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I've been trying to bulk for quite some time now and my eating disorder and unhealthy relationship with the step counter has hindered my progress and I lost more weight. This was because I was really chubby beforehand. Today j saw my kidney doctor and he said that even though it's not his specialty, that the whole hardgainer thing or slow metabolism due to genetics is a myth. I found this completely bogus because just look at society today. You've got computer geeks who eat 3 boxes of pizza yet rain nothing. Anyways he said that even though I was chubby, that I wouldn't pack weight easily because I'm 18 and hormones and all that. He said the same to my 2 brothers who are 16 and 17. Also formerly chubby. Is this guy bogus or is he right about previous endomorphs being able to attain super metabolism?

Question 2: when bulking do the weights that you feel were heavy get lighter when you get heavier? So Benching 135 at a bodyweight of like 150 would be harder than if you became 160? I ask this because my lifts have all gone down and stalled for over a year! So if I eat more and gain weight, will the weight on the bar be easier to lift or is it all mental? I ask this because I see guys who barely push themselves but progress on their lifts and get massive while there's me who tries to push himself and I've stalled and also my lifts eventually went down. Deloads.... well let's just say I did my fair share and the days/weeks following deloads were when my lifts all went down and then stalled again. Oh yea here's a Reddit thing about this

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/5147mn/if_you_work_out_do_heavy_weights_feel_lighter_or/
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  • Cahgetsfit
    Cahgetsfit Posts: 1,912 Member
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    Hm. Don't know.

    Back when I was a teenager I never had a problem with weight and I could eat like a maniac. Today, unfortunately, I no longer can do that.

    As for the weights feeling lighter, personally for some lifts I felt like I had improvements when I was heavier than lighter. Like right now i've started cutting weight and already something simple like dumbbell shoulder press has actually done down from 16kg for 8 reps to today was 15kg for 5 reps and the 5th rep was hard.
  • BarbaraHelen2013
    BarbaraHelen2013 Posts: 1,940 Member
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    Considering that your Renal Specialist has to go through something like 7 years of medical school then many years of internship, residency etc before he opted for his specialty I would be hugely inclined to trust that he knows what’s he’s talking about.

    Certainly I’d trust that before I took the word of accountants, construction workers, child care providers, hospitality workers, bank clerks etc etc on the internet!

    Anecdotally, there are so many people who can eat as if food was going out of fashion in their teens and early twenties but begin to notice that changes as they approach 30. That does give some weight to the idea that hormones play a part in metabolism as you doctor suggests.

    I have no clue re weightlifting but common sense and logic would suggest to me that a weight that is a larger proportion of your body weight will be harder to lift than a weight that is a smaller proportion of your body weight!

    It’s possibly not what you want to hear, but not everyone has an identical capacity to build muscle past a certain point. Genetically some are more inclined to be ‘wiry’ rather than ‘bulked’. Built for speed!
  • Terytha
    Terytha Posts: 2,097 Member
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    Genetics also plays a role in how you store fat, which is why some people are heavier than they look. But yeah, dude who eats 3 pizzas typically eats less the rest of the time and has a higher NEAT.
  • gottswald
    gottswald Posts: 122 Member
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    How often are you lifting? You might not be recovering between.
  • CipherZero
    CipherZero Posts: 1,418 Member
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    While there's some variance in metabolic rate among individuals, there's a reason why some people gain fat and others don't - and it's about the calories.
  • aokoye
    aokoye Posts: 3,495 Member
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    I'm losing faith in small sections of internet based humanity.