What have you done today to be nice to yourself?
thelastnightingale
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One of the most common themes I see on this forum is people putting on weight because they put themselves last. It's not that they want to overeat or eat 'bad' food, they just don't treat their health as a priority because they don't see themselves as a priority.
So, my question to you, is what have you done today to be nice to yourself? Something that doesn't involve food. I think it would be good to share ideas for how we can look after ourselves that don't involve food as a reward, and to remind ourselves to make time to be kind to ourselves. Because, you know what? We all deserve that.
I'll start.
Today, I scheduled a long lunch (I'm working from home) and took a bubblebath. Just because I could.
So, my question to you, is what have you done today to be nice to yourself? Something that doesn't involve food. I think it would be good to share ideas for how we can look after ourselves that don't involve food as a reward, and to remind ourselves to make time to be kind to ourselves. Because, you know what? We all deserve that.
I'll start.
Today, I scheduled a long lunch (I'm working from home) and took a bubblebath. Just because I could.
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I count learning to be nicer to myself as one of the most important differences in getting so much weight off.
It may not sound like it but I was nice to myself by getting 3 of my evening chores done early this morning. I find it to be an incredible difference in my day when I have less things "hanging over my head." When I am doing something like this I will say to myself "future me will appreciate this." and when I am future me I thank past me for getting it done. I know. It sounds a bit nuts but it is the same concept I use in my weight loss and fitness approach. I want to hand tomorrow me a body in slightly better shape than yesterday me gave me and let him take it from there.9 -
I actually don't really know how to be kind to myself lol. The best thing I've done so far is noticed little changes in my body (not as much pain from my knee injury, pants starting to get looser, etc) but those little changes do make me very happy. Means that I'm headed in the right direction and as a perfectionist, makes me think that I can do this and get down to my weight goal no matter how long it takes.4
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@NovusDies I love that way of thinking and trying to make life easier for Future You.
@AngelOfMusic1028 Now is as good a time to start being kind to yourself as any! The other day I caught my reflection in the mirror, paused, preened and thought to myself that I looked so much healthier than a few months ago. Complimenting yourself (even if it's just in your head) definitely counts.2 -
AngelOfMusic1028 wrote: »I actually don't really know how to be kind to myself lol. The best thing I've done so far is noticed little changes in my body (not as much pain from my knee injury, pants starting to get looser, etc) but those little changes do make me very happy. Means that I'm headed in the right direction and as a perfectionist, makes me think that I can do this and get down to my weight goal no matter how long it takes.
You just have to get the ball rolling.
Find something that causes you grief and then tell yourself that part of your weight loss is resolving it or keeping it resolved.
Mine was my hair length. I hate it when my hair get too long. In the past I would routinely put off getting it cut for 3 or more additional weeks. It added to my misery.
I decided when I started losing weight that I would get it cut in set intervals to make sure it was never longer than I liked. I have not broken that promise to myself.
The happier we are the easier life in a calorie deficit is to navigate. The good things and bad things are both cumulative so we need to put as much in the good column as we can.4 -
Went to the chiropractor for a much needed adjustment, layer out on the deck this morning before it got too hot (and before baby woke up), and later tonight I’m going out for supper with a friend (social distancing still in place).2
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Went for a morning ride on the bike - this is my 'me' time and helps get me prepared for the day.2
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I absolutely love this thread!
So many posts feature members getting down on themselves or panicking because something is not perfect. Highlighting the good is so important, especially if it involves treating yourself right.
I am always doing things to make me feel good and to build a loving relationship with myself.1 -
The happier we are the easier life in a calorie deficit is to navigate. The good things and bad things are both cumulative so we need to put as much in the good column as we can.
Exactly!Went to the chiropractor for a much needed adjustment, layer out on the deck this morning before it got too hot (and before baby woke up), and later tonight I’m going out for supper with a friend (social distancing still in place).
Ooh, I'm jealous. My treat to myself used to be getting a massage regularly, but it's a bit far for me to travel at the moment and my back misses my massage therapist hugely! Hope you enjoy your time with your friend.Went for a morning ride on the bike - this is my 'me' time and helps get me prepared for the day.
I think that's really inspirational you've turned exercise into something so positive.ladyzherra wrote: »I am always doing things to make me feel good and to build a loving relationship with myself.
