What are you insecure about?

shi7934
shi7934 Posts: 16 Member
edited November 27 in Chit-Chat
Me - my body structure and weight
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  • bhadbahabi
    bhadbahabi Posts: 575 Member
    I’m insecure about my sense of humor. I think this is funny. https://youtu.be/CJe0rWOP4fE
  • MichelleWithMoxie
    MichelleWithMoxie Posts: 1,817 Member
    My legs, my hair, social situations, public speaking, intelligence, financials..
  • WorkerDrone83
    WorkerDrone83 Posts: 3,195 Member
    I just realized that I wore my underwear inside out today, so that has me a little on edge.
  • ilfaith
    ilfaith Posts: 16,769 Member
    Clever_User_Name wrote: »
    1. My physical appearance
    2. What people say when I'm not around
    3. Getting older
    4. That I don't fit in
    5. Sharing some feelings with others because of how I think they would react
    6. That people can relate to what I'm going through
    7. Fully opening myself emotionally to my wife
    8. How I look when I'm bowling
    9. What other parents at my kid's activities think about me
    10. Knowing when to end a list

    This is 100% me.

    Well, 95%, as I have a husband, not a wife.
  • Beautiful_Warrior03
    Beautiful_Warrior03 Posts: 13 Member
    Mainly just my stomach.
  • Versicolour
    Versicolour Posts: 7,164 Member
    I just don't get why people would want to be my friend. Especially when they get to know me. I am really not that special or a particularly good friend. That's an insecurity right?
  • Versicolour
    Versicolour Posts: 7,164 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    Body/looks.
    Mental illness.
    I have way too many feelings.
    Dysfunctional family.
    'Crazy cat lady'.
    Being forgotten.

    There are people with functional families? Don't trust them, it's all lies
  • sardelsa
    sardelsa Posts: 9,812 Member
    My eyes
  • Iscah13
    Iscah13 Posts: 1,954 Member
    Everything but my shoulders. This old gal has good shoulders.
  • RockinBaker5210
    RockinBaker5210 Posts: 27 Member
    1. Stomach
    2. Back fat... it's not horrible, but when my bra is on and in certain dresses/shirts, I feel it is soooo noticeable.
    3. Being emotional, especially over losing friends and not knowing why
    4. Not reaching my goals in life.
  • 2VORNT2V
    2VORNT2V Posts: 596 Member
    sardelsa wrote: »
    My eyes

    The shape? The colour? The depth? The icy and devoid of warmth vibe?

    What is it?
  • poedunk65
    poedunk65 Posts: 1,336 Member
    edited June 2018
    Do I wank too much?
  • alyshawns
    alyshawns Posts: 10 Member
    My arms. I live in Florida now so there's no hiding them under long sleeves. So, the weight loss begins...HOPEFULLY for the LAST time. I'm going to be 56 in August and I'm just sick to death of yo-yo dieting. 2019 will be my year. I'm also insecure my family talks behind my back, being the only one overweight out of 6 kids. Always giving me advice..no thank you!
  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    edited June 2018
    My belly fat, my thighs, my weight even though I lost a LOT. I'm still dealing with "fat girl" thoughts even though I'm not fat anymore.
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,590 MFP Moderator
    some days, nothing

    other days, everything

  • Wheelhouse15
    Wheelhouse15 Posts: 5,575 Member
    Loose skin from the weight loss, it sucks.
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  • Keto_N_Iron
    Keto_N_Iron Posts: 5,385 Member
    my legs.. and my upper arms... seems to be the last place I lose fat... I start to see ab definition before anything moves on my extremities :/
  • saymyname2
    saymyname2 Posts: 842 Member
    TBH i really love my body theres nothing about it that makes me insecure. I think thats because i have an amazing hubby who always makes me feel special


    But I hate and i mean HATE my lips!
  • skctilidie
    skctilidie Posts: 1,404 Member
    Pretty much everything, tbh. I’m good at my job and confident in what I do there, but it’s the thing I consistently feel that way about and even there I feel like most of coworkers probably dislike me.
    So many insecurities about how I look, my relationships with other people, the things I say and the things I want to say, my parenting (there’s a constant feeling of “what if I’m failing them?” even though I often get compliments on my boys’ behavior, etc.), and on and on and on.
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  • MrSith
    MrSith Posts: 1,636 Member
    4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »
    some days, nothing

    other days, everything
    good answer
  • ChaelAZ
    ChaelAZ Posts: 2,240 Member
    Meh, sex and relationships. For a lot of different reasons.



  • MrSith
    MrSith Posts: 1,636 Member
    Wheelhouse15 wrote: »
    Loose skin from the weight loss, it sucks.
    that's a thing for me too.....I think we judge ourselves way harder than anyone else does. We need to relearn to love ourselves.

  • hud54014
    hud54014 Posts: 3,777 Member
    Getting older

    My body... pretty much all of it

    Potlucks - I always keep an eye what I brought to see if people are eating it. If there are leftovers, I take it as a personal failure. Irrational but true

    Feeling like I'm not doing enough for my kids

    Social events and parties
  • hud54014
    hud54014 Posts: 3,777 Member
    Clever_User_Name wrote: »
    hud54014 wrote: »
    Getting older

    My body... pretty much all of it

    Potlucks - I always keep an eye what I brought to see if people are eating it. If there are leftovers, I take it as a personal failure. Irrational but true

    Feeling like I'm not doing enough for my kids

    Social events and parties

    Potlucks is a good one. That's why I'm always the roll or paper plate guy.

    I always wait till the last minute to sign up, so drinks, plates, desserts and soda are usually spoken for ...ugh
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