THE MYTH OF MOTIVATION (AND WHAT YOU NEED INSTEAD)

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  • Cylphin60
    Cylphin60 Posts: 863 Member
    Awesome :)
  • White_hibiscus
    White_hibiscus Posts: 1,594 Member
    Wow. Thank you so much for sharing this.
  • diannethegeek
    diannethegeek Posts: 14,776 Member
    Just giving this a holiday bump. Don't mind me.
  • diannethegeek
    diannethegeek Posts: 14,776 Member
    I've always liked this thread. Giving it a bump.
  • diannethegeek
    diannethegeek Posts: 14,776 Member
    I've bumped this about a hundred times now and I don't know if anyone else is reading it, but here's another bump because I found it so useful.
  • diannethegeek
    diannethegeek Posts: 14,776 Member
    Whelp, might as well add another bump, just in case.
  • Jruzer
    Jruzer Posts: 3,501 Member
    Bumpity bump bump
  • bremm2015
    bremm2015 Posts: 14 Member
    I made the decision yesterday to lose 1 lb per week until Christmas, so your inspirational post has motivated me to make good decisions and choices each day till Christmas. I intend reading your post each morning. Thanks so much for the motivation to stop overeating and so become slim again.
  • facetocallhome
    facetocallhome Posts: 36 Member
    This is great, thanks for sharing!
  • pycain
    pycain Posts: 6 Member
    Thanks for posting this. It has changed my mindset completely. The section with the soldiers in the rain and then saying we can put down the pizza and beer literally put me into tears. I feel silly for ever feeling like not eating a cookie or some pizza is hard. Now that I've Decided to be healthy it all seems so easy and simple.
  • winterfly6
    winterfly6 Posts: 9 Member
    A lot to think about here. Not so much decision as it is habit. If I don't stay focused to make the healthy decisions, then habit takes over and I do what I've always done. Good post to cause me to think healthy.
  • lorrpb
    lorrpb Posts: 11,463 Member
    winterfly6 wrote: »
    A lot to think about here. Not so much decision as it is habit. If I don't stay focused to make the healthy decisions, then habit takes over and I do what I've always done. Good post to cause me to think healthy.

    Eventually you will get to the point where your new behaviors are the habit, and it becomes easier to follow the new habits than make an excuse/decision not to.
  • vmbourg
    vmbourg Posts: 125 Member
    I love this... I have been trying to lose weight since this last pregnancy. I joined a gym but "struggled" to motivate myself to eat healthy. And with minimal effort, I had minimal success and stopped at 20lbs lost. Two months ago I made a decision to commit to putting healthy things in my body. And guess what, in 60 days I am down 10 more lbs. When I decided to get serious, the rest was easy. Thank you for the reminder!
  • themedalist
    themedalist Posts: 3,218 Member
    This blog remains my all time favorite MFP post. You do not need motivation. You need to decide and follow through.
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  • tuolon
    tuolon Posts: 107 Member
    Bump
  • jsdayone
    jsdayone Posts: 3 Member
    I love this .. thanks!!
  • PamamaJane
    PamamaJane Posts: 288 Member
    Bump. 'cause this needs to be shared. Love it and live it!
  • llbrixon
    llbrixon Posts: 964 Member
    This is from fitness blogger Vic Margay.
    http://www.vicmagary.com/blog/fitness-motivation/

    “Motivated, motivated, hell yeah I’m motivated. Ooo Ah, I wanna kill somebody. Killlllll!!!”

    As part of the Army’s brainwashing process (better known as Basic Training), mantras like the one above shouted in unison by a platoon of young men with shaved heads often made Basic Training feel like some sort of twisted psycho cheerleading camp instead of preparation to become Infantry soldiers.

    But we were motivated.

    warface.jpeg

    Or were we? If you include fear of punishment and peer pressure as motivation, then the environment at Ft. Benning was certainly motivating.

