One massive hit in several weeks now and little to show for it..
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kommodevaran wrote: »johncharles1962 wrote: »nutmegoreo wrote: »johncharles1962 wrote: »L1zardQueen wrote: »Good job giving up alcohol! Are you trying to maintain your weight?
Trying to lose around 12lb and then maintain, and hopefully will have more muscle by then as well
How long ago did you start the exercise and weight training? When I started lifting, my scale weight stalled out for many weeks, just due to the water retention. It was frustrating to not see movement on the scale because I was used to losses being pretty regular. That was when I started losing in stalls and whooshes.
I would recommend logging a day or two, just to be certain that you are at a reasonable calorie intake. You want to be sure you are getting enough nutrition to fuel your body and your workouts, plus to make sure you aren't eating more than you think (it happens so easily). Some people can lose without logging, others have to log, particularly if they only have a little to lose.
Give it some more time and have a little more patience with it. Your body has gone through some really big changes. Good on you for not drinking anymore. Take some pictures, and use a measuring tape in a few places, to get an idea if things are changing. The scale doesn't tell the whole picture, and your eyes may not see changes in the mirror that you will notice when you hold two pictures up beside each other.
Very interesting again, now that has hit a nerve with me. I cannot help but feel I have been retaining water, don't ask me how , But I do hear that swooshing in my stomach after not really over drinking,plus if anything there has been that slight concern from me that I could have been under eating, seriously!.I get the point about the logging of food etc, but if anyone had any idea what it has been giving up the alcohol alone will understand my patience and concentration have not been good, but I am just taking the postive from this and telling myself I have done 5 good things in one hit. I also wanted to try meditation or yoga as well, but too p***ed off at the moment to try it which is perverse because it is probably the best time to start, but bit by bit, taken a lot on as it is.
So so true about water retention. I am the *queen* of water retention, and I've never ever been able to hear it. It's a tightness feeling, not a swooshing sound. It doesn't make a sound.
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OP - I’ve been in your shoes. It may sound woo, but it certainly can’t hurt — hypnosis. Just listen via headphones at night as you’re falling asleep. What’s the worst that could happen. Here’s a sample: https://youtu.be/wjLM5edKpog. There are a gaziion options on YouTube.1
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Isn't that incredible, I now listen to that most nights I thought I was the only one, and it works quite well most of the time. I am deep down one of these people who would love to be living in rural Northumberland with nice cold weather outside and me all bolted up in front of a roaring fire, give me cold bleak Northern England any day2
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Alcohol kind of acts like an instant hit.
Body reform doesn’t work like that. It’s hourly and daily decisions towards health that you may not notice for months or never.
Vitality is hard to measure.
A lot of your reform goals are like “all or nothing”. Be assured that small slip ups won’t keep you from your goal of a healthier you.
Wise words and ones I use myself most of the time, one step or even 3 back is just fine if you have taken 4 forward.. bit by bit. I learnt that when I gave up smoking 15 years ago, don;t beat yourself if you make one little mistake.0 -
collectingblues wrote: »kommodevaran wrote: »johncharles1962 wrote: »nutmegoreo wrote: »johncharles1962 wrote: »L1zardQueen wrote: »Good job giving up alcohol! Are you trying to maintain your weight?
Trying to lose around 12lb and then maintain, and hopefully will have more muscle by then as well
How long ago did you start the exercise and weight training? When I started lifting, my scale weight stalled out for many weeks, just due to the water retention. It was frustrating to not see movement on the scale because I was used to losses being pretty regular. That was when I started losing in stalls and whooshes.
I would recommend logging a day or two, just to be certain that you are at a reasonable calorie intake. You want to be sure you are getting enough nutrition to fuel your body and your workouts, plus to make sure you aren't eating more than you think (it happens so easily). Some people can lose without logging, others have to log, particularly if they only have a little to lose.
Give it some more time and have a little more patience with it. Your body has gone through some really big changes. Good on you for not drinking anymore. Take some pictures, and use a measuring tape in a few places, to get an idea if things are changing. The scale doesn't tell the whole picture, and your eyes may not see changes in the mirror that you will notice when you hold two pictures up beside each other.