Do share some examples if you can. I think we all need reminding sometimes of the little things we can do to make ourselves feel happier, and to value ourselves. Tomorrow I am going to have either a lie in or an afternoon nap. Luxury.1 -
I put a nice new sample of day cream on my face. It’s expensive but feels and smells so good I may end up buying it. I did 50 minutes of yoga with Adriene, focused on the lower back. Now I’m laying back on my peanut massage ball and my back feels happy.3
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I came home during the middle of my workday to pet/play with my dog.
I exercised when I felt frazzled.
I posted a journal entry about my problems to let it out into the universe and let those emotions go5 -
Worked out, then went outside and spent time laying down on the lawn staring at the sky thinking. I was worn out from reading labels at the grocery store and was going to mope to bed when someone reminded me of taking an Epsom salt bath. I tried to relax but my cat kept splashing me in the face so it was funny more than anything, got my mind off not feeling good.4
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I got up with my alarm.
That might sound odd, but I'm trying to climb out of a depressive streak, and part of that is actually getting up when I say I will. Sometimes I need the extra sleep, but I slept enough last night, and now I feel like I have much more time for myself.8 -
Great chat theme.
I did a workout at 7.30am. I drank wine and stayed up late last night with friends so was not in the mood but did it anyway and felt fantastic afterwards. Also had a hot bath and went for a short walk in the woods in the rain. I'm really enjoying looking after my body a bit more after years of putting others first.6 -
I count learning to be nicer to myself as one of the most important differences in getting so much weight off.
It may not sound like it but I was nice to myself by getting 3 of my evening chores done early this morning. I find it to be an incredible difference in my day when I have less things "hanging over my head." When I am doing something like this I will say to myself "future me will appreciate this." and when I am future me I thank past me for getting it done. I know. It sounds a bit nuts but it is the same concept I use in my weight loss and fitness approach. I want to hand tomorrow me a body in slightly better shape than yesterday me gave me and let him take it from there.
I totally do this too in my life! It helps such a lot with motivation and getting stuff done in general when I otherwise can’t be arsed 😊
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I made time to listen to a friend today. We're all going through different stresses in 2020 - health, work, relationships - but they're all valid stresses, and the way we'll get through this is by leaning on each other. Making time to nurture my friendships is my something nice. I feel better for taking my turn to be the person listening, as opposed to the person being listened to. And hopefully my friend feels better too.
Not seeing people on a regular basis during the pandemic makes it difficult to remember to check in with everyone, but taking the time to support others and be supported in turn is so important.2 -
I walked 5 miles. About to go to the gym. Its my happy place. lol4
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Today I took a break and did some meditation. Meditation per se isn't clicking for me, but it forces me to take some quiet time without loads of people calling me at the same time, and that definitely is doing me some good.0
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Today I did my early morning walk before it gets too hot, came home took a shower and relaxing listening to music.I have the house for myself husband and daughter both at work.😀😀. Was going to do laundry but husband can do that on his off day. Today no cleaning,cooking a relaxing day work tomorrow😂3
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I am going to make myself some hot tea tonight after work, curl up and watch a movie.2
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I video-chatted with two friends, to keep up the friendship despite living far from them. I always underestimate the power of a good social support network.4
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I washed my hair😁2
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I'll go one step further, @DancingMoosie - today I washed my hair and used some fancy conditioning treatment on it. I am now swishing my hair like a horse's mane, or like Jennifer Anniston is a L'Oreal ad. Clean hair is lovely, isn't it?2
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I scouted a new running loop, finally figured out how to get to the lake. Gave me a nice walk today on my rest day and might just do my run there tomorrow. It’s been irking me that I hadn’t gotten around to figuring it out since I moved here in November.2
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I have been letting myself enjoy my gaming time, instead of feeling guilty about it (monopolizing the tv, playing solo person game so not doing a thing with hubby, etc).1
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Went home for lunch and played with my dog
Didnt eat out so my stomach doesnt hurt either3 -
Today, I had a very long soak after some exercise. I also set up a subscription for the protein bars I have tried and decided I really like, as my box was running low. They're not the cheapest, but they fit into my goals really well, and it's still cheaper than buying takeaway so often, so I'm still winning financially!1
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This:
Have been tired and run down. I increased my daily calories and am allowing myself a “super day” once in a while if my body genuinely tells me it needs recharging.
I feel like I can take on the world this morning!
PS: not recommending this for all. I am in maintenance, my weight is holding steady, and I go right back to plan the next day. I’m also mentally prepared and totally OK if my weight yo-yos up a couple pounds after a load day, because it will go right back down within the week. When I was in the weight loss phase, I would not have been quite so accepting.1
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