what is a "lifestyle change"?

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jjpptt2
jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
I see people talk about changing their lifestyle or making a lifestyle change, as opposed to dieting. What does that even mean? Admittedly, it's one of those terms like "fitness journey" that makes me cringe. But I'm trying to be open minded here... help me understand.

For me, this is absolutely a diet. I'm managing what I eat and how much I eat based on my goals. It requires almost constant attention, and I don't see that ever changing (unless I completely throw in the towel at some point). What am I missing?
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  • rsclause
    rsclause Posts: 3,103 Member
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    I look at a diet as a temporary calorie reduction or limiting a type of food. Atkins diet, low fat diet and countless others. The difference between calorie deficit and maintenance is not a radical adjustment. The retraining of proper calorie intake is the major part of the lifestyle change and it goes on forever. I have other lifestyle changes that fit in like exercise or not eating fast food on a daily basis.
  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
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    For me personally... if I just ate however I wanted, I'd probably average well over 4000 calories per day... which on most days would be a significant calorie surplus. Yes, at some point things would balance out and I'd stop gaining weight, but I have no interest in maintaining at 300lbs (or where ever I leveled off).

    So for me, I'll be managing/controlling my calories for most of the rest of my life, regardless of whether I'm trying to gain/lose/maintain. In my book, that's dieting... it's a conscience and intentional managing of what and/or how much I eat. Just because it doesn't have a trendy name like keto or atkins or whatever, it's still a diet. I guess that's the crux of my dislike/lack of understanding about the lifestyle terminology.


    I just googled "diet definition" and the verb use of diet is:
    restrict oneself to small amounts or special kinds of food in order to lose weight.

    I guess the "lose weight" part of the definition is where it loses me. Or I lose it.
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,426 Member
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    I think a lot of people use it to say I am changing my diet and activity not I am sleeping more, changing jobs, going back to school, moving to another country, growing my own food, going camping instead of going to casinos for vacation fun, wearing shorts instead of suits, selling the house and buying a condo, having a baby, getting divorced, going on medication, or whatever. It sounds more important to say lifestyle change when it really is just eating a bit different and exercising more.
  • steveko89
    steveko89 Posts: 2,216 Member
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    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    For me, this is absolutely a diet. I'm managing what I eat and how much I eat based on my goals. It requires almost constant attention, and I don't see that ever changing (unless I completely throw in the towel at some point).

    Thinking about and/or measuring intake or simply paying attention to what and how much one eats may be a significant paradigm shift for some. As others said, it can often be an effort to create existentially "better" and/or "healthier" habits to support the efforts input in the kitchen.

    Beyond that it's all semantics. The industry is so inundated with named diets that "going on a diet" or "dieting" connotes something far more structured than simply tracking and reducing calories, despite the applicability of the dictionary definition.
  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
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    briscogun wrote: »
    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    I see people talk about changing their lifestyle or making a lifestyle change, as opposed to dieting. What does that even mean? Admittedly, it's one of those terms like "fitness journey" that makes me cringe. But I'm trying to be open minded here... help me understand.

    For me, this is absolutely a diet. I'm managing what I eat and how much I eat based on my goals. It requires almost constant attention, and I don't see that ever changing (unless I completely throw in the towel at some point). What am I missing?

    The bolded is a lifestyle change. As long as you do what you stated above, you have changed how you manage and relate to food.

    Most people refer to a "diet" as a temporary thing that goes out the window once you get to "X" goal or whatever. Managing your diet going forward is a lifestyle change.

    So it's the existence of an end date that differentiates it? What if I say I'm going on a diet until I'm 100 years old? Yes, I'm being argumentative, but only to make a point. Is there an actual difference between a diet and a lifestyle change, or is it just semantics?
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,874 Member
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    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    I see people talk about changing their lifestyle or making a lifestyle change, as opposed to dieting. What does that even mean? Admittedly, it's one of those terms like "fitness journey" that makes me cringe. But I'm trying to be open minded here... help me understand.

    For me, this is absolutely a diet. I'm managing what I eat and how much I eat based on my goals. It requires almost constant attention, and I don't see that ever changing (unless I completely throw in the towel at some point). What am I missing?

    When I started out 5.5 years ago I was a 2-3 PAD smoker who was very sedentary, and my diet was not particularly nutritionally sound and I was just over the line of overweight to clinically obese. I went in for my 38th birthday exam and came out with some really bad blood work...my triglycerides were so high that they couldn't even get a number on my cholesterol, pre-diabetic blood sugar levels, vitamin D deficient, and high blood pressure.

    For most of my life I was a pretty lean, healthy and fit guy and a competitive track and field athlete from 3rd grade through high school, and I couldn't believe at 38 what was going on.

    I dieted to lose weight...but at the same time, I delved into nutrition and my diet evolved into something much more nutritionally sound than it was before. I also introduced regular exercise back into my life...something I hadn't done in well over a decade.

    TLDR - My lifestyle change was basically implementing a more nutritionally sound diet along with regular exercise.

  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
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    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    briscogun wrote: »
    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    I see people talk about changing their lifestyle or making a lifestyle change, as opposed to dieting. What does that even mean? Admittedly, it's one of those terms like "fitness journey" that makes me cringe. But I'm trying to be open minded here... help me understand.

    For me, this is absolutely a diet. I'm managing what I eat and how much I eat based on my goals. It requires almost constant attention, and I don't see that ever changing (unless I completely throw in the towel at some point). What am I missing?

    The bolded is a lifestyle change. As long as you do what you stated above, you have changed how you manage and relate to food.

