What's YOUR weakness when it comes to the opposite gender?
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when I see them return a cart all the way across the parking lot2
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I'm getting a couple of these in one person right now, he's smarter than me in many areas and instead of being condescending he explains what I'm interested in and honestly thinks I follow it all. Even better, he doesn't work out but he picked me up and carried me really far and didn't ruin the moment by dropping me on the way or rushing, woot woot! Yeah, he could've skipped the talking and just done that, I'm pretty impressed!
Oh, I like a freshly showered guy too but a little B.O., not a lot but enough to get that manly smell, is a turn on (unless he smells awful of course). Like workout sweat but not after it's marinated.
The guy I'm seeing was visiting and working at the table while I was working out. I came into the kitchen for a drink and he let me know he'd brought up the cans. Whoa. Be still my beating heart! AND he offered me his last Diet Pepsi. This guy knows what he's doing, I'm screwed.2 -
Broad shoulders. Unapologetically there. Says what he thinks even if it goes against the grain.1
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My dream man is a manly jerk that's only nice to me. Emphasis on manly. Men that know how to hunt, fight, and are mechanically inclined are so attractive.2
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When they ghost me 🥰2
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eatpolerepeat wrote: »PaperDoll_ wrote: »When they ghost me 🥰
Now I know what to do 😌
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nice legs and feet1
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someone who knows exactly what I want for dinner so we don't have to do the whole "what do you want for dinner" "I don't know, what do you want" routine1
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4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »someone who knows exactly what I want for dinner so we don't have to do the whole "what do you want for dinner" "I don't know, what do you want" routine
I hear you !! Time for a command decision
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When they get banned from MFP (hopefully temporarily, otherwise who will cook for me while we watch movies after exercising and running a successful business venture of some yet-to-be-detemined design) #badboysforlife
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Sigh. It seems like he's gone for good y'all. Posts deleted and ban tag still in place. It really made me rethink my "no friending" policy.
Look! Look at the hell you've wrought MFP mods! Now I'm FORCED to amplify lusting after people's fathers in the Dad Bod and Suits threads. (Edit to add: ESPECIALLY if cufflinks are involved, discussed or displayed).
If homes are wrecked I cannot be held liable under Geneva Convention agreement #3, Statute #5632-A, para 4. It's Under Armour's fault.2 -
The eyes connect everything.0
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When they know how to playfully push you away... It's too much for me 😂0
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Deep voice, solid arms and shoulders, dad bod...1
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Pretty eyes, nice legs and butt and that whole smile while biting her lip thing.0
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Asians 🤯 ... Can I be normal just for once and have the same answers as others I see 😫2
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fitnessjustin01 wrote: »Asians 🤯 ... Can I be normal just for once and have the same answers as others I see 😫
😕 Surely, you are normal and could not have possibly meant to come off as creepy as that yet I'll just leave this here for your weekend educational literature.2 -
I'm just merely sharing what I tend to like overall (my weakness). Just like people who say blue eyes, big arms, big butt etc etc. I mean no offense to others types or to say I don't like other types.1
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fitnessjustin01 wrote: »I'm just merely sharing what I tend to like overall (my weakness). Just like people who say blue eyes, big arms, big butt etc etc. I mean no offense to others types or to say I don't like other types.
Don't worry Brother...
I hear awkward is the in thing these days 😂0 -
When I can close my eyes and imagine him in a pretty dress. 😏2
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fitnessjustin01 wrote: »I'm just merely sharing what I tend to like overall (my weakness). Just like people who say blue eyes, big arms, big butt etc etc. I mean no offense to others types or to say I don't like other types.
First, I'm not offended. That is completely missing the point of my initial reply. Rather I offered you an educational opportunity so that you are less likely to offend women with heritage from the continent of Asia.
Blue eyes, big arms, big butts (heck, even cufflinks) are fetishes but they are not race-based.
Now, if you - and whomever is liking your posts - are offended by this clarification, that's a whole other can of worms: being offended when being called out (gently, may I add) after having said something offensive.
Good luck out there, kid ✌🏿1 -
When they get banned from MFP (hopefully temporarily, otherwise who will cook for me while we watch movies after exercising and running a successful business venture of some yet-to-be-detemined design) #badboysforlife
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Sigh. It seems like he's gone for good y'all. Posts deleted and ban tag still in place. It really made me rethink my "no friending" policy.
Look! Look at the hell you've wrought MFP mods! Now I'm FORCED to amplify lusting after people's fathers in the Dad Bod and Suits threads. (Edit to add: ESPECIALLY if cufflinks are involved, discussed or displayed).
If homes are wrecked I cannot be held liable under Geneva Convention agreement #3, Statute #5632-A, para 4. It's Under Armour's fault.
I was just thinking about the suits thread the other day. That was a great one!1 -
By no means offended. I appreciate you sharing the knowledge. I'm just trying to share in the fun of the post without offending anyone in general.3
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fitnessjustin01 wrote: »I'm just merely sharing what I tend to like overall (my weakness). Just like people who say blue eyes, big arms, big butt etc etc. I mean no offense to others types or to say I don't like other types.
First, I'm not offended. That is completely missing the point of my initial reply. Rather I offered you an educational opportunity so that you are less likely to offend women with heritage from the continent of Asia.