Very interesting again, now that has hit a nerve with me. I cannot help but feel I have been retaining water, don't ask me how , But I do hear that swooshing in my stomach after not really over drinking,plus if anything there has been that slight concern from me that I could have been under eating, seriously!.I get the point about the logging of food etc, but if anyone had any idea what it has been giving up the alcohol alone will understand my patience and concentration have not been good, but I am just taking the postive from this and telling myself I have done 5 good things in one hit. I also wanted to try meditation or yoga as well, but too p***ed off at the moment to try it which is perverse because it is probably the best time to start, but bit by bit, taken a lot on as it is.
So so true about water retention. I am the *queen* of water retention, and I've never ever been able to hear it. It's a tightness feeling, not a swooshing sound. It doesn't make a sound.
I just came back to mention this again, was reading about it last night because it hit a nerve.. Also never mentioned my stomach feels bloated and I am not very productive in the Loo department if you get my meaning. I just have this big feeling that suddenly stopping heavy drinking has it's effects, maybe bad effects to start with?0 -
johncharles1962 wrote: »collectingblues wrote: »kommodevaran wrote: »johncharles1962 wrote: »nutmegoreo wrote: »johncharles1962 wrote: »L1zardQueen wrote: »Good job giving up alcohol! Are you trying to maintain your weight?
Trying to lose around 12lb and then maintain, and hopefully will have more muscle by then as well
How long ago did you start the exercise and weight training? When I started lifting, my scale weight stalled out for many weeks, just due to the water retention. It was frustrating to not see movement on the scale because I was used to losses being pretty regular. That was when I started losing in stalls and whooshes.
I would recommend logging a day or two, just to be certain that you are at a reasonable calorie intake. You want to be sure you are getting enough nutrition to fuel your body and your workouts, plus to make sure you aren't eating more than you think (it happens so easily). Some people can lose without logging, others have to log, particularly if they only have a little to lose.
Give it some more time and have a little more patience with it. Your body has gone through some really big changes. Good on you for not drinking anymore. Take some pictures, and use a measuring tape in a few places, to get an idea if things are changing. The scale doesn't tell the whole picture, and your eyes may not see changes in the mirror that you will notice when you hold two pictures up beside each other.
Very interesting again, now that has hit a nerve with me. I cannot help but feel I have been retaining water, don't ask me how , But I do hear that swooshing in my stomach after not really over drinking,plus if anything there has been that slight concern from me that I could have been under eating, seriously!.I get the point about the logging of food etc, but if anyone had any idea what it has been giving up the alcohol alone will understand my patience and concentration have not been good, but I am just taking the postive from this and telling myself I have done 5 good things in one hit. I also wanted to try meditation or yoga as well, but too p***ed off at the moment to try it which is perverse because it is probably the best time to start, but bit by bit, taken a lot on as it is.
So so true about water retention. I am the *queen* of water retention, and I've never ever been able to hear it. It's a tightness feeling, not a swooshing sound. It doesn't make a sound.
I just came back to mention this again, was reading about it last night because it hit a nerve.. Also never mentioned my stomach feels bloated and I am not very productive in the Loo department if you get my meaning. I just have this big feeling that suddenly stopping heavy drinking has it's effects, maybe bad effects to start with?
It does have some effects, but you said you have several weeks sober? Have you seen a doctor since you quit drinking? It might ease your mind.1 -
johncharles1962 wrote: »collectingblues wrote: »kommodevaran wrote: »johncharles1962 wrote: »nutmegoreo wrote: »johncharles1962 wrote: »L1zardQueen wrote: »Good job giving up alcohol! Are you trying to maintain your weight?
Trying to lose around 12lb and then maintain, and hopefully will have more muscle by then as well
How long ago did you start the exercise and weight training? When I started lifting, my scale weight stalled out for many weeks, just due to the water retention. It was frustrating to not see movement on the scale because I was used to losses being pretty regular. That was when I started losing in stalls and whooshes.
