Sorry babe. That's a deal-breaker
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Has a kid that isn't old enough to care for themselves. Not gonna assume financial responsibility for a kid that isn't mine. Plus the kid is always going to be her priority.
I get your point of view.
Kid may not always be their priority tho.
I feel super appreciative that my "step father" (they aren't on paper married) took financial and parenting responsibility for my younger brother and I.
Don't know what would have happened to my brother and me and otherwise.
I have a lot of respect for people who can do that, care for children that aren't their own as if they were.
My boyfriend and I have nine children between us and the moms of his daughters aren’t in the picture. I am so honored to be able to be a positive female in their life and I feel it’s my responsibility to ensure they’re cared for and nurtured. I take them bathing suit shopping, out for hair cuts, school project supplies, etc. These girls shouldn’t suffer because of their situation. Their dad is an amazing man, but little girls need strong women in their life, too. I choose that role.
For me, a dealbreaker is definitely cheating/lying and being unkind.
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Has a kid that isn't old enough to care for themselves. Not gonna assume financial responsibility for a kid that isn't mine. Plus the kid is always going to be her priority.
I get your point of view.
Kid may not always be their priority tho.
I feel super appreciative that my "step father" (they aren't on paper married) took financial and parenting responsibility for my younger brother and I.
Don't know what would have happened to my brother and me and otherwise.
I have a lot of respect for people who can do that, care for children that aren't their own as if they were.
As long as your step dad truly was/is loving and supportive, I have tremendous respect for him for stepping into that role.1 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
I would love a sugar momma. I work too much (literally live at work). It'd free up more of my time so I can get into the best shape of my life, be a boy-toy for her
Also she doesn't have to hate her kids. Just make sure you set aside enough time for me as well
So it's all about the financial situation. And not the kids
She cannot consistently prioritize her kids above me. That's a no-go for me. But that'll more than likely happen. Soooo..... back to getting a fresh start with someone.
I'm no expert on relationships, but the way I see it - if you start with someone who has no children then it gives the two of you a better opportunity to become close and form a strong bond without vying with a child for attention/commitment.2 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
I would love a sugar momma. I work too much (literally live at work). It'd free up more of my time so I can get into the best shape of my life, be a boy-toy for her
Also she doesn't have to hate her kids. Just make sure you set aside enough time for me as well
So it's all about the financial situation. And not the kids
She cannot consistently prioritize her kids above me. That's a no-go for me. But that'll more than likely happen. Soooo..... back to getting a fresh start with someone.
I'm no expert on relationships, but the way I see it - if you start with someone who has no children then it gives the two of you a better opportunity to become close and form a strong bond without vying with a child for attention/commitment.
what if she had dogs she called “fur babies” and felt they were like her children
eta: in this scenario she is middle class
Best kind of babies if you ask me!
Kids are cool when they are older :P1 -
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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
I would love a sugar momma. I work too much (literally live at work). It'd free up more of my time so I can get into the best shape of my life, be a boy-toy for her
Also she doesn't have to hate her kids. Just make sure you set aside enough time for me as well
So it's all about the financial situation. And not the kids
She cannot consistently prioritize her kids above me. That's a no-go for me. But that'll more than likely happen. Soooo..... back to getting a fresh start with someone.
I'm no expert on relationships, but the way I see it - if you start with someone who has no children then it gives the two of you a better opportunity to become close and form a strong bond without vying with a child for attention/commitment.
what if she had dogs she called “fur babies” and felt they were like her children
eta: in this scenario she is middle class
I'll make an exception for you. I always thought you were cute 0 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
I would love a sugar momma. I work too much (literally live at work). It'd free up more of my time so I can get into the best shape of my life, be a boy-toy for her
Also she doesn't have to hate her kids. Just make sure you set aside enough time for me as well
So it's all about the financial situation. And not the kids
She cannot consistently prioritize her kids above me. That's a no-go for me. But that'll more than likely happen. Soooo..... back to getting a fresh start with someone.
I'm no expert on relationships, but the way I see it - if you start with someone who has no children then it gives the two of you a better opportunity to become close and form a strong bond without vying with a child for attention/commitment.
what if she had dogs she called “fur babies” and felt they were like her children
eta: in this scenario she is middle class
I'll make an exception for you. I always thought you were cute
lol i got real life actual kids and put them before anyone anytime
therein lies my point :laugh:1 -
My deal-breaker would be anybody who thinks the kids should be less than the number one priority in any parent's life.