    But were we self-motivated? No, most of us standing in heel-to-toe lines and referring to our new Army buddies by last name only at Ft. Benning, Georgia in the autumn of 1998 were not self- motivated. And it is acquiring and maintaining this self-motivation that I am often asked about in the realm of diet and fitness. But here’s the thing…


    Lack of motivation to follow a healthy diet and commit to consistent exercise is a myth.

    You are going to die. And neglecting your health and fitness is more likely to hasten your departure. Furthermore, the days you do have will be spent with less energy and more pain if you choose to eat crap and be sedentary. The motivation, the “why”, to exercise and eat nutritious foods in appropriate quantity is present and strong. The bigger mystery is why we choose to ignore the need for proper diet and exercise in the face of obvious requirement.

    We do not need motivation. We need decision.

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    We need unwavering non-negotiable decision. And yes, I know that the pic above was not taken during Hurricane Sandy (although I thought it was when I posted it to my Facebook page). But it was taken during a torrential down pour at some point in recent history. It absolutely captures the fortitude and decision of those soldiers to stand by their post no matter what hardship may be encountered.

    If those soldiers can decide to endure the elements, then we can decide to put down the damned pizza and beer.

    Or forgo the free bagels at the office. Or wake up a half hour early to exercise. Or keep a food journal everyday. Or what ever else we know we need to do but keep failing to commit to because it is “hard”.

    Enduring chemotherapy is hard.

    Hitting a fast ball in the major leagues in hard.

    Negotiating nuclear disarmament from a hostile nation is hard.

    Saying goodbye to a loved one in the hospital or the veterinarian’s office for the last time is hard.

    But putting down the cookies and picking up the spinach?
    That’s only as hard as the story we tell ourselves.

    What is often called lack of motivation is actually lack of discipline and lack of habit. I’ve posted about discipline and habit before – those entries lack the sexy headlines such as “1 weird trick to lose belly fat” and often do not get more than the cursory glance. And that’s unfortunate because it is discipline and habit that hold the keys to not only losing weight or getting strong, but to anything that we want in life.

    You already know what to do to lose weight and get in shape. The smaller details will vary but the big picture is always to eat real food in appropriate quantity and move in a manner that is continually challenging. The problem is not lack of knowledge or lack of motivation. The problem is lack of decision.

    Decide. Now.

    Share your thoughts on motivation, decision, and the mental/emotional hurdles we face when it comes to diet, fitness, and weight loss in the comments below.

    Stay strong

    I love this post. I am bumping it up!
  • eyezblu00
    eyezblu00 Posts: 11 Member
    I've been a member for a while now with no real change. This is the first time I've read this particular post. I love it when someone can give it to you straight. I've been thinking about motivation lately..it comes and goes it's only a feeling though. Decisions are choices..actions...that may produce a tangible result. I need tangible results therefore I decide now.
  • diannethegeek
    diannethegeek Posts: 14,776 Member
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  • mph323
    mph323 Posts: 3,565 Member
    Back to page 1 for this useful post!
  • packersfan0103
    packersfan0103 Posts: 251 Member
    This is from fitness blogger Vic Margay.
    http://www.vicmagary.com/blog/fitness-motivation/

    “Motivated, motivated, hell yeah I’m motivated. Ooo Ah, I wanna kill somebody. Killlllll!!!”

    As part of the Army’s brainwashing process (better known as Basic Training), mantras like the one above shouted in unison by a platoon of young men with shaved heads often made Basic Training feel like some sort of twisted psycho cheerleading camp instead of preparation to become Infantry soldiers.

    But we were motivated.

    warface.jpeg

    Or were we? If you include fear of punishment and peer pressure as motivation, then the environment at Ft. Benning was certainly motivating.

    But were we self-motivated? No, most of us standing in heel-to-toe lines and referring to our new Army buddies by last name only at Ft. Benning, Georgia in the autumn of 1998 were not self- motivated. And it is acquiring and maintaining this self-motivation that I am often asked about in the realm of diet and fitness. But here’s the thing…


    Lack of motivation to follow a healthy diet and commit to consistent exercise is a myth.

