Ok or not Ok

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  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    That would depend on where you were

    Talking on your phone in a restaurant
  • curvyycaloriess
    curvyycaloriess Posts: 1,260 Member
    if youre quiet, sure. no different than talking to the person across from you

    cyber bullying?
  • orangegato
    orangegato Posts: 6,572 Member
    not ok

    taking a coworkers reserved parking spot when they aren't around?
  • Mm2Hh7
    Mm2Hh7 Posts: 1,673 Member
    If they aren’t coming to work that day OK, if they just aren’t there yet Not OK

    Flirting when you’re married
  • IMNOTHERE2HOOKUP2019
    IMNOTHERE2HOOKUP2019 Posts: 935 Member
    Ok...IF it is innocent & you don't plan on taking it any further..


    Dating your boss/supervisor at work..
  • orangegato
    orangegato Posts: 6,572 Member
    Not ok

    Not inviting the person you’re dating to a wedding that you’re attending?
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    Depends how long you've been dating. It's okay if it's new but not okay if you've been dating awhile.

    Bringing a date to the wedding without being invited to do so?
  • PAPYRUS3
    PAPYRUS3 Posts: 13,259 Member
    not ok

    Calling in 'sick' when you just really need to chill out and spend time doing a hobby?
  • orangegato
    orangegato Posts: 6,572 Member
    PAPYRUS3 wrote: »
    not ok

    Calling in 'sick' when you just really need to chill out and spend time doing a hobby?

    Not OK.

    Not getting your mother a gift on Mother’s Day?
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    Not okay, unless she was a terrible mother. Then it's okay.

    Not wearing a bike helmet while taking a leisurely ride around town?
  • IMNOTHERE2HOOKUP2019
    IMNOTHERE2HOOKUP2019 Posts: 935 Member
    edited May 2019
    SOOO NOT OK! Safety first.

    One night stands??
  • xtinalovexo
    xtinalovexo Posts: 1,376 Member
    I say okay, to each their own and sometimes the mood strikes. :D

    Doing drugs?? Okay or nah?
  • PAPYRUS3
    PAPYRUS3 Posts: 13,259 Member
    As long as you're not harming yourself or others in your life I suppose it's ok

    Open relationships?
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    For me personally, it's not okay.

    Harmless flirting with others when you're in a relationship?
  • lauragreenbaum
    lauragreenbaum Posts: 1,017 Member
    This one comes up a lot, so people must be doing it! I say no flirting is "harmless". Not ok
    Telling very personal things to a stranger
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    Not okay

    Blowing your horn at someone that has their flashers on and clearly cannot go anywhere?
  • IMNOTHERE2HOOKUP2019
    IMNOTHERE2HOOKUP2019 Posts: 935 Member
    NOT ok...& RUDE

    Lying to someone about their appearance to protect their feelings..even though they asked for your HONEST opinion?
  • shaf238
    shaf238 Posts: 4,022 Member
    not ok

    switching team allegiance
  • lauragreenbaum
    lauragreenbaum Posts: 1,017 Member
    OK
    Not bringing your dinner host a gift
  • PAPYRUS3
    PAPYRUS3 Posts: 13,259 Member
    not ok

    Having wine served when one of your guests is an alcoholic and trying to abstain
  • JB1775
    JB1775 Posts: 136 Member
    Not ok.

    Hitting on someone in the middle of their workout.
  • AutumLeaf
    AutumLeaf Posts: 126 Member
    JB1775 wrote: »
    Not ok.

    Hitting on someone in the middle of their workout.

    Not okay

    Running out of room in your rubbish bin & putting your left over rubbish in your neighbour's bin without asking for their permission.
  • IMNOTHERE2HOOKUP2019
    IMNOTHERE2HOOKUP2019 Posts: 935 Member
    Not ok...and tacky...it doesnt have to cost alot...it could inexpensive or homemade!

    Suggesting a gym membership to your out of shape partner?
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    Not okay unless they mention wanting to get in better shape.

    Telling someone you're in a relationship when you aren't instead of being honest and saying you're not interested in them?

  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    I think ok, some situations it might spare hurt feelings

    Asking what’s being served at a dinner party
  • s1im62
    s1im62 Posts: 31,341 Member
    edited May 2019
    Okay - especially if you're watching your weight or have dietary requirements. They should be understanding, and if they are not, you probably are better off not going.

    Not getting your spouse or significant other a gift for an occasion, when they had told you they didn't want a gift.
  • PAPYRUS3
    PAPYRUS3 Posts: 13,259 Member
    ok...but I would still make the day 'special' - making dinner or planning a 'date' night instead

    Cash bar at wedding
  • Mm2Hh7
    Mm2Hh7 Posts: 1,673 Member
    Ok. Not everyone can afford to pay for an open bar
  • Mm2Hh7
    Mm2Hh7 Posts: 1,673 Member
    Leaving a dinner party as soon as the meal is over
  • JustSomeEm
    JustSomeEm Posts: 20,269 MFP Moderator
    edited May 2019
    Sadly not okay. At least stay for a few minutes and chat (even if you're dying to get back to your introvertness).

    When driving - scooting up to the front of the line in order to merge.