Judgmental Things
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CanesGalactica wrote: »Behindblue_eyes wrote: »I'm just here judging the first few sentences of this topic. MFP is actually a safe and supportive space for people? Mind blown!
Hey, that's their claim, not mine. I mean, they won't let us post anything truly contentious and if you do, you get put in MFP jail or banned.... so. **shrugs**
I always thought the bars were neat on people's profile pics. I miss those!2 -
CanesGalactica wrote: »Behindblue_eyes wrote: »I'm just here judging the first few sentences of this topic. MFP is actually a safe and supportive space for people? Mind blown!
Hey, that's their claim, not mine. I mean, they won't let us post anything truly contentious and if you do, you get put in MFP jail or banned.... so. **shrugs**
I wonder if MFP has become tight assed because their app is functionally horrific and they are overcompensating for a shortcoming
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CanesGalactica wrote: »Behindblue_eyes wrote: »I'm just here judging the first few sentences of this topic. MFP is actually a safe and supportive space for people? Mind blown!
Hey, that's their claim, not mine. I mean, they won't let us post anything truly contentious and if you do, you get put in MFP jail or banned.... so. **shrugs**
I wonder if MFP has become tight assed because their app is functionally horrific and they are overcompensating for a shortcoming
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Behindblue_eyes wrote: »CanesGalactica wrote: »Behindblue_eyes wrote: »I'm just here judging the first few sentences of this topic. MFP is actually a safe and supportive space for people? Mind blown!
Hey, that's their claim, not mine. I mean, they won't let us post anything truly contentious and if you do, you get put in MFP jail or banned.... so. **shrugs**
My (serious) question would be - why would anyone really want to come here to post contentious things in the first place?
I think a lot of people confuse contentious with humor.3 -
Behindblue_eyes wrote: »CanesGalactica wrote: »Behindblue_eyes wrote: »I'm just here judging the first few sentences of this topic. MFP is actually a safe and supportive space for people? Mind blown!
Hey, that's their claim, not mine. I mean, they won't let us post anything truly contentious and if you do, you get put in MFP jail or banned.... so. **shrugs**
My (serious) question would be - why would anyone really want to come here to post contentious things in the first place?
Take one person and add another. There you'll find contention. Some handle it better than others.3 -
CanesGalactica wrote: »Behindblue_eyes wrote: »I'm just here judging the first few sentences of this topic. MFP is actually a safe and supportive space for people? Mind blown!
Hey, that's their claim, not mine. I mean, they won't let us post anything truly contentious and if you do, you get put in MFP jail or banned.... so. **shrugs**
I wonder if MFP has become tight assed because their app is functionally horrific and they are overcompensating for a shortcoming
Oh man, I gave up trying to use the app. I can't even log on as it stays in perpetual "loading" mode. Ugh.2 -
Behindblue_eyes wrote: »CanesGalactica wrote: »Behindblue_eyes wrote: »I'm just here judging the first few sentences of this topic. MFP is actually a safe and supportive space for people? Mind blown!
Hey, that's their claim, not mine. I mean, they won't let us post anything truly contentious and if you do, you get put in MFP jail or banned.... so. **shrugs**
My (serious) question would be - why would anyone really want to come here to post contentious things in the first place?
Depends. Some thrive on it (as has been mentioned) and others confuse contentious topics as humor (how, I have no idea).
For the purpose of this thread, I was being introspective and realizing that sometimes, I automatically judge people (at times) without even giving it a second thought. That led me to question why I do that when I hate it being done to me. I get that to judge is kinda human nature, but that doesn't mean a person can't overcome or work to better that nature.
So given the things I get kinda judgemental about (even though I keep my opinion to myself on it except for rare situations), I became curious about what others might auto-judge people on without really even being aware of it.
Perhaps I should have worded my original sentiment better. Oops.0 -
My issue is with the word judge. First of all, in past tense we don’t drop the e, so it’s spelled ‘judged’. But you do drop the e for judgment. OR DO YOU! Because judgement is also correct. However ‘judgmental’ is the only correct spelling there. And the word judging? That just looks like a style of martial arts. It’s a stupid word to pronounce, not fun at all, zero stars7
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I judge people on their car bumper stickers.
I judge people on their taste in music.
I judge people who don't like Parks and Recreation.
I judge myself the worst.1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »My issue is with the word judge. First of all, in past tense we don’t drop the e, so it’s spelled ‘judged’. But you do drop the e for judgment. OR DO YOU! Because judgement is also correct. However ‘judgmental’ is the only correct spelling there. And the word judging? That just looks like a style of martial arts. It’s a stupid word to pronounce, not fun at all, zero stars
English in general sucks. I think it should go the way of Latin and just become an obscure language only to be used when one is feeling pretentious.3 -
I judge people in the TSA line who still ask if they have to take their shoes off1
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I judge people who talk on the phone while at the check out. I will also give you the stink eye. That's some rude *kitten*2
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Behindblue_eyes wrote: »CanesGalactica wrote: »Behindblue_eyes wrote: »I'm just here judging the first few sentences of this topic. MFP is actually a safe and supportive space for people? Mind blown!