You've got kids, they come first, before any boyfriend or girlfriend. That's just the way it is.7 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
I would love a sugar momma. I work too much (literally live at work). It'd free up more of my time so I can get into the best shape of my life, be a boy-toy for her
Also she doesn't have to hate her kids. Just make sure you set aside enough time for me as well
So it's all about the financial situation. And not the kids
She cannot consistently prioritize her kids above me. That's a no-go for me. But that'll more than likely happen. Soooo..... back to getting a fresh start with someone.
I'm no expert on relationships, but the way I see it - if you start with someone who has no children then it gives the two of you a better opportunity to become close and form a strong bond without vying with a child for attention/commitment.
what if she had dogs she called “fur babies” and felt they were like her children
eta: in this scenario she is middle class
I'll make an exception for you. I always thought you were cute
lol i got real life actual kids and put them before anyone anytime
therein lies my point :laugh:
it’s a totally valid point and i get it 100% believe me
I get your stance as well, and it's perfectly acceptable.
Now, if you want to just keep things casual.....
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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
I would love a sugar momma. I work too much (literally live at work). It'd free up more of my time so I can get into the best shape of my life, be a boy-toy for her
Also she doesn't have to hate her kids. Just make sure you set aside enough time for me as well
So it's all about the financial situation. And not the kids
She cannot consistently prioritize her kids above me. That's a no-go for me. But that'll more than likely happen. Soooo..... back to getting a fresh start with someone.
I'm no expert on relationships, but the way I see it - if you start with someone who has no children then it gives the two of you a better opportunity to become close and form a strong bond without vying with a child for attention/commitment.
what if she had dogs she called “fur babies” and felt they were like her children
eta: in this scenario she is middle class
I'll make an exception for you. I always thought you were cute
lol i got real life actual kids and put them before anyone anytime
Omg tinker! You have kids! Are they as adorable as you?? I can only imagine! 0 -
Deal breaker...when *kitten* gets creepy2
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Tankiscool wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
I would love a sugar momma. I work too much (literally live at work). It'd free up more of my time so I can get into the best shape of my life, be a boy-toy for her
Also she doesn't have to hate her kids. Just make sure you set aside enough time for me as well
So it's all about the financial situation. And not the kids
She cannot consistently prioritize her kids above me. That's a no-go for me. But that'll more than likely happen. Soooo..... back to getting a fresh start with someone.
I'm no expert on relationships, but the way I see it - if you start with someone who has no children then it gives the two of you a better opportunity to become close and form a strong bond without vying with a child for attention/commitment.
what if she had dogs she called “fur babies” and felt they were like her children
eta: in this scenario she is middle class
I'll make an exception for you. I always thought you were cute
lol i got real life actual kids and put them before anyone anytime
Omg tinker! You have kids! Are they as adorable as you?? I can only imagine!
No one is as adorable as her! Ok.... her kids probably are1 -
LiftingSpirits wrote: »Tankiscool wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
I would love a sugar momma. I work too much (literally live at work). It'd free up more of my time so I can get into the best shape of my life, be a boy-toy for her
Also she doesn't have to hate her kids. Just make sure you set aside enough time for me as well
So it's all about the financial situation. And not the kids
She cannot consistently prioritize her kids above me. That's a no-go for me. But that'll more than likely happen. Soooo..... back to getting a fresh start with someone.
I'm no expert on relationships, but the way I see it - if you start with someone who has no children then it gives the two of you a better opportunity to become close and form a strong bond without vying with a child for attention/commitment.
what if she had dogs she called “fur babies” and felt they were like her children
eta: in this scenario she is middle class
I'll make an exception for you. I always thought you were cute
lol i got real life actual kids and put them before anyone anytime
Omg tinker! You have kids! Are they as adorable as you?? I can only imagine!
No one is as adorable as her! Ok.... her kids probably are
Idk Meeeeegan is pretty adorable too! But they both are!0 -
Tankiscool wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »Tankiscool wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
I would love a sugar momma. I work too much (literally live at work). It'd free up more of my time so I can get into the best shape of my life, be a boy-toy for her
Also she doesn't have to hate her kids. Just make sure you set aside enough time for me as well
So it's all about the financial situation. And not the kids
She cannot consistently prioritize her kids above me. That's a no-go for me. But that'll more than likely happen. Soooo..... back to getting a fresh start with someone.
I'm no expert on relationships, but the way I see it - if you start with someone who has no children then it gives the two of you a better opportunity to become close and form a strong bond without vying with a child for attention/commitment.
what if she had dogs she called “fur babies” and felt they were like her children
eta: in this scenario she is middle class
I'll make an exception for you. I always thought you were cute
lol i got real life actual kids and put them before anyone anytime
Omg tinker! You have kids! Are they as adorable as you?? I can only imagine!
