Turned into your parents yet ?

Avocado_Angel
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The old saying "oh just you wait, till ya get to my age" I'm no where near my parents age, well, actually thier no longer here but. But I guess I'm now a lot older (31 in March) not a pensioner but I'm older. Don't know what's happened but I'm definitely finding that I find my mum & dad make a lot more sense now lol and I have quite a lot of their traits. Maybe cos I spent so much time with them. But I always used to think nah, that'll never be me lol
Have you taken on a lot of your parents traditions and find that you share their traits?
Have you taken on a lot of your parents traditions and find that you share their traits?
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Yes and as I get older--it's comforting.1
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Don't tell my kids, but.... me too.
'I walked up hill both ways in the blowing snow! Stop yer complainin, whippersnappers!'3 -
SabotageinStilettos wrote: »Yes, just the other day I was drunk by noon, manhandling the lawn boy.
I'm becoming a grumpy ole *kitten*, with a smattering of my youthful glow still lingering in the background. Trying hard not to let the grumpy ole *kitten* completely take over lol0 -
No, not me. For some people it's the opposite. Not all parents should be emulated, anyway. And I won't ever say things like that to my children. I want them to grow up to make their own choices, choose their own lives, be who they are, learn their own life lessons, gain their own wisdom. I listen to them, talk, offer guidance. But, I don't make judgements on how they will understand me when they are older. Instead I seek to understand them from my own experience of having been their age. This is just my personal experience. No judgement intended towards people that like this concept. I know friends that had that experience.0
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BinaryPulsar wrote: »No, not me. For some people it's the opposite. Not all parents should be emulated, anyway. And I won't ever say things like that to my children. I want them to grow up to make their own choices, choose their own lives, be who they are, learn their own life lessons, gain their own wisdom. I listen to them, talk, offer guidance. But, I don't make judgements on how they will understand me when they are older. Instead I seek to understand them from my own experience of having been their age. This is just my personal experience. No judgement intended towards people that like this concept. I know friends that had that experience.
Don't get me wrong, there is a million things my parents did wrong and I will never emulate that. I do things my own way but I seem to have taken on thier habits without even knowing it. One day I realised, omg this is what my parents taught me. I took on all thier good traits. I didn't see the point in anything they taught me, now I see they were trying to protect me, I now appreciate it.1 -
Sounds bad to say but God I hope not. I'm striving to be better than Mother ever was.2
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Yes, i find myself talking like my mom, saying things like she would say them. It always catches me off guard. I act more like my mom in terms of mannerisms, but my character is more like my dad.0
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Avocado_Angel wrote: »BinaryPulsar wrote: »No, not me. For some people it's the opposite. Not all parents should be emulated, anyway. And I won't ever say things like that to my children. I want them to grow up to make their own choices, choose their own lives, be who they are, learn their own life lessons, gain their own wisdom. I listen to them, talk, offer guidance. But, I don't make judgements on how they will understand me when they are older. Instead I seek to understand them from my own experience of having been their age. This is just my personal experience. No judgement intended towards people that like this concept. I know friends that had that experience.
Don't get me wrong, there is a million things my parents did wrong and I will never emulate that. I do things my own way but I seem to have taken on thier habits without even knowing it. One day I realised, omg this is what my parents taught me. I took on all thier good traits. I didn't see the point in anything they taught me, now I see they were trying to protect me, I now appreciate it.
That's a good thing. I was abused and not protected. It was opposite. So, this concept just added to hurt for me. But, my supportive friends explain to me what you did... how it can be a good thing.0 -
GemstoneofHeart wrote: »Yes, i find myself talking like my mom, saying things like she would say them. It always catches me off guard. I act more like my mom in terms of mannerisms, but my character is more like my dad.