Hey, that's their claim, not mine. I mean, they won't let us post anything truly contentious and if you do, you get put in MFP jail or banned.... so. **shrugs**
My (serious) question would be - why would anyone really want to come here to post contentious things in the first place?
isn't that pretty much the whole internet? From what I hear its pretty tame here.
I once saw a girl at panera order her soup or whatever it was in a bread bowl. Then I watched her throw out the bread bowl. I'm still dealing with that.....2 -
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Behindblue_eyes wrote: »Behindblue_eyes wrote: »CanesGalactica wrote: »Behindblue_eyes wrote: »I'm just here judging the first few sentences of this topic. MFP is actually a safe and supportive space for people? Mind blown!
Hey, that's their claim, not mine. I mean, they won't let us post anything truly contentious and if you do, you get put in MFP jail or banned.... so. **shrugs**
My (serious) question would be - why would anyone really want to come here to post contentious things in the first place?
I think a lot of people confuse contentious with humor.
THIS! This forum was once a fun place to be. It honestly humored me through some of the most difficult times in my life. My experience now is completely different. There's so many passive agressive comments, and people who get a kick out of being rude with a smile. Maybe I just don't "get it," or want to.
There is humor to be found in both conflict and day to day situations.
The OP has a point; practically everyone, in their day to day lives, encounters a situation where they "judge" someone. The word judge could be overkill in this context, depending on the observation/situation.
Is it always rational? Of course not. Fair? Probably not.
Sure, some people are "rude with a smile", but there are many of us who encounter awkward situations that are humorous.
There is also a stark difference between judging someone for frivolous and/or silly matters vs serious ones.
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pizzamyheart wrote: »I once saw a girl at panera order her soup or whatever it was in a bread bowl. Then I watched her throw out the bread bowl. I'm still dealing with that.....
I mean, I understand asking for it without a breadbowl because the calories
but why pay for it if you're going to throw it away? Crazy.
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pizzamyheart wrote: »I once saw a girl at panera order her soup or whatever it was in a bread bowl. Then I watched her throw out the bread bowl. I'm still dealing with that.....
I mean, I understand asking for it without a breadbowl because the calories but why pay for it if you're going to throw it away? Crazy.
Exactly! My son was with me and we still talk about it to this day.1 -
Behindblue_eyes wrote: »pizzamyheart wrote: »Behindblue_eyes wrote: »CanesGalactica wrote: »Behindblue_eyes wrote: »I'm just here judging the first few sentences of this topic. MFP is actually a safe and supportive space for people? Mind blown!
Hey, that's their claim, not mine. I mean, they won't let us post anything truly contentious and if you do, you get put in MFP jail or banned.... so. **shrugs**
My (serious) question would be - why would anyone really want to come here to post contentious things in the first place?
isn't that pretty much the whole internet? From what I hear its pretty tame here.
I once saw a girl at panera order her soup or whatever it was in a bread bowl. Then I watched her throw out the bread bowl. I'm still dealing with that.....
To an extent, yes. However, this particular forum was once light hearted and funny. I'm failing to find humor in passive agressive behavior. People that find humor in hurting other people isn't too funny in my eyes. I work an extremely stressful job and come here to escape, I often find myself more stressed than relieved. This is only my opinion, I'm sure most people don't feel this way.
Speaking of Panera soup - have you had their broccoli cheddar? 😌
It was, wasn’t it? What a shame, what we are left with now. Too many snowflakes ruined it for everyone.0 -
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Another one - I judge anti-vaxers harshly.6
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I used to work at clubs and would always judge the girls that came out in the dead of winter, with snow falling, ice on the sidewalks, and slippery black ice everywhere.... and they would be wearing tiny dresses, thin high heels and no coat.
They were usually shaking with cold when they got to me, and at least 1 friend slipped and fell in the snow......
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pizzamyheart wrote: »pizzamyheart wrote: »I once saw a girl at panera order her soup or whatever it was in a bread bowl. Then I watched her throw out the bread bowl. I'm still dealing with that.....
I mean, I understand asking for it without a breadbowl because the calories but why pay for it if you're going to throw it away? Crazy.
Exactly! My son was with me and we still talk about it to this day.
maybe they didn't like the crust, or didn't trust the dishwashers for a regular bowl?0 -
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For those who disagree....enjoy your measles.3
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