full length selfie!!
Yes sir. This is the bicep in question.
I approve!!!1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »wait for her in the parking lot after work.
when she exits the building, square off
as she's laying in the parking lot, stand over her and ask: "Who's Toned Now?"
btw: Never, *kitten* ever run to HR. It makes you look like a puss.
In the spirit of Star Wars, you sir, are Yoda.2 -
Gimsteinn1 wrote: »I didn't read all the thread but here's my 5 cents
She was pulling a passive aggressive move
She just fit shamed you
I know you're confident but I think that belongs at HR.. Specially comming from a boss.
didn't you see my note?
never, ever run to HR with any work related issues.
it's always best to take that *kitten* outside5 -
What is Fit shaming for 5001
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Motorsheen wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »BedsideTableKangaroo wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »raleighgirl09 wrote: »I'm thinking she was likely making conversation on a personal level and thinking it was ok. If it wasn't then just say so. But I am wondering - were you actually indignant, slightly amused or somewhere in between? Sounded like a compliment from a thousand miles away... => Revel in your gorgeousness, they can't take that away.
I think her plan is to get me fat too, but that's a totally different issue.
do y'all often travel together for work? she might be worried of plane crashes in hard-to-reach, mountainous locations in winter.
Are you saying my boss wants to eat me?
could you blame her?
So what should I do?0 -
Wait you took offense to that comment and want to report her to hr for it?0
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omakase619 wrote: »Wait you took offense to that comment and want to report her to hr for it?
Yes.0 -
could it be about context. was she as your boss, making an inappropriate comment, or was it just as a friend making a comment regarding her personal opinion on muscle on women. I dunno...you were the only one of us there, so only you really know. Whats the gain for reporting her? whats the recourse if HR doesn't see it your way?
i'd view it as a compliment and move on with my day. but i'm pretty easy going.0 -
OMG this is the funniest - sad I missed it!1
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I'm wondering how you said you love your boss on one hand but want to report her on the other. If you guys have a friendly relationship like going to lunch etc. She probably thought she could comment. That's why bosses should stay bosses and not get friendly. I think hr is for serious offenses not something so stupid. People this day are way too sensitive. Move on! With so many out of work be glad you have a job.
You're hurting my feelings.1
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