worst part of breaking up????

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  • mishelnkiki
    mishelnkiki Posts: 775 Member
    Hiding the body!
    LOVE THIS!!! i havent quite figured that out yet... wanna come and help me? seems like ur a pro!

    Lets do it!
    i better hit him one more time with the shovel.... wouldnt want him waking up halfway thru or anything.

    I guess I havent showed you anything yet......no shovel needed! haha
    ohhhh u are so my kinda guy! lol. im all urs master! teach me ur ways!
  • I_give_it_2_u_str8
    I_give_it_2_u_str8 Posts: 680 Member
    avoiding the spots where you may run into one another
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    I can't remember what the worst part was anymore because I'm so glad he's gone now. I'll get back to you.
  • JessicaMarie9382
    JessicaMarie9382 Posts: 197
    Sleeping alone! I was with my ex for 4 years (almost) and when we broke up I couldn't sleep without putting pillows on his side of the bed.
    Not having anyone to call to say, OMG, you'll NEVER guess......
    Not seeing his family.
    Still being friends with him on facebook and seeing the new girlfriend posting "I love you".
    Cuddling.
    Being excited to see him after work.

    LOTS!

    This made me want to cry because all are so true, and I've been single for a long time! Actually I was the one who decided to end the last relationship. It's still hard.

    I know, I got a little teary while I was writing it! I have been single for about a year and a half now and I still hurt and miss him sometimes too. I, too, was the one who ended things, well....kinda, he cheated on me so he kinda did too.
  • Ajontheguitar
    Ajontheguitar Posts: 695
    The hardest part of breaking up, is getting back your stufffff.
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    The hardest part of breaking up, is getting back your stufffff.

    My ex brought his new girlfriend with him when he came to get his stuff back.
  • ansonrinesmith
    ansonrinesmith Posts: 741 Member
    Feeling guilty if you did it really close to V-Day, Birthday, Anniversary, or Xmas!




    Does anyone else want to post "is Folgers in your cup?"
    I have that jingle in my head now and can't stop it!
  • USAFwifey12
    USAFwifey12 Posts: 373 Member
    The hardest part of breaking up, is getting back your stufffff.

    ^THIS! Still haven't been able to get my stuff out of his storage building which includes the china from my parents wedding and some pretty important childhood stuff. SO ANNOYING!
    I can't remember what the worst part was anymore because I'm so glad he's gone now. I'll get back to you.
    Lol love it! :laugh:
  • Ajontheguitar
    Ajontheguitar Posts: 695
    ::sigh::

    Nobody got that that was a pop culture joke.
  • fbmandy55
    fbmandy55 Posts: 5,263 Member
    The hardest part of breaking up, is getting back your stufffff.

    My ex brought his new girlfriend with him when he came to get his stuff back.

    What a scumbag.
  • USAFwifey12
    USAFwifey12 Posts: 373 Member
    ::sigh::

    Nobody got that that was a pop culture joke.

    2GETHER.....still though it is the hardest part lol
  • lannheue23
    lannheue23 Posts: 24 Member
    :tongue:
  • andforpoise
    andforpoise Posts: 185
    Realizing you have no clue who you are outside of him (or her). My first relationship (and only one thus far) was way too involved. I was 18 when we started dating and almost 20 when we broke up. So during those 2 years, instead of exploring who I was as I was becoming an adult I defined myself by who I was with him - and it was ugly and I refused to admit it. Then when we broke it off, the depression hit and when I came out of that it was like, "Okay, time to find out who YOU really are." I've been happily single for almost 2 years :) Sometimes it gets lonely, and see couples being all cutesy and I get all nostalgic, but I think the key is keeping yourself busy and trying things you probably wouldn't have done with that ol' ball and chain ;)
  • spicy618
    spicy618 Posts: 2,114 Member
    Does anyone else want to post "is Folgers in your cup?"
    I have that jingle in my head now and can't stop it!


    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • angelicdisgrace
    angelicdisgrace Posts: 2,071 Member
    Habit breaking. Having a daily routine and then it's gone.
  • tattoodfreek
    tattoodfreek Posts: 520 Member
    ::sigh::

    Nobody got that that was a pop culture joke.

    *I* got it. LOL.
  • lamiranda
    lamiranda Posts: 11
    Figuring out what to do with all his clothes . . . . haha
  • keb80
    keb80 Posts: 394
    Honestly, I haven't been single since I was 16 but what I think WOULD be the worst part of breaking-up is not having someone there to talk to when I'm scared, pissed or worried. I have a habit of getting myself all worked up and freaking out over things that are often times minuscule... I need someone who is much less dramatic than me to talk me down from my emotional meltdowns. :tongue:
  • mandeiko
    mandeiko Posts: 1,657 Member
    ::sigh::

    Nobody got that that was a pop culture joke.

    I got it!! U + me = us. :)
  • bluevwgurl
    bluevwgurl Posts: 220 Member
    Replanting the grass and getting it to grow back in the front yard, where you burned all his *kitten*! (having to explain to the neighbors that no, there was no cross burned there...)
  • Army_Nurse
    Army_Nurse Posts: 8
    Replanting the grass and getting it to grow back in the front yard, where you burned all his *kitten*! (having to explain to the neighbors that no, there was no cross burned there...)

    That's awesome....LOL!!!
  • rubixcyoob
    rubixcyoob Posts: 395
    The baggy tshirts and their boxers to sleep in.

    And sex.
  • emmaNEEDSskinny
    emmaNEEDSskinny Posts: 317
    him falling out of love with you and being with someone eelse
  • laureneva15
    laureneva15 Posts: 280
    ::sigh::

    Nobody got that that was a pop culture joke.

    I can't deny I didn't get it :|
  • adamtwd88
    adamtwd88 Posts: 49
    for me, its realizing that i had no one that i really associated with anymore outside of him. i went from about 400 txt a day down to a total of 5 yesterday. my phone never goes off anymore. yes, thats pretty much the worst part. lol. well, that and its been a while since i had some... but thats just how it goes sometimes. wats the worst part for u??

    tbh i dont think of worst parts. i think once you break up thats it, done & dusted.
    i go out, see my friends, have a laugh, play guitar etc. things that make me happy :)
    not had a break up in a while tbh. but a plus+ side is you get more time to yourself! lol x
  • laureneva15
    laureneva15 Posts: 280
    ::sigh::

    Nobody got that that was a pop culture joke.

    I can't deny I didn't get it :|

    oh god i just googled it!!!
    damn you man damn you
    that was horrible!
    what the hell was that? haha!
  • Kalrez
    Kalrez Posts: 655 Member
    Worst part about my divorce - I lost my cats :( I raised one of them by hand. Found him on the day his was born, abandoned by his mother. I loved that kitty more than my ex most of the time, haha

    But life goes on. Now I've got two different kitties who bring joy to my life and a new boyfriend who is better than I could have ever imagined.

    "I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together."
    — Marilyn Monroe
  • jasonr1009
    jasonr1009 Posts: 342 Member
    I'm still haunted by her telling me for months how perfect I am only for her to dump me to go back to her ex who was supposably a loser.....her reason for doing this, im too fat lol...... This was AFTER I've lost 25+ pounds in the duration she knew me. I keep living a good life, working towards my goals, losing more weight, eating well, and have noticed many more girls flirting with me at work but I just cannot let go and accept that some people are just cruel. Im 218 pounds now, was 258 on new years day. She was the brick wall that slammed into me and showed me my progress isnt so good afterall :(
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