People can't be bothered...

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  • goatg
    goatg Posts: 1,399 Member
    jjpptt2 wrote: »


    But in my case, I'm the overweight, slow, out-of-shape guy who finds inspiration from successful people - be it people who are leaner than me, stronger than me, faster than me, or more accomplished than me in some other way. So I'm drawn to having those types of people on my FL - which means I've got a lot of fast, strong, good-looking people on my list. At least until they start to annoy me. But I don't think I'm creepy.

    1. You're not creepy in the least bit.
    2. WTF am I doing on your friends' list.

    :-)
  • goatg
    goatg Posts: 1,399 Member
    edited March 2018
    BTW, jjpptt2, I'm doing a tri camp with a friend of two in June and even May (Lake Placid) if the weather is agreeable. I know it's a ways away but we're IM training. You're welcome to join.
  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
    goatg wrote: »
    BTW, jjpptt2, I'm doing a tri camp with a friend of two in June and even May (Lake Placid) if the weather is agreeable. I know it's a ways away but we're IM training. You're welcome to join.

    lmao. OK... I'll work the aid station for you.
  • goatg
    goatg Posts: 1,399 Member
    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    goatg wrote: »
    BTW, jjpptt2, I'm doing a tri camp with a friend of two in June and even May (Lake Placid) if the weather is agreeable. I know it's a ways away but we're IM training. You're welcome to join.

    lmao. OK... I'll work the aid station for you.

    Hahahahaha.

    You have 3 months.
  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
    goatg wrote: »
    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    goatg wrote: »
    BTW, jjpptt2, I'm doing a tri camp with a friend of two in June and even May (Lake Placid) if the weather is agreeable. I know it's a ways away but we're IM training. You're welcome to join.

    lmao. OK... I'll work the aid station for you.

    Hahahahaha.

    You have 3 months.

    I'll work on my wetsuit stripping... *wink*
  • goatg
    goatg Posts: 1,399 Member
    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    goatg wrote: »
    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    goatg wrote: »
    BTW, jjpptt2, I'm doing a tri camp with a friend of two in June and even May (Lake Placid) if the weather is agreeable. I know it's a ways away but we're IM training. You're welcome to join.

    lmao. OK... I'll work the aid station for you.

    Hahahahaha.

    You have 3 months.

    I'll work on my wetsuit stripping... *wink*

    I've got your body glide right here ; )
  • goatg
    goatg Posts: 1,399 Member
    Danw586 wrote: »

    I understand you are half teasing. In all fairness, I have sent probably a total of 5 FR to people on here (roughly half male). I accept most FRs, and most if not all my requests are female, hence why I have "a fan club" according to you haha @goatg

    Oh, so the throngs flock to you? I feel so flattered ; p

    I'm totally teasing! If you knew me in RL, you'd see a broad grin across my face. It was funny, though: twice I've visited your wall to post something, only to stop because I mistook my location for the Church of Dan/Mt. Olympus.
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    Lounmoun wrote: »
    I don't even remember what my profile says.
    It probably should say:
    I rarely accept new friend requests because I am a *kitten* friend. I do not wish to have a large friend list of people I never interact with. I never read my wall, never like anyone's post, never post anything to my wall, have shut off most of the post to my wall things, my diary is public, I post on the message board. I am not losing large inspiring amounts or doing a body transformation. I don't see why someone would want to be my friend here.

    I never used my wall until I realized I could post daily jokes.
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    goatg wrote: »
    Yo, guys, chill.

    Most of these denies/judgments are coming from people who do NOT interact on the forum. I.e., strange guys who have only attractive women with no apparent communication.

    And in that regard I'll keep judging all day long. There's always outliers but there's also efficiency, and I'm not in the business of wasting my time for men (or women) I don't know. Tyvm. *bow

    You know I'm chilling.

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  • goatg
    goatg Posts: 1,399 Member
    Danw586 wrote: »
    goatg wrote: »
    Yo, guys, chill.

    Most of these denies/judgments are coming from people who do NOT interact on the forum. I.e., strange guys who have only attractive women with no apparent communication.

    And in that regard I'll keep judging all day long. There's always outliers but there's also efficiency, and I'm not in the business of wasting my time for men (or women) I don't know. Tyvm. *bow

    Understand that, but yet you specifically called me out even though I stood up for you when a lot of others were calling you out. But ok ;)

    I don't judge others on here for posting photos for validation. Look, I've been there too. I was 50 lbs overweight a few years ago. If this forum helps people feel better about themselves, then I welcome that.

    Guys or girls that are creepy is a different story.

    Anyway, I'm glad we can have this conversation like adults and not take it personally.

    I was teasing you. My apologies if it came off differently.
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    ilovetrees145 wrote: »
    Clever_User_Name wrote: »
    goatg wrote: »
    RoxieDawn wrote: »
    as they are not creepy which has been known to happen way more times than I care to say. :smiley:

    Yeah. If a guy only has attractive female friends on his friends' list, that's pretty much an automatic no.

    If you could see my friend list, you could probably say that about me, however, I don't send out many requests. The ones I did send, over half are male. I can't help who accepts requests and who sends them. But if you want to assume things about people, that's cool too.

    I assume everybody on here is really an overweight old Pervy dude who lives in his moms basement where he has a bunch of computers set up, a bunch of catfishing accounts, boxes of tissue and a gallon of lotion.

    I also agree with what I wrote here.
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    edited March 2018
    Well this thread is just super silly with everyone teasing each other.
  • goatg
    goatg Posts: 1,399 Member
    Note to moderator:



    See how conflict can breed better communication?
    Too far?
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    urloved33 Posts: 3,323 Member
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  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    edited March 2018
    CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »
    If you have a lot of friends this just becomes a stress ball where you have to like all the things and you wanna tell everyone good job and it's exhausting.

    I'm a terrible person, lol. I just lurk on all the friends I have around here and read their stuff, but rarely comment or like anything. :D
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    I'm just a bad motivator tbh. I can barely muster up my own motivation, let alone it for others.

    Cool beans that you burned 2,649 calories doing 6 minutes of joint rolling. Yayyyyyy! :blush:
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  • 123tacos
    123tacos Posts: 661 Member
    So OP...did you find some mfp friends?
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  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    I rarely send requests. My bad

  • suerlewis2
    suerlewis2 Posts: 126 Member
    OMFG what a first world problem to have. Get off the internet, get off your sofa, go find another human being. Most everybody will give you the validation you need.
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  • suerlewis2
    suerlewis2 Posts: 126 Member
    Spoiling for an argument
    Just saying.
    Don't ask, don't get told. Jus say'in.
  • amtyrell
    amtyrell Posts: 1,447 Member
    I find the " only want female friends" or "only mommy friends " far more obnoxious
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