Why am I so obsessed if certain people like my Facebook posts?

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Honestly this is a tell tale sign they want to sleep with you

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You are overthinking this. FB is not real life and therefore does not count for anything much in my opinion.

So it doesn't matter who does or doesn't like your posts. FB is not a measure of your worth. If you want to feel validated stop worrying about facebook and do something worthwhile in the real world.

Someone liking a picture of what you have just eaten for lunch for example is not a benchmark to measure your life against.

Don't let FB dictate your moods or how you feel toward other people, especially your friends.

You are reading too much into it. If you think one of your friends is mad or there is something wrong then speak to them. Don't sit there assuming things just because they haven't clicked a button on an electronic device.

Young people put too much value on being "liked" it is ridiculous. Not everyone is hanging on your every post just so they can make a comment.

Get your priorities right. Go out with your freinds, talk to them, have fun with them and stop worrying about what people on FB may or may not be thinking about your posts. It really doesnt matter. It a social media site not REAL LIFE.

I’m pretty short so my opinion probably doesn’t count to you... but here goes it anyway: it sounds like you could do with focusing on yourself for the next while instead of worrying and overthinking everyone else’s opinions of you. Maybe take some time to learn who you are at the core and then the number of “likes” on social media won’t matter so much anymore.

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I will smash that like button for you just add me as a friend

I quit using fb bc ppl were getting to ridiculous and getting mad about anything and everything. then I see others trying to make ppl mad. No thanks I'm good without it

If it's me your thinking of, please know that now that I've found myfitnesspal I'm just not that in to facebook anymore.

I don't have a Facebook account, so that my family and co-workers can't add me; but I think they have a disable button or something one step down from a permanent removal. Maybe try that so you can "get a break" from it for a bit. It looks like you're focusing too hard or over-thinking what's going on, and that can't be healthy.

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Well it's not much different here is it? Selfies so posed and filtered that we probably couldnt recognize half the people in real life.....why? Because everyone wants to see nice comment. I don't mind the selfies, I actually enjoy a lot of them. But i have always said, if people worried more about looking and feeling good, and less of how to be perceived in such a way, we wouldn't need so mu h computer generated make up artistry and speedily lighting pose selfies. Wanting likes is social media, not just facebook. And almost everybody is afflicted with it, not just those that admit it.

Facebook has a new feature. If your universe of facebook friends aren't posting enough nonsense, facebook fills your screen with necro-nonsense from years before.

bootyrubsandtacos wrote: »

This was actually a problem for me when I was younger. I started obsessing about getting likes and attention *eyeroll*. It reached a point where I had to step back, because I realized how RIDICULOUS it is to want superficial validation from random people on the net. I ended up deleting my FB and Instagram and it was such a relief. I feel like social media is MEANT to f****ck with your head a little bit. That’s why it’s so popular. It taps in to our intrinsic need to be liked and validated. Mark and them knew what they’re doing.

Like Even though you don't need me to like it.