I am totally the same. My dad's character but with my mum's mannerisms. A mixture of both. Totally catches me off guard as well it just happens!0 -
BinaryPulsar wrote: »Avocado_Angel wrote: »BinaryPulsar wrote: »No, not me. For some people it's the opposite. Not all parents should be emulated, anyway. And I won't ever say things like that to my children. I want them to grow up to make their own choices, choose their own lives, be who they are, learn their own life lessons, gain their own wisdom. I listen to them, talk, offer guidance. But, I don't make judgements on how they will understand me when they are older. Instead I seek to understand them from my own experience of having been their age. This is just my personal experience. No judgement intended towards people that like this concept. I know friends that had that experience.
Don't get me wrong, there is a million things my parents did wrong and I will never emulate that. I do things my own way but I seem to have taken on thier habits without even knowing it. One day I realised, omg this is what my parents taught me. I took on all thier good traits. I didn't see the point in anything they taught me, now I see they were trying to protect me, I now appreciate it.
That's a good thing. I was abused and not protected. It was opposite. So, this concept just added to hurt for me. But, my supportive friends explain to me what you did... how it can be a good thing.
I'm sorry you had to go through that. My parents became abusive toward the end. They changed from nice to nasty so I know how hurtful it is when your parents are hurtful towards you. It cuts deep.0 -
Not really. I think I have always been different from my family. I don't think I act very like my parents.
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Avocado_Angel wrote: »BinaryPulsar wrote: »Avocado_Angel wrote: »BinaryPulsar wrote: »No, not me. For some people it's the opposite. Not all parents should be emulated, anyway. And I won't ever say things like that to my children. I want them to grow up to make their own choices, choose their own lives, be who they are, learn their own life lessons, gain their own wisdom. I listen to them, talk, offer guidance. But, I don't make judgements on how they will understand me when they are older. Instead I seek to understand them from my own experience of having been their age. This is just my personal experience. No judgement intended towards people that like this concept. I know friends that had that experience.
Don't get me wrong, there is a million things my parents did wrong and I will never emulate that. I do things my own way but I seem to have taken on thier habits without even knowing it. One day I realised, omg this is what my parents taught me. I took on all thier good traits. I didn't see the point in anything they taught me, now I see they were trying to protect me, I now appreciate it.
That's a good thing. I was abused and not protected. It was opposite. So, this concept just added to hurt for me. But, my supportive friends explain to me what you did... how it can be a good thing.
I'm sorry you had to go through that. My parents became abusive toward the end. They changed from nice to nasty so I know how hurtful it is when your parents are hurtful towards you. It cuts deep.
Sorry to hear that also. ♡ Thanks.0 -
Oh yes, at 22 I find myself telling my younger sister (16) to stop all her swearing and my mom just side eyes me because she used to tell me thme same thing0
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Actually, my parents are dead so I kinda really don't want to turn into them!! Sorry folks but I just realised. Dark humour yes, but we need it.2
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No.
Now Get Off My Lawn.
Damn Kids.4 -
I see so much of both my parents in me....thanks. Mom and dad
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Avocado_Angel wrote: »BinaryPulsar wrote: »No, not me. For some people it's the opposite. Not all parents should be emulated, anyway. And I won't ever say things like that to my children. I want them to grow up to make their own choices, choose their own lives, be who they are, learn their own life lessons, gain their own wisdom. I listen to them, talk, offer guidance. But, I don't make judgements on how they will understand me when they are older. Instead I seek to understand them from my own experience of having been their age. This is just my personal experience. No judgement intended towards people that like this concept. I know friends that had that experience.
Don't get me wrong, there is a million things my parents did wrong and I will never emulate that. I do things my own way but I seem to have taken on thier habits without even knowing it. One day I realised, omg this is what my parents taught me. I took on all thier good traits. I didn't see the point in anything they taught me, now I see they were trying to protect me, I now appreciate it.
That's good that you realize and see what they were trying to do in terms of protecting and teaching you. Hopefully, my son comes to that realization. But, given history and recent events, doubtful.
As to my becoming my parents, there's a lot of good traits of them I picked up from them and my grandparents. But, the bad, nope.0 -
Total opposite. But hey that’s cool.
I lift and run. Extremely active outdoors.
Them, nope.2
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