    You are going to die. And neglecting your health and fitness is more likely to hasten your departure. Furthermore, the days you do have will be spent with less energy and more pain if you choose to eat crap and be sedentary. The motivation, the “why”, to exercise and eat nutritious foods in appropriate quantity is present and strong. The bigger mystery is why we choose to ignore the need for proper diet and exercise in the face of obvious requirement.

    We do not need motivation. We need decision.

    3315ca2621df11e2a64f22000a1f968e_7.jpeg


    We need unwavering non-negotiable decision. And yes, I know that the pic above was not taken during Hurricane Sandy (although I thought it was when I posted it to my Facebook page). But it was taken during a torrential down pour at some point in recent history. It absolutely captures the fortitude and decision of those soldiers to stand by their post no matter what hardship may be encountered.

    If those soldiers can decide to endure the elements, then we can decide to put down the damned pizza and beer.

    Or forgo the free bagels at the office. Or wake up a half hour early to exercise. Or keep a food journal everyday. Or what ever else we know we need to do but keep failing to commit to because it is “hard”.

    Enduring chemotherapy is hard.

    Hitting a fast ball in the major leagues in hard.

    Negotiating nuclear disarmament from a hostile nation is hard.

    Saying goodbye to a loved one in the hospital or the veterinarian’s office for the last time is hard.

    But putting down the cookies and picking up the spinach?
    That’s only as hard as the story we tell ourselves.

    What is often called lack of motivation is actually lack of discipline and lack of habit. I’ve posted about discipline and habit before – those entries lack the sexy headlines such as “1 weird trick to lose belly fat” and often do not get more than the cursory glance. And that’s unfortunate because it is discipline and habit that hold the keys to not only losing weight or getting strong, but to anything that we want in life.

    You already know what to do to lose weight and get in shape. The smaller details will vary but the big picture is always to eat real food in appropriate quantity and move in a manner that is continually challenging. The problem is not lack of knowledge or lack of motivation. The problem is lack of decision.

    Decide. Now.

    Share your thoughts on motivation, decision, and the mental/emotional hurdles we face when it comes to diet, fitness, and weight loss in the comments below.

    Stay strong

    I was just discussing this with my husband this morning. My words to him we're how I know exactly what to do. I just need to do it.
  • Laruto
    Laruto Posts: 23 Member
    edited January 2018
    Love this! It's a great explanation! Whenever I'm tired or on the fence about exercise...I say to myself, "Do you want to go forwards or backwards?" Helps a lot lol as obv want to go forwards!! Thanks for the post!! =^.^=
  • HoneyBadger302
    HoneyBadger302 Posts: 2,073 Member
    I think this is spot on OP, great post. Decisions - very similar to my use of the word "priorities" instead of willpower, but this post definitely reflects my views on "motivation."
  • chivisrn
    chivisrn Posts: 4 Member
    the problem is to bring yourself to make that decision for real. i dont know what in my stupid brain is stopping me to finally do it, it ridiculous and i cant even explain it.
  • Tmountainmom
    Tmountainmom Posts: 16 Member
    Just what I needed to read! My resolve had been fluctuating over the holidays. Thanks for the post.
  • drea2011
    drea2011 Posts: 874 Member
    This is so true. I’m a serial starter...been on mfp for years and my weight has fluctuated throughout the years. lit I’ve literally gone up and down up and down and I’m disappointed in myself and kind of disgusted! I let myself be mad and now I’m over it and now I’m living for me this is my second week of clean eating (meal prepping) working out everyday for at least 30. Only defused fruit water I try to get through a gallon a day. Something in me just clicked. I’ve never felt like this before. I have a long way to go but this time is the last time I start over no matter what and I’m sorry that this post is really long
  • hmmpizza
    hmmpizza Posts: 3 Member
    right on point
  • aimjolie
    aimjolie Posts: 60 Member
    Thank you! I’ve been struggling to get back my motivation to be fit since Christmas and failing miserably with the late night snacking. After reading this I realized I did not make the decision to eat healthy. I just blamed lack of motivation. I already lost 30lbs. I need to lose 20 more lbs. I can do this! Thank you for giving me the push to really decide. This is my decision! I can do this!