We are pleased to announce that as of March 4, 2025, an updated Rich Text Editor has been introduced in the MyFitnessPal Community. To learn more about the changes, please click here. We look forward to sharing this new feature with you!

THE MYTH OF MOTIVATION (AND WHAT YOU NEED INSTEAD)

11112141617

Replies

  • Posts: 863 Member
    Awesome :)
  • Posts: 1,594 Member
    Wow. Thank you so much for sharing this.
  • Posts: 14,776 Member
    Just giving this a holiday bump. Don't mind me.
  • Posts: 14,776 Member
    I've always liked this thread. Giving it a bump.
  • Posts: 14,776 Member
    I've bumped this about a hundred times now and I don't know if anyone else is reading it, but here's another bump because I found it so useful.
  • Posts: 14,776 Member
    Whelp, might as well add another bump, just in case.
  • Posts: 3,501 Member
    Bumpity bump bump
  • Posts: 14 Member
    I made the decision yesterday to lose 1 lb per week until Christmas, so your inspirational post has motivated me to make good decisions and choices each day till Christmas. I intend reading your post each morning. Thanks so much for the motivation to stop overeating and so become slim again.
  • Posts: 36 Member
    This is great, thanks for sharing!
  • Posts: 6 Member
    Thanks for posting this. It has changed my mindset completely. The section with the soldiers in the rain and then saying we can put down the pizza and beer literally put me into tears. I feel silly for ever feeling like not eating a cookie or some pizza is hard. Now that I've Decided to be healthy it all seems so easy and simple.
  • Posts: 9 Member
    A lot to think about here. Not so much decision as it is habit. If I don't stay focused to make the healthy decisions, then habit takes over and I do what I've always done. Good post to cause me to think healthy.
  • Posts: 11,463 Member
    winterfly6 wrote: »
    A lot to think about here. Not so much decision as it is habit. If I don't stay focused to make the healthy decisions, then habit takes over and I do what I've always done. Good post to cause me to think healthy.

    Eventually you will get to the point where your new behaviors are the habit, and it becomes easier to follow the new habits than make an excuse/decision not to.
  • Posts: 125 Member
    I love this... I have been trying to lose weight since this last pregnancy. I joined a gym but "struggled" to motivate myself to eat healthy. And with minimal effort, I had minimal success and stopped at 20lbs lost. Two months ago I made a decision to commit to putting healthy things in my body. And guess what, in 60 days I am down 10 more lbs. When I decided to get serious, the rest was easy. Thank you for the reminder!
  • Posts: 3,218 Member
    This blog remains my all time favorite MFP post. You do not need motivation. You need to decide and follow through.
  • Awe
  • Posts: 107 Member
    Bump
  • Posts: 3 Member
    I love this .. thanks!!
  • Posts: 288 Member
    Bump. 'cause this needs to be shared. Love it and live it!
  • Posts: 964 Member
    This is from fitness blogger Vic Margay.

    I love this post. I am bumping it up!
  • Posts: 11 Member
    I've been a member for a while now with no real change. This is the first time I've read this particular post. I love it when someone can give it to you straight. I've been thinking about motivation lately..it comes and goes it's only a feeling though. Decisions are choices..actions...that may produce a tangible result. I need tangible results therefore I decide now.
  • Posts: 14,776 Member
    227115-Happy-New-Year-Cat.gif
  • Posts: 3,563 Member
    Back to page 1 for this useful post!
  • Posts: 251 Member
    This is from fitness blogger Vic Margay.

    I was just discussing this with my husband this morning. My words to him we're how I know exactly what to do. I just need to do it.
  • Posts: 23 Member
    edited January 2018
    Love this! It's a great explanation! Whenever I'm tired or on the fence about exercise...I say to myself, "Do you want to go forwards or backwards?" Helps a lot lol as obv want to go forwards!! Thanks for the post!! =^.^=
  • Posts: 2,028 Member
    I think this is spot on OP, great post. Decisions - very similar to my use of the word "priorities" instead of willpower, but this post definitely reflects my views on "motivation."
  • Posts: 4 Member
    the problem is to bring yourself to make that decision for real. i dont know what in my stupid brain is stopping me to finally do it, it ridiculous and i cant even explain it.
  • Posts: 16 Member
    Just what I needed to read! My resolve had been fluctuating over the holidays. Thanks for the post.
  • Posts: 874 Member
    This is so true. I’m a serial starter...been on mfp for years and my weight has fluctuated throughout the years. lit I’ve literally gone up and down up and down and I’m disappointed in myself and kind of disgusted! I let myself be mad and now I’m over it and now I’m living for me this is my second week of clean eating (meal prepping) working out everyday for at least 30. Only defused fruit water I try to get through a gallon a day. Something in me just clicked. I’ve never felt like this before. I have a long way to go but this time is the last time I start over no matter what and I’m sorry that this post is really long
  • Posts: 3 Member
    right on point
  • Posts: 60 Member
    Thank you! I’ve been struggling to get back my motivation to be fit since Christmas and failing miserably with the late night snacking. After reading this I realized I did not make the decision to eat healthy. I just blamed lack of motivation. I already lost 30lbs. I need to lose 20 more lbs. I can do this! Thank you for giving me the push to really decide. This is my decision! I can do this!

Welcome!

It looks like you're new here. Sign in or register to get started.