No one is as adorable as her! Ok.... her kids probably are
Idk Meeeeegan is pretty adorable too! But they both are!
Suck up3 -
LiftingSpirits wrote: »Tankiscool wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »Tankiscool wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
I would love a sugar momma. I work too much (literally live at work). It'd free up more of my time so I can get into the best shape of my life, be a boy-toy for her
Also she doesn't have to hate her kids. Just make sure you set aside enough time for me as well
So it's all about the financial situation. And not the kids
She cannot consistently prioritize her kids above me. That's a no-go for me. But that'll more than likely happen. Soooo..... back to getting a fresh start with someone.
I'm no expert on relationships, but the way I see it - if you start with someone who has no children then it gives the two of you a better opportunity to become close and form a strong bond without vying with a child for attention/commitment.
what if she had dogs she called “fur babies” and felt they were like her children
eta: in this scenario she is middle class
I'll make an exception for you. I always thought you were cute
lol i got real life actual kids and put them before anyone anytime
Omg tinker! You have kids! Are they as adorable as you?? I can only imagine!
No one is as adorable as her! Ok.... her kids probably are
Idk Meeeeegan is pretty adorable too! But they both are!
Suck up
I was about to type exactly that :laugh:3 -
slimgirljo15 wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »Tankiscool wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »Tankiscool wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
I would love a sugar momma. I work too much (literally live at work). It'd free up more of my time so I can get into the best shape of my life, be a boy-toy for her
Also she doesn't have to hate her kids. Just make sure you set aside enough time for me as well
So it's all about the financial situation. And not the kids
She cannot consistently prioritize her kids above me. That's a no-go for me. But that'll more than likely happen. Soooo..... back to getting a fresh start with someone.
I'm no expert on relationships, but the way I see it - if you start with someone who has no children then it gives the two of you a better opportunity to become close and form a strong bond without vying with a child for attention/commitment.
what if she had dogs she called “fur babies” and felt they were like her children
eta: in this scenario she is middle class
I'll make an exception for you. I always thought you were cute
lol i got real life actual kids and put them before anyone anytime
Omg tinker! You have kids! Are they as adorable as you?? I can only imagine!
No one is as adorable as her! Ok.... her kids probably are
Idk Meeeeegan is pretty adorable too! But they both are!
Suck up
I was about to type exactly that :laugh:
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LiftingSpirits wrote: »Tankiscool wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »Tankiscool wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
I would love a sugar momma. I work too much (literally live at work). It'd free up more of my time so I can get into the best shape of my life, be a boy-toy for her
Also she doesn't have to hate her kids. Just make sure you set aside enough time for me as well
So it's all about the financial situation. And not the kids
She cannot consistently prioritize her kids above me. That's a no-go for me. But that'll more than likely happen. Soooo..... back to getting a fresh start with someone.
I'm no expert on relationships, but the way I see it - if you start with someone who has no children then it gives the two of you a better opportunity to become close and form a strong bond without vying with a child for attention/commitment.
what if she had dogs she called “fur babies” and felt they were like her children
eta: in this scenario she is middle class
I'll make an exception for you. I always thought you were cute
lol i got real life actual kids and put them before anyone anytime
Omg tinker! You have kids! Are they as adorable as you?? I can only imagine!
No one is as adorable as her! Ok.... her kids probably are
Idk Meeeeegan is pretty adorable too! But they both are!
Suck up
Nooooo if I was a suck up I'd tag her like dis
@DeadliftsAndSprinkles
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Tankiscool wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »Tankiscool wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »Tankiscool wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
I would love a sugar momma. I work too much (literally live at work). It'd free up more of my time so I can get into the best shape of my life, be a boy-toy for her
Also she doesn't have to hate her kids. Just make sure you set aside enough time for me as well
So it's all about the financial situation. And not the kids
She cannot consistently prioritize her kids above me. That's a no-go for me. But that'll more than likely happen. Soooo..... back to getting a fresh start with someone.
I'm no expert on relationships, but the way I see it - if you start with someone who has no children then it gives the two of you a better opportunity to become close and form a strong bond without vying with a child for attention/commitment.
what if she had dogs she called “fur babies” and felt they were like her children
eta: in this scenario she is middle class
I'll make an exception for you. I always thought you were cute
lol i got real life actual kids and put them before anyone anytime
Omg tinker! You have kids! Are they as adorable as you?? I can only imagine!
No one is as adorable as her! Ok.... her kids probably are
Idk Meeeeegan is pretty adorable too! But they both are!
Suck up
Nooooo if I was a suck up I'd tag her like dis
@DeadliftsAndSprinkles
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