Binge Eating/Food Craving Thread

kakaovanilya
kakaovanilya Posts: 647 Member
edited November 23 in Motivation and Support
I was looking for an active thread where i could write during a craving and get some support to stop it but i couldn't find any. I checked out some groups but no active posters there. So i will post here. Feel free to ask for support when you are craving or feeling the urge to binge eat.

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  • kakaovanilya
    kakaovanilya Posts: 647 Member
    I just celebrated my daughters 3rd birthday today. Her favorite foods and cake of course everywhere. It was hard to organize everything for everyone and not partake.
    I almost justified breaking my low carb mentality, but I knew the cheat would feel hollow once I ate it and I’d be so angry at myself afterward. I was proud of myself for being able to mentally walk back from impulse. The hubs was proud too and made me a cup of tea to celebrate while he cleaned up❤️

    It’s getting progressively easier. Every time I have succumbed to a cheat, it’s never as tasty as I’d thought it’d be, it’s a let down. I hold onto those experiences to keep me on track.

    When did you start eating healthy? How long did it take you to manage to say no? I'm trying to maintain my weight for now but if i could end my late night snacking i'll start eating less and lose a couple of pounds.
  • debrasloan77
    debrasloan77 Posts: 1 Member
    I have a hard time Kate at nite too. I do so good during the day and then mess it up at nite. The kids food is tempting too. I love to cook and bake so I feel super deprived when I can't do what I like to do or make stiff for my family for fear I will eat it. Ugh. Any suggestions? I'm doing a low carb /high protein diet.
  • kakaovanilya
    kakaovanilya Posts: 647 Member
    While this is a great thread, i do wish to encourage that if people are chronically struggling with binge eating on a consistent basis with no control, to seek help, this is not something you should let go and hope it goes away. There is options out there to help, I am currently medicated for my binge eating disorder and would of never made it without them.

    When did you decide to get help for your binge eating? How many times a week were you binging?
  • HellYeahItsKriss
    HellYeahItsKriss Posts: 906 Member
    It took me years to get help.
    I was eating 5-6k calories a day pretty much every day.

    There is a big difference between binge eating and binge eating disorder. When one becomes the other.. or if one isn't the other that's when it's time to get help.
  • kakaovanilya
    kakaovanilya Posts: 647 Member
    I am craving cake right now but it is 10.30 pm and i've already gone over my maintenance calories :'(
  • sofchak
    sofchak Posts: 862 Member
    There’s an active support group for binge eating with a daily check in thread that’s very supportive: https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/group/726-binge-eating-support-group
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  • kakaovanilya
    kakaovanilya Posts: 647 Member
    edited April 2018
    I am back! I started to eat clean last week and I was doing well until yesterday. I ate half a jar of nutella. I felt like binge eating but I stopped myself and ate a healthy dinner and promised myself I won't cheat again but I cheated again today. Not a big cheat though and I ate a healthy dinner half an hour ago. I am 166 cm and 63 kg (5'5 and almost 139 lbs) so I don't have much to lose but I am angry because I just can't do it :angry: I'll post here when I feel like cheating. I hope I can do it this time :neutral:
  • midlomel1971
    midlomel1971 Posts: 1,283 Member
    I struggle constantly. I am not one of those "moderation is everything!" people. If I get one bite, I'll want 100. I have to abstain completely. After a couple weeks, the sugar cravings do go away. However, I still have my weak moments. The one day of the week I telework is so hard. I'm home in the house alone and all I think about is eating. Especially wanting huge bowls of sugary cereal and peanut butter toast.
  • loe_loe23
    loe_loe23 Posts: 74 Member
    currently craving chocolate or anything "dessert" like. but I'm pmsing so there's a "reason". However, I do have a past/present battle with binge eating. Haven't in a while but the urges are always there. my dad is a binge eater..
  • kakaovanilya
    kakaovanilya Posts: 647 Member
    edited April 2018
    I just ate a caramel & chocolate bar and full fat white cheese sandwich and also some extra string cheese. I am not sure if this was binging or was i just hungry :( i ate 2465 calories today :'(
  • kakaovanilya
    kakaovanilya Posts: 647 Member
    I struggle constantly. I am not one of those "moderation is everything!" people. If I get one bite, I'll want 100. I have to abstain completely. After a couple weeks, the sugar cravings do go away. However, I still have my weak moments. The one day of the week I telework is so hard. I'm home in the house alone and all I think about is eating. Especially wanting huge bowls of sugary cereal and peanut butter toast.

