Is it possible my body doesn't want to lose more?

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  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
    edited April 2018
    urloved33 wrote: »
    urloved33 wrote: »
    urloved33 wrote: »
    there is actually a theory that our bodies know best and so if we let it,.our body will self regulate. I cant say I buy into that completely but...

    Then why do we get fat? Why don't they self-regulate to keep us from gaining weight?

    well you have to eat only when you are HUNGRY...and most of us do not. in fact the book indicates we don't know what we feel most of the time...cuz WE ARE TOO BUSY STUFFING FOOD DOWN OUR THROATS..so the writer does have a point. if we only ate when we were hungry had emotional well being...exercised for health..then yes we would self regulate.

    This would make sense if hunger indicated that we needed more calories, but it doesn't. Certain meals can be higher calorie but not as filling. For example, I can eat a donut and be hungry again pretty quickly but that doesn't mean I won't gain weight if I eat more food and wind up consuming more energy than I need.

    I think you are missing the point. the writer suggest we heal ourselves emotionally - which takes far more work than exercise and counting cals - to begin to regulate our weight. healthy people don't abuse their bodies.

    I think there's an awful lot of context missing here, or an awful lot of assumptions are being made. Either way, what you're talking about (emotional health/eating) isn't, I don't think, what OP as getting at.
  • AnvilHead
    AnvilHead Posts: 18,343 Member
    urloved33 wrote: »
    urloved33 wrote: »
    urloved33 wrote: »
    there is actually a theory that our bodies know best and so if we let it,.our body will self regulate. I cant say I buy into that completely but...

    Then why do we get fat? Why don't they self-regulate to keep us from gaining weight?

    well you have to eat only when you are HUNGRY...and most of us do not. in fact the book indicates we don't know what we feel most of the time...cuz WE ARE TOO BUSY STUFFING FOOD DOWN OUR THROATS..so the writer does have a point. if we only ate when we were hungry had emotional well being...exercised for health..then yes we would self regulate.

    This would make sense if hunger indicated that we needed more calories, but it doesn't. Certain meals can be higher calorie but not as filling. For example, I can eat a donut and be hungry again pretty quickly but that doesn't mean I won't gain weight if I eat more food and wind up consuming more energy than I need.

    I think you are missing the point. the writer suggest we heal ourselves emotionally - which takes far more work than exercise and counting cals - to begin to regulate our weight. healthy people don't abuse their bodies.

    So every overweight/obese person is "emotionally ill/injured"?

    I don't buy that any more than I buy the rest of that line of thinking.
  • sgt1372
    sgt1372 Posts: 3,997 Member
    If you are not losing weight, you haven't been trying. Your Libra chart shows that you know how to do it. So, there's no reason you can't do it again.

    25# is about 15% of your current weight at 150 and that to me is a lot of weight to want to lose.

    So, you will need the same dedication and resolve you used to lose the 1st 40#, which was or about 20% of your wt in 2015, to lose the additional 25# or 15% of your wt that you say you want to lose now.

    You just need to get serious about and busy doing it.
  • PrincessSlytherin
    PrincessSlytherin Posts: 181 Member
    Thank you everyone! To answer a few more questions I saw on here. I have been calorie counting once again since the beginning of March. I started exercising about a week in to calorie counting.
  • kimny72
    kimny72 Posts: 16,011 Member
    Thank you everyone! To answer a few more questions I saw on here. I have been calorie counting once again since the beginning of March. I started exercising about a week in to calorie counting.

    It's possible you were dealing with some water weight issues right through March, and if the timing of your monthly cycle coincided with the new exercise water weight in the absolute worst way, might have carried those issues into April.

    If I were you, I would set my goal to no more than 1 lb per week, and really commit to logging accurately, eating back half of your exercise calories, and hitting that calorie goal like a boss for 2 months. Then if you aren't losing at the expected rate, eat back less of the exercise cals if you need to.

    I agree with everyone else that it looks like you know what you're doing and some little tweaks is probably all you need. Hang in there!
  • Chunkahlunkah
    Chunkahlunkah Posts: 373 Member
    edited April 2018
    jrochest wrote: »
    It is only when you have a very pronounced and consistent deficit or surplus that you weight will actually begin to change. For instance, I seriously doubt that one could manage to lose consistent weight on a deficit of, say, 100 calories, even if you were able to somehow get an exact, precise intake of those calories, such as a medically monitored liquid diet for instance. Your body would simply adjust. The deficit would need to be big enough that it would override these mechanisms (which is why the 'starving people' argument doesn't count here - you WILL lose if you starve, yet you may not lose if your deficit is too small for you, a rate which probably differs between people too).

    I would love to see this studied. I find it reasonable that there’s a “homeostasis mode” ;) where 100 or so calories either way will not trigger weight loss or gain but would instead lead to minor metabolic adaptations. This, as you pointed out, wouldn’t challenge the general truth that is CICO. It would add some slight complexity to it though and could perhaps help people choose a more effective caloric deficit and activity level.



  • MegaMooseEsq
    MegaMooseEsq Posts: 3,118 Member
    After reading everyone's input I feel a lot more confident moving forward. I am going to follow the advice given and tighten up on my logging and give myself some more time to adjust to my new routine. I guess it just gets scary when I am not seeing the results I expected, but it seems to be what this is. It's a waiting game, but now I can make some small adjustments to hopefully help myself reach my goal!

    If you haven't already, you might also benefit from making a list of non-scale victories - there's a massive thread over in the success forum that can be a big help with ideas. It's definitely frustrating not to see results right away, but the only way to fail is to give up.

    @janejellyroll @AnvilHead *clears throat, throws meaningful glances at debate forum*
  • kimny72
    kimny72 Posts: 16,011 Member
    After reading everyone's input I feel a lot more confident moving forward. I am going to follow the advice given and tighten up on my logging and give myself some more time to adjust to my new routine. I guess it just gets scary when I am not seeing the results I expected, but it seems to be what this is. It's a waiting game, but now I can make some small adjustments to hopefully help myself reach my goal!

    Sounds like a plan :smiley: