Really, who is the blame??

After reading these posts I must respect everyones opinions however, I'm neutral about it. We need nurturing but a lot of us need that dose of reality from time to time. Just to make things clear, weight loss in general is an emotional journey, your going to have a huge breakthrough and/or meltdowns and I think this is why he said this. I'm not speaking for him but this is how i interpeted this post. Most trainers try the "tough guy" approach because they you want to have your breakdown sooner! The quicker you have that moment that faster you will be successul. It is what it is people, now move on from this. We all show love, support, respect differently. I hope that this didnt disrespect you guys in any way but when I read the post I was motivated! (Partly because I did have a discussion with my fiance minutes before reading this post,)

p.s. i also think he needed to vent. we get frustrated just like when someone cuts in front of you. We are human, therefore we aren't perfect, we aren't going to have this happy attitude about things at all times. Have a blessed night all and i wish you all continued success.