I would recommend logging a day or two, just to be certain that you are at a reasonable calorie intake. You want to be sure you are getting enough nutrition to fuel your body and your workouts, plus to make sure you aren't eating more than you think (it happens so easily). Some people can lose without logging, others have to log, particularly if they only have a little to lose.
Give it some more time and have a little more patience with it. Your body has gone through some really big changes. Good on you for not drinking anymore. Take some pictures, and use a measuring tape in a few places, to get an idea if things are changing. The scale doesn't tell the whole picture, and your eyes may not see changes in the mirror that you will notice when you hold two pictures up beside each other.
Very interesting again, now that has hit a nerve with me. I cannot help but feel I have been retaining water, don't ask me how , But I do hear that swooshing in my stomach after not really over drinking,plus if anything there has been that slight concern from me that I could have been under eating, seriously!.I get the point about the logging of food etc, but if anyone had any idea what it has been giving up the alcohol alone will understand my patience and concentration have not been good, but I am just taking the postive from this and telling myself I have done 5 good things in one hit. I also wanted to try meditation or yoga as well, but too p***ed off at the moment to try it which is perverse because it is probably the best time to start, but bit by bit, taken a lot on as it is.
So so true about water retention. I am the *queen* of water retention, and I've never ever been able to hear it. It's a tightness feeling, not a swooshing sound. It doesn't make a sound.
I just came back to mention this again, was reading about it last night because it hit a nerve.. Also never mentioned my stomach feels bloated and I am not very productive in the Loo department if you get my meaning. I just have this big feeling that suddenly stopping heavy drinking has it's effects, maybe bad effects to start with?
Thoughts aren't facts. You're looking for a way to justify a continued behavior, it seems, and to stop focusing on the idea that you need to stop drinking... Which I know is hard. But that doesn't mean that you should grasp at straws as to why stopping drinking messed everything up.
Water retention is different from constipation. (Which, thanks to celiac, I'm also all too familiar with.) Still never heard a swooshing sound with constipation. So sure, you might have some bowel/digestive issues at play. But those are separate from water retention.2 -
Drastically changing your eating habits, particularly if you're eating a lot more fiber than in the past will definitely take a toll on your digestive system. THAT is probably the problem, not the sudden removal of alcohol in your diet.
I also understand not wanting to log, but watch the video posted showing the difference between using a scale and estimating. It's a great teaching tool.
Also, if you aren't losing weight then you aren't eating too little. It doesn't work that way.7 -
cmriverside wrote: »johncharles1962 wrote: »collectingblues wrote: »kommodevaran wrote: »johncharles1962 wrote: »nutmegoreo wrote: »johncharles1962 wrote: »L1zardQueen wrote: »Good job giving up alcohol! Are you trying to maintain your weight?
Trying to lose around 12lb and then maintain, and hopefully will have more muscle by then as well
How long ago did you start the exercise and weight training? When I started lifting, my scale weight stalled out for many weeks, just due to the water retention. It was frustrating to not see movement on the scale because I was used to losses being pretty regular. That was when I started losing in stalls and whooshes.
I would recommend logging a day or two, just to be certain that you are at a reasonable calorie intake. You want to be sure you are getting enough nutrition to fuel your body and your workouts, plus to make sure you aren't eating more than you think (it happens so easily). Some people can lose without logging, others have to log, particularly if they only have a little to lose.
Give it some more time and have a little more patience with it. Your body has gone through some really big changes. Good on you for not drinking anymore. Take some pictures, and use a measuring tape in a few places, to get an idea if things are changing. The scale doesn't tell the whole picture, and your eyes may not see changes in the mirror that you will notice when you hold two pictures up beside each other.
