When to stop stalking someone?

cee134
cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
edited November 19 in Chit-Chat
When do you know it's time to stalk someone new?

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  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    angelxsss wrote: »
    When there's a restraining order.

    Not true.
  • angelxsss
    angelxsss Posts: 2,402 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    When there's a restraining order.

    Not true.

    Hey, you were the one asking the question here.
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    edited June 2017
    angelxsss wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    When there's a restraining order.

    Not true.

    Hey, you were the one asking the question here.

    A restraining order just means they care. Is there any other signs, like if she says "I love ya" or "I have you trapped now, I've been saving this cage for you. Wait until you see what I'm going to do to you."?
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,982 Member
    When they start accepting you as an admirer. There's no more fear. ;)

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  • No_Knock
    No_Knock Posts: 52 Member
    angelxsss wrote: »
    When there's a restraining order.

    Hard to argue with that.
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  • dc8066
    dc8066 Posts: 1,439 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    When do you know it's time to stalk someone new?

    After you sleep with them once. Pack the U-Haul too, to move in the very next morning
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    edited June 2017
    You don't stop. You keep stalking till they love you!
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    That's what I thought. But sometimes I wonder if there are signs. For example, while you're hiding in your shrubberies you start thinking of someone else's shrubberies. Or you're hiding in her attic and you think that maybe I could be in someone else's attic.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    You stop once they buy your chairs.
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    No_Knock wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    When there's a restraining order.

    Hard to argue with that.

    It just means they love you more and want you to try harder.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    You don't stop. You keep stalking till they love you!
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    That's what I thought. But sometimes I wonder if there are signs. For example, while you're hiding in your shrubberies you start thinking of someone else's shrubberies. Or you're hiding in her attic and you think that maybe I could be in someone else's attic.

    That just means you need to ration out our time better and stalk them both. I believe our hearts are big enough to have more than one true love.
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    You don't stop. You keep stalking till they love you!
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    That's what I thought. But sometimes I wonder if there are signs. For example, while you're hiding in your shrubberies you start thinking of someone else's shrubberies. Or you're hiding in her attic and you think that maybe I could be in someone else's attic.

    That just means you need to ration out our time better and stalk them both. I believe our hearts are big enough to have more than one true love.

    But is that fair to the other person I am stalking?
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    You don't stop. You keep stalking till they love you!
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    That's what I thought. But sometimes I wonder if there are signs. For example, while you're hiding in your shrubberies you start thinking of someone else's shrubberies. Or you're hiding in her attic and you think that maybe I could be in someone else's attic.

    That just means you need to ration out our time better and stalk them both. I believe our hearts are big enough to have more than one true love.

    But is that fair to the other person I am stalking?

    Good point, that is why you must never let them find out. Make them think they are your one and only. I am sure there are some people around here that can chime in with some tips on that. There seems to be some with experience in that area.
  • sw33tp3a1
    sw33tp3a1 Posts: 5,065 Member
    I usually stop stalking someone when they start stalking someone else.
  • Caporegiem
    Caporegiem Posts: 4,297 Member
    Usually when the flame dies out you'll know. It can be hard to stomach, but when they don't peer out the window cautiously to see if you're out there, or clean your nose print off the outside of the glass without a bit of emotion....well it's over.
  • Marjayhan
    Marjayhan Posts: 59 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    When do you know it's time to stalk someone new?

    Google it!
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    margeh75 wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    When do you know it's time to stalk someone new?

    Google it!

    That's not very helpful. If I could just google it I would.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    :o i didnt even know there was a stopping point

    This does not surprise me one bit!
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    You don't stop, you just stalk someone new.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    :o i didnt even know there was a stopping point

    This does not surprise me one bit!

    yeah im still going strong.... btw why did you switch shampoo?

    Just so you would ask me this!
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    1 tip for those who want to stalk:

    If the person you intend to stalk has a SO start early on trying to get their SO out of the picture so when the object of your affection realizes you were meant to be together that pesky SO is aready gone.
  • TR0berts
    TR0berts Posts: 7,739 Member
    When to stop stalking someone?


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  • Muscle_for_Fitness
    Muscle_for_Fitness Posts: 2,198 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    1 tip for those who want to stalk:

    If the person you intend to stalk has a SO start early on trying to get their SO out of the picture so when the object of your affection realizes you were meant to be together that pesky SO is aready gone.

    I'm not sure I can afford a good hitman though
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    :o i didnt even know there was a stopping point

    This does not surprise me one bit!

    yeah im still going strong.... btw why did you switch shampoo?

    Just so you would ask me this!

    now i gotta give that hairpiece i been collecting another wash -.-

    As long as you don't want to wear my skin, it's all good.
  • SEAHORSES4EVER
    SEAHORSES4EVER Posts: 1,553 Member
    edited June 2017
    ●When you're watching them in the shower and they don't sing
    ●when they have a full jar of peanut butter in their fridge that is there for far too long
    ●when they have too many photos of themself around the house
    ●when they don't have a draw full of crap in their house!
    These are all red flags for me, I don't want to be stalking a psychopath.
  • Raquel_Mama
    Raquel_Mama Posts: 1,815 Member
    You never stop! They'll cave in.... eventually.... right?
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    angelxsss wrote: »
    When there's a restraining order.

    I regard them as suggestions.



    I mean, seriously, they're just someone's opinion, right?
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