Less alcohol- February 2018- one day at a time
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@lporter229, that is a WIN!2
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Doing good MFP! Work stress was bad today but no drink for this guy....the building I live in has a wine social event tomorrow from 6 to 7....I plan to go in there with a printout of this thread and start reading it out loud until they call the cops.....watch the news tomorrow at 8
@NormInv - I love your posts. This was particularly hilarious. Thanks for being here! You always give me something to think about or a laugh.5 -
FattieBabs wrote: »Now, in that fateful period between coming home and dinner ( around 2 hours) I ask him to make me a strong cappuccino with his beloved Expresso machine. I sit and talk to him and then go and take a long bath. This breaks the "must have a drink" cycle, and then makes him have to consider if he wants a drink without me.....
@FattieBabs - this is brilliant and creative. What a great way to break a habit! I find that there are only certain hours of the day when I'm tempted/inclined to overeat/snack/drink/overdrink. Usually it's around 4-7, when I'm getting close to dinner and right after dinner (usually we eat at 6). If I can fill that period with something or change up my routine that really helps. I've tried planning exactly what I'm going to eat/drink during that period way ahead of time and that also helps. I then, of course, I screw up, LOL. We're all works in progress.
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Good morning!
I am 4 days AF for February and 2 in a row. I want to be honest here and say that it was very difficult for me last night not to give in. Part of the reason why I did not was this group, I didn't want to log on in the morning and say that I had failed. I get home from work around 5:45 and immediately I was thinking about cracking open a beer, but instead I started making dinner. Dinner took me a while to make cause I was peeling potatoes, cutting peppers, etc; all the sudden its 6:30, I looked over to the clock and said "if I can make it until 7, I'll get a beer" low and behold 7pm rolls around, I still wanted it like crazy; but I didn't do it. I thought to myself "Right now, what is the motive? Is it to get drunk? or did I just crave the taste?" I talked myself out of it. I told myself that it was too late to start drinking, it wasn't, but I didn't drink.
Happy Wednesday!14 -
JulieAL1969 wrote: »AlainaKayy wrote: »I'm up to 3 days AF for February, sounds like nothing, but I don't know the last month that I could say that.
I remember day 3! That felt like 30! You are doing awesome! Keep it up. At Day 10, they say you make a breakthrough in the way you feel.
Thank you! I really appreciate the kind words!3 -
I’m in... my goal is to limit wine to 1 glass a day.7
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theresecooper51 wrote: »I’m in... my goal is to limit wine to 1 glass a day.
That's a good start! and welcome2 -
lporter229 wrote: »Last night I had a beer. Just a beer. It has been ages since I could say that. Well, mostly because I rarely drink beer since I am gluten free. But last night was good because it was a beautiful, unseasonably warm evening in Ohio. My husband is out of town and I was thinking about going home and hanging out on my patio playing with the dog. Normally, this would involve wine. But I did not have a bottle of wine and I did not want to stop and buy one because I did not want to give in to the temptation. Instead, I remembered that I had a couple of gluten free craft beers that some friends from Wisconsin had so thoughtfully brought for me when they visited a few weekends ago. I opened one of them and enjoyed every sip of it while playing with the dog. Then we went for a long walk and I made dinner and drank water. It was a good night.
Thats ok if u can control it. Well done!!... I'm very glad you had a happy night..3 -
Hey all! I've been a little quiet on this thread as I really had nothing to report. I am 52 days AF and I love how I feel and how much energy I have. I've used this time to log my food, close my rings on my Apple watch and watch the number on the scale go down.
I tried to go back and remember when I first tried alcohol.. and I guess I was in college. My dad was a bad alcoholic and growing up with that, I had no desire to drink. My first drink was at a college frat keg party, and I might have had 1/4 of a dixie solo cup's worth.. and it totally knocked me out. After that... I went to wine coolers, and I remember my friend and I buying Purple Passion (underage I might add) and drinking that. All crap! :-) Anyway.. while I realized I do not have my father's tendencies to drink to excess, I was emotionally attached to my wine. It's been a really great experience not drinking. I enjoy my san pellegrino with lime, my hot teas and even plain water. I don't feel that I am missing out.
That being said... tomorrow, I go on vacation to New Orleans! I plan on coming back from vacation will a loss on the scale. We have planned out our trip and made our reservations... and currently, I will play it by ear regarding alcohol. I do have ONE planned beer scheduled. We are going to do the Abita Brewery tour, and I will have one Abita Amber there. Otherwise, I really don't feel pressured to drink, this is always subject to change. What I do know.. once I am back, I plan on going back AF.
