Any of you guys on Tinder?

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  • Markdjones83
    Markdjones83 Posts: 852 Member
    I have tried it, but don't get many matches and when I do I realize I don't want to message them cause I'm kind of lazy right now lol.
  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
    Billy323 wrote: »
    Well most Tinder guys don't exactly beat around the bush from what I hear. I have a date setup with an older woman for next weekend. My profile says I am looking for the girl who will retire me from Tinder. We discuss relationships and she sends me her very long bio.

    The entire time she asks absolutely nothing about me. If she was genuinely interested in having a legit date she would have asked more questions. This is not my first rodeo and I am not going to waste my time. I don't need Tinder to get laid and if I was so inclined I would not be chasing after a 47 year old woman.

    LOL. Well, that's a first. I've never sent anyone my bio before. Weird person is weird.
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    id prob slay the tinder

    i should join
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    I'm sorry. I misread this as Grindr. NVM.
  • Billy323
    Billy323 Posts: 182 Member
    Just hopped back on these forums and saw this gem of a post in my most recent post list. Four days after I made this thread I found the girl I am still dating and will end up being my wife. How about that for timing.
  • AmandaNicole083
    AmandaNicole083 Posts: 309 Member
    I did the tinder thing earlier this year... I met some nice people and had some good dates but didn't find it to be very productive for my needs. I met my ex husband when I was 20, we were together nearly 11 years. Dating as an adult is completely daunting and scary.
  • _SummerGirl_
    _SummerGirl_ Posts: 3,791 Member
    Billy323 wrote: »
    Just hopped back on these forums and saw this gem of a post in my most recent post list. Four days after I made this thread I found the girl I am still dating and will end up being my wife. How about that for timing.

    That's awesome. Congrats! :)
  • Billy323
    Billy323 Posts: 182 Member
    mandac83 wrote: »
    I did the tinder thing earlier this year... I met some nice people and had some good dates but didn't find it to be very productive for my needs. I met my ex husband when I was 20, we were together nearly 11 years. Dating as an adult is completely daunting and scary.

    You and me both haha. Met at 18, married for 15 years then boom right into the mix. Seriously glad that I am retired from dating now though.

  • motivccess
    motivccess Posts: 201 Member
    edited November 2015
    op, can i meet gay guys in my area/city on tinder?? do u put up a selfie and make a profile and pm people like on facebook? maybe i'll look into it when i lose a few lbs and feel less hideous :p:s
  • Billy323
    Billy323 Posts: 182 Member
    motivccess wrote: »
    op, can i meet gay guys in my area/city on tinder?? do u put up a selfie and make a profile and pm people like on facebook? maybe i'll look into it when i lose a few lbs and feel less hideous :p:s

    You sure can. You toss some pics up and write a short bio. Best bet is to jump on now. Tinder was a HUGE boost to my self esteem.
  • TylerShewbatski
    TylerShewbatski Posts: 265 Member
    Lol hell yew
  • Geeky_and_Cheeky
    Geeky_and_Cheeky Posts: 493 Member
    I met my ex boyfriend on Tinder. I'm shy & introverted with limited free time to meet guys the traditional way so it was a success for me. I met my current boyfriend on OkCupid and we weren't really compatible by the survey thing at all but i don't put any faith in those.

    I'd say take photos of you doing the things you like versus selfies in the mirror. Like have a friend take a photo of you on a Harley if you like motorcycles, or outdoors if you like to hike, or bowling if you're an avid bowler, etc. And post something funny or witty on your description. And be clear of your intentions, like looking to casually date, looking for long term, etc.

    Where I'm at, dating sites are guy heavy so I had a lot of freedom to be choosy in what I wanted in a guy, which was nice. We always met at a coffee shop, restaurant, or a bar. Oh and when you get her number, if y'all aren't in it to mutually just hook up, don't turn things sexual too fast.... that was a dealbreaker for me.
  • patrick_star_trek
    patrick_star_trek Posts: 1,386 Member
    You mean this isn't Tinder? *swipes left*
  • pitbull603
    pitbull603 Posts: 73 Member
    Lol
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