What’s your drama?

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  • LiftingSpirits
    LiftingSpirits Posts: 2,207 Member
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    My drama is I'm socially awkward, seriously shy, and bad with the communicating with people in the outside world in general. Usually people mistake my shyness for me being snobby or stuck up. Which makes me feel even more nervous about talking to others. If anyone responds to this, I'll most likely start freaking out internally and wonder what to do, how not to offend anyone, come up with several responses, and then choose not to respond at all because I'll be too worried that I'll end up starting some kind of internet fight, saying something dumb, or something I'll regret in the future, and then by choosing to take no action I'll start to wonder if people think I'm being rude and ignoring them. Eventually, in about a week, I might decide to like any and all responses, without saying anything back, because if I did respond, what I said would probably be misinterpreted, and I'd end up feeling awful for upsetting someone, or because my words were misunderstood entirely (S.O.M.L.). I'm probably the most socially awkward person you'll ever meet. Which is a shame because I usually like people once I get to know them, and this has sometimes resulted in me going years without having friends in the immediate outside world. Currently I have two, because I had a weird day where I was feeling super social and confident...which almost never happens. (This is awkwardly long now so I'm going to stop typing...awkwardly.)

    I have basically no friends because I inevitability end up asking questions that are too personal/insensitive or end up saying something annoying.

    I have one IRL friend (god knows why) and I even cancel plans on them most of the time for no reason other than being social is exhausting.

    I'll make it easy though, I expect a response to this, even just a smiley face, or I'm going to regret making a serious post.

    We must meet so that I can be an IRL friend because I just know that I would adore you just as much in person, if not a hundred times more.
  • crampus1
    crampus1 Posts: 519 Member
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    My drama is I'm socially awkward, seriously shy, and bad with the communicating with people in the outside world in general. Usually people mistake my shyness for me being snobby or stuck up. Which makes me feel even more nervous about talking to others. If anyone responds to this, I'll most likely start freaking out internally and wonder what to do, how not to offend anyone, come up with several responses, and then choose not to respond at all because I'll be too worried that I'll end up starting some kind of internet fight, saying something dumb, or something I'll regret in the future, and then by choosing to take no action I'll start to wonder if people think I'm being rude and ignoring them. Eventually, in about a week, I might decide to like any and all responses, without saying anything back, because if I did respond, what I said would probably be misinterpreted, and I'd end up feeling awful for upsetting someone, or because my words were misunderstood entirely (S.O.M.L.). I'm probably the most socially awkward person you'll ever meet. Which is a shame because I usually like people once I get to know them, and this has sometimes resulted in me going years without having friends in the immediate outside world. Currently I have two, because I had a weird day where I was feeling super social and confident...which almost never happens. (This is awkwardly long now so I'm going to stop typing...awkwardly.)

    I have basically no friends because I inevitability end up asking questions that are too personal/insensitive or end up saying something annoying.

    I have one IRL friend (god knows why) and I even cancel plans on them most of the time for no reason other than being social is exhausting.

    I'll make it easy though, I expect a response to this, even just a smiley face, or I'm going to regret making a serious post.

    We must meet so that I can be an IRL friend because I just know that I would adore you just as much in person, if not a hundred times more.

    I’d adore her one hundred and one times more.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    empresssue wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Abusive ex boyfriend is trying to sue me for breaking up with him (he claims it did damages that affected his job, pay, hobbies, and quality of life). I recently had to use the last of my savings to hire a defense lawyer, which is hard enough considering I'm trying to finish college here.

    I'm surprised even he found a lawyer who would take his "case" lol.

    Can't wait to sue all my ex girlfriends for making me into the pile of caca I am today, thx for the heads up this is possible!

    All 1?

    Friendship ended with RhianLewis17

    Look. We weren't friends anyway.

    Friend removal expedited

    Stop pretending you know big words.

    I'm just a big fan of @Motorsheen


    well, that would be.... let's see, add 'em up.... okay, got it!



    One.

    *Puts hand up*.. 2 😉

    Puts hand up..3 :wink:

    4.. Depending on the day, my mood, what you recently said, time of the month, which way the wind is blowing... Actually, maybe you should just stick with 3.

    @HappilyDistracted

    Nah, for a shot at #4.......I'm willing to roll the dice.
  • HappilyDistracted
    HappilyDistracted Posts: 1,700 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    empresssue wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Abusive ex boyfriend is trying to sue me for breaking up with him (he claims it did damages that affected his job, pay, hobbies, and quality of life). I recently had to use the last of my savings to hire a defense lawyer, which is hard enough considering I'm trying to finish college here.

    I'm surprised even he found a lawyer who would take his "case" lol.

    Can't wait to sue all my ex girlfriends for making me into the pile of caca I am today, thx for the heads up this is possible!

    All 1?

    Friendship ended with RhianLewis17

    Look. We weren't friends anyway.

    Friend removal expedited

    Stop pretending you know big words.

    I'm just a big fan of @Motorsheen


    well, that would be.... let's see, add 'em up.... okay, got it!



    One.

    *Puts hand up*.. 2 😉

    Puts hand up..3 :wink:

    4.. Depending on the day, my mood, what you recently said, time of the month, which way the wind is blowing... Actually, maybe you should just stick with 3.