Very interesting again, now that has hit a nerve with me. I cannot help but feel I have been retaining water, don't ask me how , But I do hear that swooshing in my stomach after not really over drinking,plus if anything there has been that slight concern from me that I could have been under eating, seriously!.I get the point about the logging of food etc, but if anyone had any idea what it has been giving up the alcohol alone will understand my patience and concentration have not been good, but I am just taking the postive from this and telling myself I have done 5 good things in one hit. I also wanted to try meditation or yoga as well, but too p***ed off at the moment to try it which is perverse because it is probably the best time to start, but bit by bit, taken a lot on as it is.
So so true about water retention. I am the *queen* of water retention, and I've never ever been able to hear it. It's a tightness feeling, not a swooshing sound. It doesn't make a sound.
I just came back to mention this again, was reading about it last night because it hit a nerve.. Also never mentioned my stomach feels bloated and I am not very productive in the Loo department if you get my meaning. I just have this big feeling that suddenly stopping heavy drinking has it's effects, maybe bad effects to start with?
It does have some effects, but you said you have several weeks sober? Have you seen a doctor since you quit drinking? It might ease your mind.
It was an open surgery this morning and I did consider it just to play it on the safe side, but work got in the way.0 -
Drastically changing your eating habits, particularly if you're eating a lot more fiber than in the past will definitely take a toll on your digestive system. THAT is probably the problem, not the sudden removal of alcohol in your diet.
I also understand not wanting to log, but watch the video posted showing the difference between using a scale and estimating. It's a great teaching tool.
Also, if you aren't losing weight then you aren't eating too little. It doesn't work that way.
Thought I would mention the "eating too little bit", I have seen a bloke on here take a lot of stick because he was "eating too little" and would not have it, so he was told
I am just a little cautious on here because some people do like to get a little over emotive for such silly things0 -
johncharles1962 wrote: »collectingblues wrote: »kommodevaran wrote: »johncharles1962 wrote: »nutmegoreo wrote: »johncharles1962 wrote: »L1zardQueen wrote: »Good job giving up alcohol! Are you trying to maintain your weight?
Trying to lose around 12lb and then maintain, and hopefully will have more muscle by then as well
How long ago did you start the exercise and weight training? When I started lifting, my scale weight stalled out for many weeks, just due to the water retention. It was frustrating to not see movement on the scale because I was used to losses being pretty regular. That was when I started losing in stalls and whooshes.
I would recommend logging a day or two, just to be certain that you are at a reasonable calorie intake. You want to be sure you are getting enough nutrition to fuel your body and your workouts, plus to make sure you aren't eating more than you think (it happens so easily). Some people can lose without logging, others have to log, particularly if they only have a little to lose.
Give it some more time and have a little more patience with it. Your body has gone through some really big changes. Good on you for not drinking anymore. Take some pictures, and use a measuring tape in a few places, to get an idea if things are changing. The scale doesn't tell the whole picture, and your eyes may not see changes in the mirror that you will notice when you hold two pictures up beside each other.
Very interesting again, now that has hit a nerve with me. I cannot help but feel I have been retaining water, don't ask me how , But I do hear that swooshing in my stomach after not really over drinking,plus if anything there has been that slight concern from me that I could have been under eating, seriously!.I get the point about the logging of food etc, but if anyone had any idea what it has been giving up the alcohol alone will understand my patience and concentration have not been good, but I am just taking the postive from this and telling myself I have done 5 good things in one hit. I also wanted to try meditation or yoga as well, but too p***ed off at the moment to try it which is perverse because it is probably the best time to start, but bit by bit, taken a lot on as it is.
So so true about water retention. I am the *queen* of water retention, and I've never ever been able to hear it. It's a tightness feeling, not a swooshing sound. It doesn't make a sound.
I just came back to mention this again, was reading about it last night because it hit a nerve.. Also never mentioned my stomach feels bloated and I am not very productive in the Loo department if you get my meaning. I just have this big feeling that suddenly stopping heavy drinking has it's effects, maybe bad effects to start with?
Are you getting enough fats in your diet? I skimmed back through the thread to see what you'd mentioned eating, and I wasn't seeing a lot of fat in there, though you didn't pretend to list your intake exhaustively.
