Sorry babe. That's a deal-breaker
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mattig89ch wrote: »I play around a lot in here but this is my real list.
Smokers
Addictions of any kind
Narcissists
Emotionally unavailable
Abusive
Cheating
Baby mama drama
Doesn’t want children
Can’t accept my flaws
Overweight
Poor hygiene
Not affectionate
Selfish in the bedroom
Mean to animals
Hearing stuff like that, is actually why I started losing weight in the first place. That is, quite honestly, my only reason for doing so.
Also...what is babby momma drama?
Finally, you aren't the only one who didn't know what they were talking about. I had to look it up on google myself.
If you don't know, don't find out. Ignorance is truly bliss with this one, trust me.4 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »I play around a lot in here but this is my real list.
Smokers
Addictions of any kind
Narcissists
Emotionally unavailable
Abusive
Cheating
Baby mama drama
Doesn’t want children
Can’t accept my flaws
Overweight
Poor hygiene
Not affectionate
Selfish in the bedroom
Mean to animals
Hearing stuff like that, is actually why I started losing weight in the first place. That is, quite honestly, my only reason for doing so.
Also...what is babby momma drama?
Finally, you aren't the only one who didn't know what they were talking about. I had to look it up on google myself.
If you don't know, don't find out. Ignorance is truly bliss with this one, trust me.
I feel like knowing, would help me to Identify and avoid it and/or remove it from my life it it happened to me.0 -
mattig89ch wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »I play around a lot in here but this is my real list.
Smokers
Addictions of any kind
Narcissists
Emotionally unavailable
Abusive
Cheating
Baby mama drama
Doesn’t want children
Can’t accept my flaws
Overweight
Poor hygiene
Not affectionate
Selfish in the bedroom
Mean to animals
Hearing stuff like that, is actually why I started losing weight in the first place. That is, quite honestly, my only reason for doing so.
Also...what is babby momma drama?
Finally, you aren't the only one who didn't know what they were talking about. I had to look it up on google myself.
If you don't know, don't find out. Ignorance is truly bliss with this one, trust me.
I feel like knowing, would help me to Identify and avoid it and/or remove it from my life it it happened to me.
Sadly, if it happens there is no removing. You're stuck, and not just til the child turns 18.3 -
mattig89ch wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »I play around a lot in here but this is my real list.
Smokers
Addictions of any kind
Narcissists
Emotionally unavailable
Abusive
Cheating
Baby mama drama
Doesn’t want children
Can’t accept my flaws
Overweight
Poor hygiene
Not affectionate
Selfish in the bedroom
Mean to animals
Hearing stuff like that, is actually why I started losing weight in the first place. That is, quite honestly, my only reason for doing so.
Also...what is babby momma drama?
Finally, you aren't the only one who didn't know what they were talking about. I had to look it up on google myself.
If you don't know, don't find out. Ignorance is truly bliss with this one, trust me.
I feel like knowing, would help me to Identify and avoid it and/or remove it from my life it it happened to me.
Unless you already have kids, it doesn't affect you.2 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »I play around a lot in here but this is my real list.
Smokers
Addictions of any kind
Narcissists
Emotionally unavailable
Abusive
Cheating
Baby mama drama
Doesn’t want children
Can’t accept my flaws
Overweight
Poor hygiene
Not affectionate
Selfish in the bedroom
Mean to animals
Hearing stuff like that, is actually why I started losing weight in the first place. That is, quite honestly, my only reason for doing so.
Also...what is babby momma drama?
Finally, you aren't the only one who didn't know what they were talking about. I had to look it up on google myself.
If you don't know, don't find out. Ignorance is truly bliss with this one, trust me.
I feel like knowing, would help me to Identify and avoid it and/or remove it from my life it it happened to me.
Sadly, if it happens there is no removing. Your stuck, and not just til the child turns 18.
oooohhhh, so this is a past partner you had a child with? Thats the deal breaker she's talking about?0 -
mattig89ch wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »I play around a lot in here but this is my real list.
Smokers
Addictions of any kind
Narcissists
Emotionally unavailable
Abusive
Cheating
Baby mama drama
Doesn’t want children
Can’t accept my flaws
Overweight
Poor hygiene
Not affectionate
Selfish in the bedroom
Mean to animals
Hearing stuff like that, is actually why I started losing weight in the first place. That is, quite honestly, my only reason for doing so.
Also...what is babby momma drama?
Finally, you aren't the only one who didn't know what they were talking about. I had to look it up on google myself.
If you don't know, don't find out. Ignorance is truly bliss with this one, trust me.
I feel like knowing, would help me to Identify and avoid it and/or remove it from my life it it happened to me.
Sadly, if it happens there is no removing. Your stuck, and not just til the child turns 18.
oooohhhh, so this is a past partner you had a child with? Thats the deal breaker she's talking about?
Yes, but only if the past partner brings drama. There are plenty of great examples of mature adults who have chosen to go separate ways but still put the effort in to co-parenting and not interfering with the others lives.5 -
I'm not sure that means what you think it means...plenty????
Some, is maybe more accurate.
Or possibly my single gal friends/family just pick the worst guys to date since they all seem to come with an abundance of BMD.