Blue eyes, big arms, big butts (heck, even cufflinks) are fetishes but they are not race-based.
Now, if you - and whomever is liking your posts - are offended by this clarification, that's a whole other can of worms: being offended when being called out (gently, may I add) after having said something offensive.
Good luck out there, kid ✌🏿
“The main problem with white women is they’ve become too feminist” for the far right, Lim writes. “By contrast, Asian women are seen as naturally inclined to serve men sexually and are also thought of as slim, light-skinned and small, in adherence to Western norms of femininity.”
By far, some of the most profound statements I've seen in a hot minute. This was a great article. Thank you.1 -
a strong independent woman3
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fitnessjustin01 wrote: »Asians 🤯 ... Can I be normal just for once and have the same answers as others I see 😫
😕 Surely, you are normal and could not have possibly meant to come off as creepy as that yet I'll just leave this here for your weekend educational literature.
Do you know the guy personally? Do you know if he has assumed fetish?
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fitnessjustin01 wrote: »Asians 🤯 ... Can I be normal just for once and have the same answers as others I see 😫
😕 Surely, you are normal and could not have possibly meant to come off as creepy as that yet I'll just leave this here for your weekend educational literature.
Do you know the guy personally? Do you know if he has assumed fetish?
Filipinos 😍2 -
fitnessjustin01 wrote: »Asians 🤯 ... Can I be normal just for once and have the same answers as others I see 😫
😕 Surely, you are normal and could not have possibly meant to come off as creepy as that yet I'll just leave this here for your weekend educational literature.
Don't get wrong, article was definitely educational in many ways I appreciated the article for what it is but I honestly think it could have been shared elsewhere without having it attached to this particular posters reply to his weaknesses.7 -
r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »fitnessjustin01 wrote: »Asians 🤯 ... Can I be normal just for once and have the same answers as others I see 😫
😕 Surely, you are normal and could not have possibly meant to come off as creepy as that yet I'll just leave this here for your weekend educational literature.
Don't get wrong, article was definitely educational in many ways I appreciated the article for what it is but I honestly think it could have been shared elsewhere without having it attached to this particular posters reply to his weaknesses.
Yeah I get you...
I have a friend who says all the time, for him, she's gotta be Asian... And he's not a creep, he's a pretty good Dude...
But we grew up in the same city and it was just what all the boys were into I guess back then... Some of us grew out of preference like this, while others possibly not I guess 🤷🏽♂️...
It's not due to any perverse stereotype like this article suggests and just comes down to varying other factors...0 -
fitnessjustin01 wrote: »Asians 🤯 ... Can I be normal just for once and have the same answers as others I see 😫
😕 Surely, you are normal and could not have possibly meant to come off as creepy as that yet I'll just leave this here for your weekend educational literature.
Do you know the guy personally? Do you know if he has assumed fetish?
And here I thought this was peacefully quashed several minutes ago. But if we insist on another round discussing the appropriateness of having a fetish, romantic preference or any other affection based on solely race then here's an ally 🤷🏿♀️...
In Defense of Asian Romantic Preference
https://doi.org/10.5840/ijap2019211110
Lest the claim becomes I'm not objective (not that I need to be). It has a DOI reference in a journal so it MUST be valid.
In all seriousness, I'm not here to speak on behalf of all Asian women, so if you're interested in finding out if this preference is offensive then be curious and open-minded to do your own due diligence when presented with a new idea or construct. Especially one that may make you uncomfortable or has the possibility of making others uncomfortable:
* educate yourself on the matter in question using critical thinking skills
* have respectful, compassionate conversation with the people of concern that involves more active listening than defensive talking, and otherwise
* be humble about the fact one's affections are not always reciprocated or considered complimentary to another person (or group of people).2 -
fitnessjustin01 wrote: »Asians 🤯 ... Can I be normal just for once and have the same answers as others I see 😫
😕 Surely, you are normal and could not have possibly meant to come off as creepy as that yet I'll just leave this here for your weekend educational literature.
Do you know the guy personally? Do you know if he has assumed fetish?
And here I thought this was peacefully quashed several minutes ago. But if we insist on another round discussing the appropriateness of having a fetish, romantic preference or any other affection based on solely race then here's an ally 🤷🏿♀️...
In Defense of Asian Romantic Preference
https://doi.org/10.5840/ijap2019211110
Lest the claim becomes I'm not objective (not that I need to be). It has a DOI reference in a journal so it MUST be valid.
In all seriousness, I'm not here to speak on behalf of all Asian women, so if you're interested in finding out if this preference is offensive then be curious and open-minded to do your own due diligence when presented with a new idea or construct. Especially one that may make you uncomfortable or has the possibility of making others uncomfortable:
* educate yourself on the matter in question using critical thinking skills
* have respectful, compassionate conversation with the people of concern that involves more active listening than defensive talking, and otherwise
* be humble about the fact one's affections are not always reciprocated or considered complimentary to another person (or group of people).
I don't need education. I'm Asian and have female relatives.. you painting that all whites only seek Asian or other race other than theirs for a fetish is bs. Unless you can prove the person is such a person.. DO NOT ASSUME!
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