    I am the same. I cant stop with one bite. Everything would be easier if we could eat moderately
  • kakaovanilya
    kakaovanilya Posts: 647 Member
    loe_loe23 wrote: »
    currently craving chocolate or anything "dessert" like. but I'm pmsing so there's a "reason". However, I do have a past/present battle with binge eating. Haven't in a while but the urges are always there. my dad is a binge eater..

    I posted what i just ate. Do you think this is binge eating or did i just overeat?
  • optionsguy88
    optionsguy88 Posts: 325 Member
    Snacking at home is my biggest struggle. I could have 3 full meals but still want little sweets or tasty treats...
  • kakaovanilya
    kakaovanilya Posts: 647 Member
    Last night was a disaster. I'd already taken around 2600 calories by 9 pm and i binged around midnight and ate almost 1000 extra calories and i am 2 lbs heavier today :angry: hoping to get rid of it in a few days
  • kakaovanilya
    kakaovanilya Posts: 647 Member
    It took me 3 days to lose binge weight and it was frustrating. I am hoping to go for 3 weeks without cheating or binging.
  • lauracups
    lauracups Posts: 533 Member
    I recently had admitted I "struggle " with binging. Since doing that, I started reading 2 books, Brain over Binge and Taming The Feast Beast. I have found both to be very interesting and helpful. In a matter of 2 weeks from me telling myself and others I "struggle " today I feel I "manage ". One simple word change, one small change in how I view the urge to over eat has made a HUGE difference.
    Wishing you luck!
  • KeepRunningFatboy
    KeepRunningFatboy Posts: 3,055 Member
    Second Laura’s Brain over Binge recommendation.

    It’s not easy but it comes down to recognizing the voice of the Binge beast, recognizing deeply entrenched habits, and then using the higher brain, to interrupt the process.

    Mindfulness / Awareness is important to recognize that the Binge is coming. So I also recommend being alert to situations that trigger binging.
  • kakaovanilya
    kakaovanilya Posts: 647 Member
    Second Laura’s Brain over Binge recommendation.

    It’s not easy but it comes down to recognizing the voice of the Binge beast, recognizing deeply entrenched habits, and then using the higher brain, to interrupt the process.

    Mindfulness / Awareness is important to recognize that the Binge is coming. So I also recommend being alert to situations that trigger binging.

    I am not sure if I have a binge eating problem. I usually binge every two weeks when I'm on a diet. Do you think this is normal?
  • KeepRunningFatboy
    KeepRunningFatboy Posts: 3,055 Member
    I do think that is normal.

    Diets involve consuming less calories over a period of time. Your brain wants to protect you from harm. The brain will see longer term calorie deprivation as threat. So the hypothalamus will send strong urges to consume calories.

    Also, during a diet you might not be getting as many nutrients as the body demands. Fats are essential, and low fat diets are very popular. The brain and body knows what it is deprived of and you will begin to experience cravings and urges.

    Binge Eating Disorder, and Bulimia can result from the dieting cycle, but are more involved. It’s usually more of a Restriction- Binge - Purge repeating cycle. There are other factors such as obsession, fear foods, anxiety, and other non normal eating rituals; (Hiding evidence of the binge and purge for me) This activity requires medical support.

    If you want to lose weight, avoid extremes. Get your essential nutrients. If you are hungry, eat. Severe dieting behaviors will likely result in binging.

    And if you eating does become uncontrollable and mindless, do seek help.
  • justjara123
    justjara123 Posts: 63 Member
    edited April 2018
    Tbh I had to go to therapy. It was a lot of changing my way of thinking, then changing my eating habits. Having someone that understands and keeps me accountable was the most useful. I’m much better now with my self-control and it’s reflected in my ability to keep a healthy weight and eating habits but there are days that I cry because I’m so weak and my emotions (mostly anger) still need work. I’m continuing to learn that different foods are meant to be enjoyed in moderation. Keep fighting and build a social support system that caters to your needs and personality.
  • kakaovanilya
    kakaovanilya Posts: 647 Member
    I don't know what happened to me. I've been binging for 3 days and gained 3 kilograms. I feel devastated :'(
  • kakaovanilya
    kakaovanilya Posts: 647 Member
    I've checked success stories on the forum several times and seen people lost big amounts of weight. They've done amazing jobs. I need to lose 5 kilograms only and I just can't do it. I am a total loser :(
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