    @HappilyDistracted

    Nah, for a shot at #4.......I'm willing to roll the dice.

    Only if you promise to be my mfp husband whilst having multiple other mfp affairs and creating an extensive amount of unnecessary drama.
  • RhiAnLewis17
    RhiAnLewis17 Posts: 2,299 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    empresssue wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Abusive ex boyfriend is trying to sue me for breaking up with him (he claims it did damages that affected his job, pay, hobbies, and quality of life). I recently had to use the last of my savings to hire a defense lawyer, which is hard enough considering I'm trying to finish college here.

    I'm surprised even he found a lawyer who would take his "case" lol.

    Can't wait to sue all my ex girlfriends for making me into the pile of caca I am today, thx for the heads up this is possible!

    All 1?

    Friendship ended with RhianLewis17

    Look. We weren't friends anyway.

    Friend removal expedited

    Stop pretending you know big words.

    I'm just a big fan of @Motorsheen


    well, that would be.... let's see, add 'em up.... okay, got it!



    One.

    *Puts hand up*.. 2 😉

    Puts hand up..3 :wink:

    4.. Depending on the day, my mood, what you recently said, time of the month, which way the wind is blowing... Actually, maybe you should just stick with 3.

    @HappilyDistracted

    Nah, for a shot at #4.......I'm willing to roll the dice.

    Only if you promise to be my mfp husband whilst having multiple other mfp affairs and creating an extensive amount of unnecessary drama.

    And tension. Don't forget tension.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    Getting dressed, brushing my hair and deciding if I feel like seeing people today.

    This is why I work nights and have a home gym 😂
  • The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_
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    Getting dressed, brushing my hair and deciding if I feel like seeing people today.

    This is why I work nights and have a home gym 😂

    I sure wish I was home but that's not the case for me.
  • HappilyDistracted
    HappilyDistracted Posts: 1,700 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    empresssue wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Abusive ex boyfriend is trying to sue me for breaking up with him (he claims it did damages that affected his job, pay, hobbies, and quality of life). I recently had to use the last of my savings to hire a defense lawyer, which is hard enough considering I'm trying to finish college here.

    I'm surprised even he found a lawyer who would take his "case" lol.

    Can't wait to sue all my ex girlfriends for making me into the pile of caca I am today, thx for the heads up this is possible!

    All 1?

    Friendship ended with RhianLewis17

    Look. We weren't friends anyway.

    Friend removal expedited

    Stop pretending you know big words.

    I'm just a big fan of @Motorsheen


    well, that would be.... let's see, add 'em up.... okay, got it!



    One.

    *Puts hand up*.. 2 😉

    Puts hand up..3 :wink:

    4.. Depending on the day, my mood, what you recently said, time of the month, which way the wind is blowing... Actually, maybe you should just stick with 3.

    @HappilyDistracted

    Nah, for a shot at #4.......I'm willing to roll the dice.

    Only if you promise to be my mfp husband whilst having multiple other mfp affairs and creating an extensive amount of unnecessary drama.

    And tension. Don't forget tension.

    Thank you. You alwayd finish my... @motorsheen this must also include lots of tension.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    Getting dressed, brushing my hair and deciding if I feel like seeing people today.

    This is why I work nights and have a home gym 😂

    I sure wish I was home but that's not the case for me.

    Oh... Well travel safe and remember...
    Nobody else really wants to see people either, accept the annoying ones lol
  • The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_
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    Getting dressed, brushing my hair and deciding if I feel like seeing people today.

    This is why I work nights and have a home gym 😂

    I sure wish I was home but that's not the case for me.

    Oh... Well travel safe and remember...
    Nobody else really wants to see people either, accept the annoying ones lol

    Thanks, I'm not traveling either :D
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    Getting dressed, brushing my hair and deciding if I feel like seeing people today.

    This is why I work nights and have a home gym 😂

    I sure wish I was home but that's not the case for me.

    Oh... Well travel safe and remember...
    Nobody else really wants to see people either, accept the annoying ones lol

    Thanks, I'm not traveling either :D

    Well you're either in a locker room, prison, or this is about to get rather interesting
  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
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    Getting dressed, brushing my hair and deciding if I feel like seeing people today.

    This is why I work nights and have a home gym 😂

    I sure wish I was home but that's not the case for me.

    Oh... Well travel safe and remember...
    Nobody else really wants to see people either, accept the annoying ones lol

    Thanks, I'm not traveling either :D

    Well you're either in a locker room, prison, or this is about to get rather interesting

    Hospital
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    Getting dressed, brushing my hair and deciding if I feel like seeing people today.

    This is why I work nights and have a home gym 😂

    I sure wish I was home but that's not the case for me.

    Oh... Well travel safe and remember...
    Nobody else really wants to see people either, accept the annoying ones lol

    Thanks, I'm not traveling either :D

    Well you're either in a locker room, prison, or this is about to get rather interesting

    Hospital

    That's sorta half my mind when I thought locker room 🤷🏽‍♂️
  • jaycanchu
    jaycanchu Posts: 265 Member
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    I’m finishing up a divorce, but it’s amicable...so far
  • crampus1
    crampus1 Posts: 519 Member
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    Snow
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
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    crampus1 wrote: »
    Snow

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