Help! How do I keep my friends?!
isalsayourface123
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I dont understand why my mfp friends keep dropping me!? If I accept a friend request why in the world days later am I dropped??? Advice? How do I obtain and keep friends?
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Some probably "checking" you out.. etc. are you friending random ppl?0 -
They come and go, my friends list fluctuates frequently. I would just focus on the friends who are there to support you.3
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I tend to keep most of mine. I think it's important to tell jokes and nothing else.
Like this one:
My girlfriend kicked me out because of my terrible Arnold Schwarzenegger impressions. But don't worry,
I'll return.11 -
Is this a serious question? Seems like people like you around here but don't take it personal when new adds drop you. That's just how it goes I guess. I've been dropped and it has made me wonder as to why like you but maybe I just wasn't a good fit to their current fitness goals and they are looking for similar like minded people. The ones that matter are the ones that have stuck with you this long.3
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For what it's worth, the only time I've ever dropped people was when I was fighting a particularly bad mood and felt like withdrawing from *all* social media. Obviously this ain't gonna pertain to everybody, but sometimes it really is "not you, it's me"
I felt bad doing it, too, but...you know, dark times5 -
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Reckoner68 wrote: »For what it's worth, the only time I've ever dropped people was when I was fighting a particularly bad mood and felt like withdrawing from *all* social media. Obviously this ain't gonna pertain to everybody, but sometimes it really is "not you, it's me"
I felt bad doing it, too, but...you know, dark times
Yep. I've been here.1 -
Sometimes I accept a FR on a whim, but if the person doesn't interact or introduce themselves with in a few days I delete them. There are also times when there is a personality conflict. Or if I accept a FR and see that their FL is 300-400 long, all female or even devoid of entries... delete.5
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I think being good with math helps too. I don't know why, but just look at how popular that Albert Einstein was.4
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GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Sometimes I accept a FR on a whim, but if the person doesn't interact or introduce themselves with in a few days I delete them. There are also times when there is a personality conflict. Or if I accept a FR and see that their FL is 300-400 long, all female or even devoid of entries... delete.
This. I've had too many add me and not interact at all. I kinda stopped doing the whole friends thing on here because of it. Maybe Ill try again.1 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Sometimes I accept a FR on a whim, but if the person doesn't interact or introduce themselves with in a few days I delete them. There are also times when there is a personality conflict. Or if I accept a FR and see that their FL is 300-400 long, all female or even devoid of entries... delete.
I can think of at least 20 people I need to cut from my friends list for lack of interaction. And another 5 or so who need to go because they're creepy.3 -
I usually don’t even notice if I’m been dropped til way after the fact - don’t take it personal we’re all just a bunch of weirdos on the interwebs right 🤷♂️7
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I don’t know. I only delete people who haven’t logged on in a while or who I never talk too. People have deleted me, or their account and never re-added me although we still talk, it’s whatever.2
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Maybe your fitness commitment isn’t up to theirs. That’s why I would drop someone.8
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I keep my friends in order of the alphabet. So if I get two M’s, for example, one of them has got to go. I also have @kam26001 on my list seven times. Not sure how that happened but he sends me money so I keep him. I’m in the market for an X, P and a Q.4
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pizzamyheart wrote: »I keep my friends in order of the alphabet. So if I get two M’s, for example, one of them has got to go. I also have @kam26001 on my list seven times. Not sure how that happened but he sends me money so I keep him. I’m in the market for an X, P and a Q.
Do you have an "I" spot available...i promise donut pics2 -
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isalsayourface123 wrote: »
This is why we're friends 🤗0 -
isalsayourface123 wrote: »pizzamyheart wrote: »I keep my friends in order of the alphabet. So if I get two M’s, for example, one of them has got to go. I also have @kam26001 on my list seven times. Not sure how that happened but he sends me money so I keep him. I’m in the market for an X, P and a Q.
Do you have an "I" spot available...i promise donut pics
Ummm how do I subscribe to your donut pics?0 -
DonutEatThat wrote: »isalsayourface123 wrote: »pizzamyheart wrote: »I keep my friends in order of the alphabet. So if I get two M’s, for example, one of them has got to go. I also have @kam26001 on my list seven times. Not sure how that happened but he sends me money so I keep him. I’m in the market for an X, P and a Q.
Do you have an "I" spot available...i promise donut pics
Ummm how do I subscribe to your donut pics?
Well you are already my friend...soooo0 -
nutz_and_boltz wrote: »isalsayourface123 wrote: »I dont understand why my mfp friends keep dropping me!? If I accept a friend request why in the world days later am I dropped??? Advice? How do I obtain and keep friends?
Also, are you sure you didn't confuse Tinder or Bumble with MyFitnessPal?
Yes? No? Wait? What's a bumble?0 -
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I'll DM you for the goodies.isalsayourface123 wrote: »DonutEatThat wrote: »isalsayourface123 wrote: »pizzamyheart wrote: »I keep my friends in order of the alphabet. So if I get two M’s, for example, one of them has got to go. I also have @kam26001 on my list seven times. Not sure how that happened but he sends me money so I keep him. I’m in the market for an X, P and a Q.
Do you have an "I" spot available...i promise donut pics
Ummm how do I subscribe to your donut pics?
Well you are already my friend...soooo0
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