MOMS! Would it offend you................

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  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
    I swing around on this. I hate being ogled by men in general, but it is flattering to be thought of as attractive, especially when you spend 99% of your time being just "Mummy" which makes me feel about as glamorous as a slug.

    From my point of view, I like to be thought of as attractive, but not have specific body parts stared at or referred to. There are few things more offensive than a random bloke saying "Look at the tits on THAT!" Mostly that makes me want to punch people.
  • rockieschick
    rockieschick Posts: 321 Member
    I would love to be called that! lol
  • MayMaydoesntrun
    MayMaydoesntrun Posts: 805 Member
    I swing around on this. I hate being ogled by men in general, but it is flattering to be thought of as attractive, especially when you spend 99% of your time being just "Mummy" which makes me feel about as glamorous as a slug.

    From my point of view, I like to be thought of as attractive, but not have specific body parts stared at or referred to. There are few things more offensive than a random bloke saying "Look at the tits on THAT!" Mostly that makes me want to punch people.

    THIS^^
  • chelekaz
    chelekaz Posts: 847 Member
    My hubby calls me his personal MILF. He said to put it simply that I AM a Mom and he wants to F--- so... ergo... that makes me a MILF... :blushing:
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,993 Member
    Lol, lots of response that are PRO MILF! I know some think of it as perverted, but hey sexy people usually are.
  • jessradtke
    jessradtke Posts: 418 Member
    Depends on who said it and how they said it. If a friend said it in a joking way, I wouldn't find it offensive. If a guy said it to me...yeah, I'd find that offensive. I've never liked being looked at as just a piece of *kitten*.
  • mandimoore617
    mandimoore617 Posts: 325 Member
    I aspire to be a MILF! LOL
  • muth3rluvx2
    muth3rluvx2 Posts: 1,156 Member
    I think it depends on the context...

    in this one, chatting with the girls, we know what we mean.

    if I'm wandering through the grocery and I hear a couple of males talking about the MILF that just walked by, then I think its kind of degrading because its objectifying a human being.

    if a man is out with his buddies and states that his new g/f (whom he hasn't yet been intimate with, and has a kid) is a real hot milf - then .. it's still locker-room scummie but you get that it's with the guys and he clearly find the new g/f sexy - so that's good... mostly.

    if a guy that I'm friends with (and I've had this happen) sees pictures of a friend of mine and says WHOA! who's that MILF?... I actually feel alot of pride for that friend that someone thinks they're hot. I think my presence kept any further vulgarity pretty checked.

    So, it really depends. Slang has multiple functions and you can't really isolate terms by themselves and assume they're good or bad. It's about intention and inflection. At least it is for me.
  • jalapenos
    jalapenos Posts: 345 Member
    Better a MILF than a butterface.... just saying....


    *MILF in training... lol
  • TrainingWithTonya
    TrainingWithTonya Posts: 1,741 Member
    I think it's goofy but funny. My husband calls me a "GILF" (I'm a grandma!) At least he appreciates me (even before I lost weight!)

    My husband told me that I'm going to be a GILF one day. Then corrected himself to GGILF, cause I'm so fit I'm going to live to be a Great Grandma. I took that as a compliment. LOL I'm hoping I can just keep adding G's in front!
  • BamaMomma
    BamaMomma Posts: 53
    in no way would this offend me! i mean...i like to be known as an attractive woman and i like the feeling of being desired. hell, who knows, maybe i AM a MILF? i guess it just depends on who's looking. beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as they say. nothing wrong with wanting to be a MILF :) it's a boost of confidence!!
  • syreetahasting
    syreetahasting Posts: 31
    I look at it as a complement also
  • shallo
    shallo Posts: 353 Member
    I find the phrase offensive for two reasons. First, because it contains the f word. Secondly, because it implies promiscuity and extra-marital sex.
    Not all moms are married.
  • Angelabec
    Angelabec Posts: 505 Member
    I wouldn't be offended, but I don't think it's a situation I'm gonna find myself in anytime soon, lol!
  • MrsAMT
    MrsAMT Posts: 1
    I only care if one guy thinks I'm a MILF. The rest is just gravy.:wink:
  • prettybrownround
    prettybrownround Posts: 362 Member
    TEAM MILF.........:blushing:
  • Madrow
    Madrow Posts: 62
    Not at all, so long as the person wasn't grabbing a boob or something equally violating. I would appreciate it:smokin:
  • Laceylala
    Laceylala Posts: 3,094 Member
    I find the phrase offensive for two reasons. First, because it contains the f word. Secondly, because it implies promiscuity and extra-marital sex.
    Not all moms are married.

    See now I don't think that my calling myself a (future) MILF is implying promiscuity and extra-marital sex in the least. I mean I can't help what the person saying that about me is implyng, thats on them. But what I mean when I say I'm a MILF is simply that I feel good about how I look and carry myself.
  • beautybrainsbooty
    beautybrainsbooty Posts: 122 Member
    I want to get MILF tattooed on my upper thigh. Unoffended and inspired.
  • ohwhataday
    ohwhataday Posts: 1,398 Member
    Definitely been called that. Definitely never offended. I think that is the general concensus. ahah.
  • mytwobabies
    mytwobabies Posts: 113 Member
    I only care if one guy thinks I'm a MILF. The rest is just gravy.:wink:

    Exactly! :)
  • ohwhataday
    ohwhataday Posts: 1,398 Member
    As a dad, I'd be offended being called a DILF. It's offensive, rude, and vulgar.

    liar.
  • mommared53
    mommared53 Posts: 9,543 Member
    Wow, I guess I'm really in the minority but I would be offended. Maybe it's because I'm a very conservative Christian but no matter how attractive I was, I wouldn't want someone to say or think that about me. I just think it's disrespectful.
  • fbmandy55
    fbmandy55 Posts: 5,263 Member
    sounds like that one lady just needs to have stick removed!

    Yeah. There's a prude in every bunch.

    I would love to be a MILF!
  • mamagooskie
    mamagooskie Posts: 2,964 Member
    It wouldn't offend me at all.
  • mommared53
    mommared53 Posts: 9,543 Member
    I guess I'm the prude in this bunch that needs to have the stick removed. :ohwell:
  • Kelnurse
    Kelnurse Posts: 145
    I've been called a MILF a few times, once just recently, and...I smile and thank him :blushing:
  • fbmandy55
    fbmandy55 Posts: 5,263 Member
    sounds like that one lady just needs to have stick removed!

    Yeah. There's a prude in every bunch.

    I would love to be a MILF!
  • NatalieWiley
    NatalieWiley Posts: 147 Member
    A friend of mine had a license plate that read GOTMILF and he received a letter from the department of licensing to remove the plate because there was a complaint made. A mom apparrently had her child ask her what it meant and she had to explain it. I personally would have just made something up or played dumb or told him the truth (depending on the childs age)
  • NatalieWiley
    NatalieWiley Posts: 147 Member
    For the record being a MILF is my goal in life! well one of them! :) I don't have kids yet but when I do I want to be looking hot and have my son be embarrased that his friends think his mom is hot!

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