A very common thing to see here is someone deciding to "eat healthy", significantly increasing fiber, and reducing fats to a minimum because fats are relatively high in calories. That's almost a recipe for constipation, and I have to say, constipation can contribute to several things you've mentioned - lower than expected weight loss, bloated feeling, belly sticking out a bit, etc.
If you've gone pretty low on fat, consider adding some. It can be healthy things like nuts, avocados, a bit of olive oil on your salad or on veggies, etc.
The other thing that can contribute to constipation is too little water. Most people "dieting" do increase water, so that's less common as a cause around here, IME. I'm not talking crazy amounts of water (or equivalent fluids), rather just enough to keep urine pale straw-colored or lighter.
Beyond that, it may help to eat some probiotic foods, like live-culture yogurt; raw, unpasteurized sauerkraut or kim chi; miso; kefir; kombucha; etc. That's a bit more speculative, but it seems to help some people. Getting more magnesium (food or supplement) could also help, if you're deficient.
One of the problems with not logging food is that it's a little harder to figure out how much fiber you're getting, whether you're eating enough fat, whether micronutrients are where they should be, etc., so that leaves experimentation (or medical tests for some micronutrient levels).
The other thing I usually mention for constipation is getting exercise, but you've made clear you're going hard on that front.
Above are most of the "medically normal" factors I can think of, with respect to constipation. You could have something not medically normal (like a food sensitivity, say), but the common things tend to be common.
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johncharles1962 wrote: »cmriverside wrote: »johncharles1962 wrote: »cmriverside wrote: »johncharles1962 wrote: »Congrats!
How accurate and consistent is your food logging?
I am not logging my meals, but trust me they are 3 small meals at most with plenty of mixed greens and veg and good quality lean meat with zero snacking, honestly I am strict with it apart from the small bit of 75% chocolate I have in the evening to help with the drinking cravings
I quit drinking years ago. I was already logging food at the time. I had been losing at the recommended rate and after I quit drinking I still lost at the recommended rate.
I would suggest that if you aren't losing and if you feel you have your profile set up accurately - then you need to log your food.
It's really easy to eat too much. Meat is really easy to have too much. I did not like how small my meat portions needed to be to stay within calories. Do you know how much (in ounces) your meat choices are? A tiny chicken tenderloin is about 100 calories, for instance. If you're having three of them and counting them as one serving, you're already over by a minimum of 200 calories. Beef and pork? The serving sizes are t.i.n.y.
I am keeping a close eye on my calorie intake and would say it is roughly 1600-1800, some days it has been less, have cut out meat apart from a little chicken and am mainly using fish and eggs.
Well, keep believing you're different if you like ::shrug::
I'm telling you that I lost weight while drinking (way too much alcohol) and I lost weight when I quit drinking. The difference is I was logging my food. With a food scale.
I did eat quite a bit more sugar when I quit drinking AND I ate at maintenance calories for almost a full year before I tried to lose again. The too-much-sugar tapered off after a couple months, so that was definitely a problem for me at first. I was just eating too much - but I knew it. I gave myself a few months to get healthy again.
You say, "roughly 1600-1800." Are you willing to log food accurately? Because your guess of 1800 could oh-so-easily actually be 2500. Here's a great thread for you: https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10634517/you-dont-use-a-food-scale/p1
Wow!
Did I offend you for some reason?
We get about a zillion of the "I'm eating so healthy now - why I am I not be losing weight...I must have hormonal issues/etc.." posts on here every week... the reality is that most people just royally suck at estimating food portions by eye. Take a random person-pretty much any random person, and the odds are that they will greatly underestimate the calories in a pile of food if they are not weighing it.-- which is why the overwhelmingly common advice on these posts (always) is to weigh and accurately log your food.7 -
The stomach issues might be from the change in diet -- a sudden increase in fiber (likely if you went from the typical 'American diet' to eating more vegetables, beans, etc) will cause what you described.0
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ditto the above.... people who completely overhaul their diet to a diet-y diet can often regularly come in below the recommended minimum amount of fat..which will cause health issues.0
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