Do you get hit on?

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  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    parkjudson wrote: »
    admaarie wrote: »
    Lol I always find it weird when people approach me the odd time or two bc I genuinely don’t get hit on and it seems most people don’t. I find because of social media people don’t approach others as often as before.

    Social media is definitely a game-changer. But, then most people are less inhibited on social media :)

    This is true. Maybe it's just easier then, on social media, than in person for a lot of people.
  • cqbkaju
    cqbkaju Posts: 1,011 Member
    edited November 2018
    parkjudson wrote: »
    Social media is definitely a game-changer. But, then most people are less inhibited on social media :)

    I think you mean "People are free to act a lot more brave and bold* than they really are when there are little-to-no consequences for their behavior."

    * Not my first choice of words...
  • parkjudson
    parkjudson Posts: 10 Member
    alywei3773 wrote: »
    Oh god, no.

    Is that because you don't want it? :wink:
  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    In real life, only by guys that are either too old or too young.
  • The_Aly_Wei
    The_Aly_Wei Posts: 844 Member
    parkjudson wrote: »
    alywei3773 wrote: »
    Oh god, no.

    Is that because you don't want it? :wink:

    It is likely because i avoid going into public at all costs.
  • megbeveridge93
    megbeveridge93 Posts: 238 Member
    SO. I am pretty gay. And when I say pretty gay, I mean I generally like everyone but cis straight men. HOWEVER, I only ever get hit on by cis straight men. I cannot for the life of me attract any queers outside of online dating. Idk what it is, but some of us just don't appeal to who we want to appeal to...
  • Jay_d2020
    Jay_d2020 Posts: 2,924 Member
    No I normally don’t get hit on
  • Egger29
    Egger29 Posts: 14,741 Member
    alywei3773 wrote: »
    parkjudson wrote: »
    alywei3773 wrote: »
    Oh god, no.

    Is that because you don't want it? :wink:

    It is likely because i avoid going into public at all costs.

    You can DO that?!?! That's GENIUS!! 😁💖
  • _BlahBlah_BlackSheep_
    _BlahBlah_BlackSheep_ Posts: 2,148 Member
    DWBalboa wrote: »
    _BlahBlah_BlackSheep_ wrote: »
    No. It's very rare.

    I do find this very hard to believe.

    Me? Only in my mind and even then very seldom!

    Maybe because I'm tall. I've been told more than once that I'm intimidating. *shrugs*
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    jdoherty2320 wrote: »
    No I normally don’t get hit on

    C'mere. ;)
  • AliNouveau
    AliNouveau Posts: 36,287 Member
    Men 60 and older love me and do. I think it's adorable so I play along with it.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    bojack5 wrote: »
    On here, no, i get way more people disliking me.....im opposite rhan most, i do better in person.

    I think more people crush on you here, than you think. haha
  • bojack5
    bojack5 Posts: 2,859 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    On here, no, i get way more people disliking me.....im opposite rhan most, i do better in person.

    I think more people crush on you here, than you think. haha

    Haha.....even my selfies get woos.....and they arent good ones!
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    bojack5 wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    On here, no, i get way more people disliking me.....im opposite rhan most, i do better in person.

    I think more people crush on you here, than you think. haha

    Haha.....even my selfies get woos.....and they arent good ones!

    Psh...
    If someone takes the time to woo everything you post (and I'm pretty sure there are some that do!) I think they like you. And they hate that they like you. :D:D So you get woos.....

    OMG they followed you here and woo'd me!!! :D:D
  • Egger29
    Egger29 Posts: 14,741 Member
    Nope. Doesnt happen in my world....at least not from members of the opposite sex.
  • MzIrish
    MzIrish Posts: 11,917 Member
    Only when someone is being combative
  • Egger29
    Egger29 Posts: 14,741 Member
    Nope. Not even eye contact.
  • ailsalw
    ailsalw Posts: 1,265 Member
    Does getting a message asking if they can grab my boobs count? 🤔
  • rayraymarq8
    rayraymarq8 Posts: 246 Member
    um..that might be harassment?
  • jase0495
    jase0495 Posts: 274 Member
    edited November 2018
    rayraymarq8 wrote: »
    um..that might be harassment?

    Agreed!!

    But to original question. No I don't.
  • DWBalboa
    DWBalboa Posts: 37,259 Member
    _BlahBlah_BlackSheep_ wrote: »
    DWBalboa wrote: »
    _BlahBlah_BlackSheep_ wrote: »
    No. It's very rare.

    I do find this very hard to believe.

    Me? Only in my mind and even then very seldom!

    Maybe because I'm tall. I've been told more than once that I'm intimidating. *shrugs*

    If I may ask, just how tall? No matter, intimidation can be a factor for attractive woman many guys fear rejection. I've been rejected so much I'm immune to it.
  • DWBalboa
    DWBalboa Posts: 37,259 Member
    ailsalw wrote: »
    Does getting a message asking if they can grab my boobs count? 🤔

    Yep it does. BTW, you still haven't replied. :smiley:

    How would that work over the internets anyway???
  • Egger29
    Egger29 Posts: 14,741 Member
    ailsalw wrote: »
    Does getting a message asking if they can grab my boobs count? 🤔

    Likely counts in their mind. Hope that's not a regular thing for you though. :/
  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
    A guy in a truck this morning rolled down his window while I sat at a red light next to him. I could see that he was trying to get my attention but I kept looking ahead.
    He was either hitting on me or trying to warn me of danger. I guess we'll never know.
  • ailsalw
    ailsalw Posts: 1,265 Member
    jdoherty2320 wrote: »
    No I normally don’t get hit on
    @jdoherty2320
    Really? I beg to differ 😆
  • ailsalw
    ailsalw Posts: 1,265 Member
    DWBalboa wrote: »
    ailsalw wrote: »
    Does getting a message asking if they can grab my boobs count? 🤔

    Yep it does. BTW, you still haven't replied. :smiley:

    How would that work over the internets anyway???
    Egger29 wrote: »
    ailsalw wrote: »
    Does getting a message asking if they can grab my boobs count? 🤔

    Likely counts in their mind. Hope that's not a regular thing for you though. :/

    I was an engineer in an all male company so used to it lol

    I replied to the add on my wall to shame him lol
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    ailsalw wrote: »
    Does getting a message asking if they can grab my boobs count? 🤔

    Amateur, Pppfff...

    Usually you should wait until she's replied at least twice before asking some thing like that...

    I mean, what ever happened to chivalry 🤷🏽‍♂️🙄
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    ailsalw wrote: »
    Does getting a message asking if they can grab my boobs count? 🤔

    Amateur, Pppfff...

    Usually you should wait until she's replied at least twice before asking some thing like that...

    I mean, what ever happened to chivalry 🤷🏽‍♂️🙄

    can i grab ur moobs?

    Don't mind me, guys.... carry on with the moob grabbing... I will be in the bushes with a camera and binoculars... bird watching. Yeah.... just bird watching.
  • DWBalboa
    DWBalboa Posts: 37,259 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    ailsalw wrote: »
    Does getting a message asking if they can grab my boobs count? 🤔

    Amateur, Pppfff...

    Usually you should wait until she's replied at least twice before asking some thing like that...

    I mean, what ever happened to chivalry 🤷🏽‍♂️🙄

    can i grab ur moobs?

    Don't mind me, guys.... carry on with the moob grabbing... I will be in the bushes with a camera and binoculars... bird watching. Yeah.... just bird watching.

    Hey that's my excuse!

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