what turns you on in the opposite gender?

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  • ChantalGG
    ChantalGG Posts: 2,404 Member
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    a good credit score.

    That, right there, would work for me.

    And fidelity.

    If you dont have that and you have a small member then leave me alone. ;)
  • JEK717
    JEK717 Posts: 1,497
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    When they respect you
    Sense of humor
    Their genuineness
    Honesty
    Makes me smile
    Says nice things and actually means it
  • katya73
    katya73 Posts: 464
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    A good sence of humor
    Nice eyes
    Strong arms
    Good intellect
  • MyNewLeaf
    MyNewLeaf Posts: 40
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    The question was not what you're attracted to in others, but what turns you on. Lots of people seem to just say what they like.

    So for me:

    1/ Assertiveness. Someone who pursues what he wants (that being me). Someone who goes for it. When they're a little ballsy (but not disrespectful), that triggers me.

    2/ Hairy chest. This is a purely physical thing. Because rationally, I don't care about it. But if i see a chest with hair on it, sometimes it really does something to me, unexpectedly. Hairy chests represent delicious masculinity to me and make me just want to (!@#$^!$@^ ... this post was edited to keep this board PG-13).

    3/ Intellect and good articulation can be stimulating.

    4/ Sweetness and thoughtfulness. it's a different kind of turn on, the romantic kind, the kind that makes me melt, but it definitely opens the door and gets right to the edge of 'turn on'.

    There are a great many qualities I like in men, but the above are what *do it* for me.
  • MyNewLeaf
    MyNewLeaf Posts: 40
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    a good credit score.

    That, right there, would work for me.

    And fidelity.

    If you dont have that and you have a small member then leave me alone. ;)

    Fidelity and good credit score *turn you on* ? Seriously? I mean, monogamy and responsibility are great, but do they actually get the juices flowing?
  • Rocki_
    Rocki_ Posts: 166 Member
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    She has to be a cowgirl and wear a cowboy hat. ;) Seriously I think there is something gorgeous and sexy about every woman God placed on this earth. It can be the way she laughs, smiles, loves her kids, etc. So it's a case by case thing.

    Uh-huh... and where have YOU been all my life?? Hmmm??? I even used to live in San Antonio, TX!! *sigh!* Oh... and I DO have a cowboy hat and it doen't look half bad... or so my sister tells me! :) Cheers!
  • Rocki_
    Rocki_ Posts: 166 Member
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    A good sence of humor
    Nice eyes
    Strong arms
    Good intellect

    AMEN, Sistah!
  • ziggy67
    ziggy67 Posts: 351
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    Kindness, patience, good manners and a sense of humour. Is that asking too much?!
  • GTOgirl1969
    GTOgirl1969 Posts: 2,527 Member
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    Respect, honesty, and patience.

    Oh...and a 1968 Dodge Charger, deep blue eyes, a killer smile, and a nice @ss would be great, too. :bigsmile:

    And the thing is....I think I've found a guy that has all of these qualities (including the car!)
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,167 Member
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    playing around the neck area...
  • VELVET2688
    VELVET2688 Posts: 40
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    black hair
    hairy chest
    blue eyes
    mustache

    and i married him 23 years ago
  • ggtischer
    ggtischer Posts: 14 Member
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    I'm drawn to computer geek's, and blue eyes... Awwwwww

    Geeks!!!
    I <3 GEEKS!!!
  • indycello
    indycello Posts: 147 Member
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    deep piercing blue eyes
    defined jaw line
    curly hair
    big strong hands
    and a tight firm body

    *swoon* thankfully I got all that and more in my husband :) gosh does he really get me going!!!
  • GouletB
    GouletB Posts: 50 Member
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    Nice wrangler butt!!!
    tall
    Wild!
    Abs (6pack)
    Srong sholders and arms

    That's my hubby, the wild part I had to reign in but I DID IT! :)
  • mandeiko
    mandeiko Posts: 1,657 Member
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    A very big........










    :heart:

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