I would like to make family drama in general a deal breaker, but that's kind of impossible since it's usually my family trying to bring on the drama.0 -
tcunbeliever wrote: »I'm not sure that means what you think it means...plenty????
Some, is maybe more accurate.
Or possibly my single gal friends/family just pick the worst guys to date since they all seem to come with an abundance of BMD.
I would like to make family drama in general a deal breaker, but that's kind of impossible since it's usually my family trying to bring on the drama.
I'm aware the difference. Maybe I'm just being optimistic, but I'd like to think the majority of folks could handle their business in a grown folk kinda way. Well I know the could, maybe I'd like to think they would. Now you've got me questioning myself on every word. Dammit.2 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »I play around a lot in here but this is my real list.
Smokers
Addictions of any kind
Narcissists
Emotionally unavailable
Abusive
Cheating
Baby mama drama
Doesn’t want children
Can’t accept my flaws
Overweight
Poor hygiene
Not affectionate
Selfish in the bedroom
Mean to animals
Isn't that kind of what this whole thread is? Flaws we can not accept?
Yes it is. If he can’t accept flaws that I have no control over then that is why it is a dealbreaker, because I guess it wouldn’t work out.
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mattig89ch wrote: »I play around a lot in here but this is my real list.
Smokers
Addictions of any kind
Narcissists
Emotionally unavailable
Abusive
Cheating
Baby mama drama
Doesn’t want children
Can’t accept my flaws
Overweight
Poor hygiene
Not affectionate
Selfish in the bedroom
Mean to animals
Hearing stuff like that, is actually why I started losing weight in the first place. That is, quite honestly, my only reason for doing so.
Also...what is babby momma drama?
Finally, you aren't the only one who didn't know what they were talking about. I had to look it up on google myself.
Baby mama drama is horrible. If you don’t know what it is, then that’s good. Somehow I tend to attract men with this problem. Never again.
And regards to the overweight, if I got with someone and they gained a little weight, it is fine. Completely letting oneself go is different that gaining a little weight though. But, most people want to be attracted to their mate and I find it very attractive when a guy takes care of himself and works out. Btw, I have been on both sides of this. My ex completely lost attraction to me over 10 lbs of weight gain.
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Smelly clothes0
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If he doesn’t brush and floss before bed.0
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George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »I play around a lot in here but this is my real list.
Smokers
Addictions of any kind
Narcissists
Emotionally unavailable
Abusive
Cheating
Baby mama drama
Doesn’t want children
Can’t accept my flaws
Overweight
Poor hygiene
Not affectionate
Selfish in the bedroom
Mean to animals
Hearing stuff like that, is actually why I started losing weight in the first place. That is, quite honestly, my only reason for doing so.
Also...what is babby momma drama?
Finally, you aren't the only one who didn't know what they were talking about. I had to look it up on google myself.
If you don't know, don't find out. Ignorance is truly bliss with this one, trust me.
I feel like knowing, would help me to Identify and avoid it and/or remove it from my life it it happened to me.
Sadly, if it happens there is no removing. Your stuck, and not just til the child turns 18.
oooohhhh, so this is a past partner you had a child with? Thats the deal breaker she's talking about?
Yes, but only if the past partner brings drama. There are plenty of great examples of mature adults who have chosen to go separate ways but still put the effort in to co-parenting and not interfering with the others lives.
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If, in the height of passion, he calls out, “mommy”.3
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pizzamyheart wrote: »If, in the height of passion, he calls out, “mommy”.
What about if its "mami"?7 -
pizzamyheart wrote: »If, in the height of passion, he calls out, “mommy”.
I say the same about calling out daddy. I'm likely to stop and go make a pb&j or change the damn dvd.3 -
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Ay papi I love it😆6
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pizzamyheart wrote: »If, in the height of passion, he calls out, “mommy”.
What about if its "mami"?
That’s good
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This has been an interested thread esp having not dated in 10 years and hopefully being at goal weight to start dating.
My things
Low to no EI
Low to no ambition
Not interested in actual significant topics
Deep-seated hate for women who desire more enriching lifestyles
Nonunderstanding of those with mental or social issues
Oh and a huge one for me being a woman of color is not seeing women as women esp when size and color come into play.4 -
if she doesn't have one of those little automatic hand soap dispensers in the bathroom, i will absolutely leave the next morning and never speak to her again4
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When he’s hot and cold5
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dislikes animals
close-minded
overly vain - if they take longer than me to get ready byebye1 -
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Until Nooshi gets back to give you the real answermattig89ch wrote: »
https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/run_hot_and_cold
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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
Until Nooshi gets back to give you the real answermattig89ch wrote: »
https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/run_hot_and_cold
Henrietta and Delbert- a tale as old as time5 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
Until Nooshi gets back to give you the real answermattig89ch wrote: »
https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/run_hot_and_cold
Henrietta and Delbert- a tale as old as time
Archetypal even2 -
mattig89ch wrote: »
Acting so interested one minute then ghost the next. Then wanna come back like nothing happened. Nah.
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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
Until Nooshi gets back to give you the real answermattig89ch wrote: »
https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/run_hot_and_cold
This is good.3
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