Anyway.. I love this thread.. I love the journeys everyone is sharing. As it has been said before, this thread really helps with support and awareness!11 -
AlainaKayy wrote: »Good morning!
I am 4 days AF for February and 2 in a row. I want to be honest here and say that it was very difficult for me last night not to give in. Part of the reason why I did not was this group, I didn't want to log on in the morning and say that I had failed. I get home from work around 5:45 and immediately I was thinking about cracking open a beer, but instead I started making dinner. Dinner took me a while to make cause I was peeling potatoes, cutting peppers, etc; all the sudden its 6:30, I looked over to the clock and said "if I can make it until 7, I'll get a beer" low and behold 7pm rolls around, I still wanted it like crazy; but I didn't do it. I thought to myself "Right now, what is the motive? Is it to get drunk? or did I just crave the taste?" I talked myself out of it. I told myself that it was too late to start drinking, it wasn't, but I didn't drink.
Happy Wednesday!
Well done!!, Alainakayy!!.. keep up the good work so u can help others2 -
My husband brought home a 12 pack last night and saved 5 for me. He drank a 6 pack on Monday night as well and seeing how worn out he looked, I didn't want to drink at all. He can drink the rest of the beers tonight if he wants. I'll drink my kombucha.
I was bummed out this morning when my son saw all the empty beer bottles around my husband's desk (if I go to bed before him he never cleans up after himself) and asked me, "why does daddy get drunk so much?" I didn't have an answer for him. I don't really know what to say about that and I'm tired of my kids being repeatedly exposed to it, especially the nights my husband gets really drunk and acts like an idiot. They will grow up thinking it's normal to drink. I'm trying to drink just once a week at my sister's house but if I happen to drink at home, I'll wait until after the kids go to bed.9 -
I think that's one thing I've noticed. My kids are grown and they notice and wonder why I'm acting funny as I've tried hiding it. You can't hide it. Ithink that was my trigger shame. Anyway I'm feeling really good that I'm feeling much more in control. I'm proud and hoping to keep this up. What is kombucha?? I've never heard of this but see it here lots as alternative5
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missanne11 wrote: »I think that's one thing I've noticed. My kids are grown and they notice and wonder why I'm acting funny as I've tried hiding it. You can't hide it. Ithink that was my trigger shame. Anyway I'm feeling really good that I'm feeling much more in control. I'm proud and hoping to keep this up. What is kombucha?? I've never heard of this but see it here lots as alternative
It's a fermented tea that contains probiotics. Lots of info in this article:
https://draxe.com/7-reasons-drink-kombucha-everyday/3 -
We are driving to my dad's (Florida) on Friday. Sunday would have been my mom's birthday and he doesn't need to be alone all day. (She passed last June). There will be drinking, but it should actually be easier to stick to my goal. I tend to drink earlier and stop sooner when I'm not just staring at the tv.5
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missanne11 wrote: »I think that's one thing I've noticed. My kids are grown and they notice and wonder why I'm acting funny as I've tried hiding it. You can't hide it. Ithink that was my trigger shame. Anyway I'm feeling really good that I'm feeling much more in control. I'm proud and hoping to keep this up. What is kombucha?? I've never heard of this but see it here lots as alternative
I think we share simular experiences..
Kombucha is a fermented tea. It comes in a variety of flavours. The hibiscus one is very nice. They sell it here in australia more. U can even buy it in the super markets now. Its great and refreshing and plus u feel real good in the mornings. Clear headed. Its has a cleansing effect.1 -
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Thanks. Alzzi76. I live in Canada. Not sure where to look here. But thanks for your info!!2
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AlainaKayy wrote: »Good morning!
I am 4 days AF for February and 2 in a row. I want to be honest here and say that it was very difficult for me last night not to give in. Part of the reason why I did not was this group, I didn't want to log on in the morning and say that I had failed. I get home from work around 5:45 and immediately I was thinking about cracking open a beer, but instead I started making dinner. Dinner took me a while to make cause I was peeling potatoes, cutting peppers, etc; all the sudden its 6:30, I looked over to the clock and said "if I can make it until 7, I'll get a beer" low and behold 7pm rolls around, I still wanted it like crazy; but I didn't do it. I thought to myself "Right now, what is the motive? Is it to get drunk? or did I just crave the taste?" I talked myself out of it. I told myself that it was too late to start drinking, it wasn't, but I didn't drink.
Happy Wednesday!
Well done!!, Alainakayy!!.. keep up the good work so u can help others
Thank you! Will do! Tonight's another night!1
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