Unsuccessful transition

umbramirror
umbramirror Posts: 256 Member
I'm not sure if I'm posting this in the proper forum, so I aplogize but I could really use all of your help.

I was transitioning into maintenance for a few months. I started in about May/June to increase my calorie intake because I was severely restricting myself unintentionally. For some basic information, I'm 5'6", female, 30, and have my maintenance range set to 124-128 lbs. I was doing pretty well though, logging and watching my daily trends, but I noticed at some point that I was getting very linked with the number on the scale and began developing an unhealhy obsession. On top of this obsession, I was still restricting severely and overtraining (even against the advice of people close to me). I lost my menstrual cycle and believe I might be experiencing some kind of adrenal fatigue.

On September 11th, I reached my lowest weight of 123.8 lbs. That Friday, my eating plan/schedule got messed up and I was so hungry that I had a binge. Since then, I have been having multiple binges (extreme and uncontrolled) and have stopped weighing myself because I'm terrified of what the scale will show.

I have obviously gained weight these past 2 weeks. I feel larger, my clothes fit a little snugger, I have less definition in my muscles overall, and I'm less lean. How much could I have realistically gained? About 5 lbs? Maybe more? I feel so disappointed in myself and I don't want to lose all of the progress I earned... I've been at this for over a year and half. Lost over 100 lbs. I don't want to go back but I'm so demotivated by how I feel currently.

I know that I should speak with a mental health professional, but is there any advice that you could give? I need to make a new routine and shed this weight, but I don't want to go back to severe restriction because I'm afraid I'll just go back into a binge/restriction cycle.
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  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,458 Member
    edited September 2019
    psychod787 wrote: »
    Oh, last thoughts.... @cmriverside is most likely right about it taking a year for some hunger hormones to balance some. I posted some recent research on the subject in the maintainers forum.

    What happened to your AV image? Had me worried there for a minute, I thought you got in trouble! :wink:

    *edit to say, all I was seeing was the gray bobblehead...now it's back to your other AV. Weird.
  • ElizabethKalmbach
    ElizabethKalmbach Posts: 1,415 Member
    Today is a challenge. I went to the gym but felt awful. One positive though is that I was able to increase my lifts a bit. 😅 I feel nauseous and bloated, so I don't have much of an interest in food. Today may have to be a lighter day before I return to maintenance level calories. One of the worst side effects besides the feeling of having a fever, chills, lethargy, etc. is that all of my clothes are tight. Putting on my work clothes made me really realize the weight (no pun intended) of what I had done.

    Are you actually sick with an illness? Have you been to the doctor yet? DO track your food, DO track these symptoms, and DO tell your doctor about them if they continue for longer than a week. Really FEEL your body and write down every little thing and report ALL of it to your doctor if it continues.

    I hope you feel better soon!
  • psychod787
    psychod787 Posts: 4,099 Member
    PAV8888 wrote: »
    There is some "thinking" around that reacting to too large of a deficit for our present circumstances (usually with subsequent over-eating) is a moral (or psychological) failing. This neglects that actual physical and hormonal changes are introduced during deficit eating and ignores the fact that these become magnified as we get leaner and as the deficits become larger when compared to our TDEE and our available energy reserves.

    I firmly believe that we would probably be better off NOT triggering any of these reactions in the first place (hence my common suggestion of modest deficits over longer periods of time and avoidance of pushing into very low levels of energy reserves especially when exercising a lot). But, if these things didn't happen... these posts wouldn't be needed! :wink:

    I am not aware of any remedy other than moderating exercise, allowing for managed regain (some times, for example, some rapid initial regain may be desirable), and for time to pass. I suppose that at some point hormone level restoration/management may become available from our health providers... but we're not there yet!

    Still waiting for the "magical bullet". Not holding my breathe! 🤢
  • ElizabethKalmbach
    ElizabethKalmbach Posts: 1,415 Member
    edited October 2019
    @umbramirror I really, really don't want to project any of my personal paranoia or bias onto you, but if you feel the way you did at the gym for a while, especially after you resume a more ordered eating pattern, I highly recommend you get all your vitamin and mineral levels checked for deficiencies. Unfortunately, it's hard to tell which vitamins a body is lacking without blood tests, because the symptoms for MOST of the deficiencies are the same grouping of insomnia, nausea, vertigo, cramping, etc that are easy to brush off as an "off day" for like... 6 months straight. (Seriously. Please don't try to tough it out if your symptoms don't improve.)

    In the meantime, if you're not already, a quality multi vitamin can be extremely helpful if your version of calorie restriction involves eating a lot of the same foods over and over, because it's just easier to log that way. ;-) (I had to make a RULE for myself that only ONE MEAL A DAY was allowed to be a protein shake, unless I had a doctor's note. :P So, I'm not accusing you of anything, I'm just tattling on myself.)
  • tcunbeliever
    tcunbeliever Posts: 8,219 Member
    Licorice root is the single best herb for the adrenals, but should not be taken if you have high blood pressure since it can cause a 15 point increase in BP for some people.

    There is a TCM (traditional chineese medicine) blend called Nervous Fatigue that is also great for adrenals and does not have anything that might increase blood pressure.

    2 weeks is not really enough time to put on a significant amount of fat. Most of what you have gained is likely water, so don't panic.

    Put down the guilt. Face the future. Start again.
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