    Most people refer to a "diet" as a temporary thing that goes out the window once you get to "X" goal or whatever. Managing your diet going forward is a lifestyle change.

    So it's the existence of an end date that differentiates it? What if I say I'm going on a diet until I'm 100 years old? Yes, I'm being argumentative, but only to make a point. Is there an actual difference between a diet and a lifestyle change, or is it just semantics?

    I think you're maybe getting hung up on the fact that "diet" means "way of eating" in addition to "restrict[ing] oneself to small amounts or special kinds of food in order to lose weight". Lifestyle change is about focusing on the former rather than the latter: I am not on a diet, but I have changed my diet.

    Can you elaborate?


    I am not on a diet, but I have changed my diet.

    I read that as a change in habit, such that eating an appropriate amount and/or a balanced diet becomes habit, rather than requiring constant effort and attention. i.e. being on a diet = attention and effort, having changed my diet = new habits and tendencies.
  • tinkerbellang83
    tinkerbellang83 Posts: 9,136 Member
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    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    briscogun wrote: »
    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    I see people talk about changing their lifestyle or making a lifestyle change, as opposed to dieting. What does that even mean? Admittedly, it's one of those terms like "fitness journey" that makes me cringe. But I'm trying to be open minded here... help me understand.

    For me, this is absolutely a diet. I'm managing what I eat and how much I eat based on my goals. It requires almost constant attention, and I don't see that ever changing (unless I completely throw in the towel at some point). What am I missing?

    The bolded is a lifestyle change. As long as you do what you stated above, you have changed how you manage and relate to food.

    Most people refer to a "diet" as a temporary thing that goes out the window once you get to "X" goal or whatever. Managing your diet going forward is a lifestyle change.

    So it's the existence of an end date that differentiates it? What if I say I'm going on a diet until I'm 100 years old? Yes, I'm being argumentative, but only to make a point. Is there an actual difference between a diet and a lifestyle change, or is it just semantics?

    Probably not going to make it to 100 if you're restricting calorie intake that long if you want to argue extremes.

    The point is to be successful there has to be a plan for maintaining your goal weight and per your dictionary definition that's not a diet.
  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
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    kimny72 wrote: »
    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    briscogun wrote: »
    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    I see people talk about changing their lifestyle or making a lifestyle change, as opposed to dieting. What does that even mean? Admittedly, it's one of those terms like "fitness journey" that makes me cringe. But I'm trying to be open minded here... help me understand.

    For me, this is absolutely a diet. I'm managing what I eat and how much I eat based on my goals. It requires almost constant attention, and I don't see that ever changing (unless I completely throw in the towel at some point). What am I missing?

    The bolded is a lifestyle change. As long as you do what you stated above, you have changed how you manage and relate to food.

    Most people refer to a "diet" as a temporary thing that goes out the window once you get to "X" goal or whatever. Managing your diet going forward is a lifestyle change.

    So it's the existence of an end date that differentiates it? What if I say I'm going on a diet until I'm 100 years old? Yes, I'm being argumentative, but only to make a point. Is there an actual difference between a diet and a lifestyle change, or is it just semantics?

    Every term used in the diet, weight loss, fitness industries are semantics. Diet, lifestyle change, Paleo, low carb, clean eating, HIIT, heavy lifting, eating healthy. They are all vague terms or shorthand that people use when they are trying to sell you something or need clickbait for their blog.
    That's fair, and kind of what I'm otherwise inclined to think.

    kimny72 wrote: »
    When people use these terms, they mean - diet is temporary, lifestyle change is permanent. Regardless of what the dictionary definition of each word is. Honestly if you are going to criticize terms used in the industry with dictionary definitions there is a long and arduous list for you to work through!
    I'm not just arbitrarily criticizing terms for no good reason. I'm asking about a term, a concept, that seems to have traction on MFP. I've been at this for some 7+ years and I still feel like I'm on a diet. I anticipate being on a diet for the next 10 years at least (I assume that at some point I'll stop caring). It sometimes seems like I'm missing something.

  • bpetrosky
    bpetrosky Posts: 3,911 Member
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    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    briscogun wrote: »
    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    I see people talk about changing their lifestyle or making a lifestyle change, as opposed to dieting. What does that even mean? Admittedly, it's one of those terms like "fitness journey" that makes me cringe. But I'm trying to be open minded here... help me understand.

    For me, this is absolutely a diet. I'm managing what I eat and how much I eat based on my goals. It requires almost constant attention, and I don't see that ever changing (unless I completely throw in the towel at some point). What am I missing?

    The bolded is a lifestyle change. As long as you do what you stated above, you have changed how you manage and relate to food.

    Most people refer to a "diet" as a temporary thing that goes out the window once you get to "X" goal or whatever. Managing your diet going forward is a lifestyle change.

    So it's the existence of an end date that differentiates it? What if I say I'm going on a diet until I'm 100 years old? Yes, I'm being argumentative, but only to make a point. Is there an actual difference between a diet and a lifestyle change, or is it just semantics?

    End date, end goal, whatever. Sure the term "Lifestyle change" get's overused, but given how often people look for quick fix plans, supplements, shakes, and fad diets, the idea that you need to make permanent changes to lose weight and maintain the loss is helpful.

    At some point in time, if you are successful in reaching your goal, you will have to decide if you will work to maintain the weight loss or return to the former habits that made you overweight the first time. If you are going to maintain new habits that serve the goal of maintenance, then congrats, you've made a "lifestyle change".