Women 200lb+, Let's Never Surrender in November!!!
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Yesterday was a good day for me! I exercised ✔, met my water goal of 96oz✔, logged ALL my food, including the 3 pieces of candy I had (they were the miniature sized ones and I was still within my limits)✔, stopped eating at 7pm✔ and I met my 10k step goal even though I had to walk 10 minutes on the treadmill to get there.✔
But most importantly, I did not eat the Halloween sugar cookies with sprinkles that we bought at the store last night.
I also worked out this morning for the 2nd day in a row, so I'm proud of myself for that too.7 -
I’ve lost track here. I was in a car accident wile walking on morning in September. My spine was fractured and I was in ICU for several days.
I have a journey back to improved health. I’m grated to my family and friends for their support
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@Pamiede, so glad you're safe and getting better! Best wishes for an uneventful recovery and a hope that you'll be back to your strong self soon!2
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Well I completed day 2 of my new job. It is hard and complicated but very interesting. I need to learn 2 new hard software programs but I am good at that. I love to learn. So many more people in my department than before. It turns out the project I will be working on isn't coming in right away so I should be ready by the time it does. I felt really tired at 4:30 today.
The good news is that yesterday my husband and I went for a walk after dinner. It felt good. He also made dinner. Today is different we are getting take out and I don't think I will try to get in exercise.
I will come back and read everyone's posts and post properly with goals for the month later but just wanted to let you know I am here.6 -
Hey Y'all!
I am totally new and just started my diet/lifestyle on November 1,2020! I am on Day 3 and I am 261lbs! I have been doing Jillian Michael's 30 day shred workout. I have a gym membership, but I can only go on Thursdays. My goal for November is to go down to 255lbs! I am sticking to a 1200 calorie diet plus working out 6 days a week. If anyone has any tips/ tricks I would gladly take them!
Here's to all of us! We got this! We are strong!8 -
@pamiede good to see you back here, what a terrible thing. Glad you are on the mend xxx2
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@pamiede I'm so sorry about your accident and subsequent hospital stay! I hope you continue to improve and feel better.
@KeriA congrats on completing 2 days at the new job, that's pretty exciting. starting a new job can be both exciting and intimidating.
@thegillianjohnson welcome! this is a really great group. and yep, all you do is post your goals. it can be for the month, for the week, for the year- whatever you want. we're not super picky. just post in the group, and boom, you're here and we're so happy you made it!
@holdthefries I've been trying to eat more vegetarian meals also, I think it definitely gets easier and more habit-forming the more often you do it3 -
@pamiede How dreadful! Glad you are on the road to recovery and have the support of friends and family xoxo Welcome back x
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well, I'll be honest- this has been not a super great start to November. not so much food-choice wise, even, but life-wise. the past ten days or so have been pretty rough, and I'm having a hard time being optimistic. I'm normally a relatively up-beat person, but that has been harder to maintain recently.
we had a hurricane down here in Southern Louisiana, and I lost power for a few days, which is always a bummer. I did get to ride out a hurricane at work for the first time since I moved here, which was kind of exciting. but I'm worried about covid numbers increasing again- I work in healthcare, and y'all, I am so, so tired of this pandemic. I'm not going anywhere, I'm going to keep working, keep fighting this virus, but I am... tired.
I also learned yesterday that my grandfather tested positive for covid. he's pretty fragile, and I was just at his house taking care of him because he hadn't been feeling well. I thought it might be covid, but now I know for sure. I think it's likely this is the end for him. he's one of my favorite people in the world, and I'm having a really hard time. but I need to keep my stuff together for my mom and my aunts.
so I'm not worrying so much right now about staying under calories. I'm going to try to keep moving every day, because I know from experience I'll feel better if I stay active. I'll keep eating vegetarian, keep trying to eat lots of fresh fruits and veggies, choose (mostly) smart when it comes to food, but right now I am giving myself grace. staying healthy, not stressing out over food, staying hydrated, and feeding my body what it needs to get through these next few weeks is more important than if I lose weight this month.
hug your loved ones if it's safe. please be cautious about spreading this virus, please please please. from an ICU nurse, from a granddaughter who will likely lose her granddad, from a fellow human being. wash your hands, stay safe.19 -
I have been on a wee bit of a roller coaster the last few days...and I did attempt to post here yesterday but it poofed and so here it is the 4th of November and just checking in.
Starting Weight June 1, 2020: 242 pounds
Starting Weight November 1, 2020: 192 pounds
I have been at 192 pounds for 2 weeks, despite doing everything right. Being consistently under; consistently exercising and yet no movement. I had read all about plateaus but since it hadn't happened to me, I guess I always secretly wondered if people were really logging correctly or really exercising. But yes, I know I was doing everything I was supposed to. Everything that took the first 50 pounds off. And nothing for 15 days. Stress levels about the same. Sleep about the same. Frustrating start to the month.
I let that frustration continue through last night where I dove head first into a piece of home made vanilla cake with caramel sauce despite having already closed out my diary for the day and despite having no calories available for such a treat. Then I started watching the US election results coming in and had a stressful night...I'd sleep for a bit, turn on the tv, sleep for a bit, turn on the tv. So this morning I was tired and anxious and mad at myself for being weak the night before but got on the scale anyway and saw 191 for the first time in 25 years. Our bodies are weird.
Another poster and I have created a lock-down-November challenge for ourselves and our goal is to be as spot on as possible, going whole hog until the week of Christmas, December 22nd. My goal is to be at 180 by then which is pretty aggressive but gonna give it my all. All about the scale; all about the numbers. And already made the rule that Christmas is a day, not a month...and I have permission to not log and to indulge from 5pm Christmas eve, through Christmas day but come Boxing Day it's back on the wagon.
Thanks @RavenStCloud for creating this group for another month! What a wonderful circle of women to nurture and support during this very difficult and vulnerable journey. You make that all possible and it is very much appreciated. As a Canadian of...ahem...a certain age, I particularly love this month's name as I hear Corey Hart's Never Surrender in my head every time I see this group pop up!
I will catch up with all of you ladies before too long...love and health and happiness to you all this month!!12 -
@pamiede wishing you speedy recovery and good health
@chupacabragumbo it's so powerful you can recognize you need to give yourself some grace right now. Hugs to you and hoping things look up very soon. thank you for the reminder about being vigilant on the virus front.
Under my calorie allotment for 3 days now, and I am down 2#. I believe that is water weight, but I'll take it. It provides some encouragement to stick to it. I have successfully lost weight in the past, but seem to have an issue with "I'm in control now, so one (or two, or 10!) little treats won't hurt...." and then it all goes out the window. Consistency is the key, and I'm striving for that. Have a good day everyone.6 -
my goal is to lose pounds by new years
stay under 1400 cal and burn at least 1500 cal a day4 -
@iloveeggnog You are doing GREAT!! I was 231 on June 1st and am 234.5 now, so you are KILLING it. I completely understand the frustration of the plateaus and the scale not moving. I have been very frustrated with it and that is actually how I ended up using this community to get me moving again in the right direction. I am learning (slowly but learning) to have faith in the process, put in the work to get the results I want. Remembering it is a marathon, not a sprint. You lost 50lbs in 5 months and are looking at 2 weeks worth of weight. Your body will catch up to your mind because you are obviously putting in the work. Keep going and know that you may be frustrated but I look at you as an inspiration because if you can go from 242 --> 192, there is hope for me to get to onderland in 5 months if I put in the work. I have been fighting to get to 225 since January 2020 so I think that if you can do it, I can too.
Everyone has their own journey but know that yours may seem a struggle but someone else sees your struggle as an inspiration.6 -
Yesterday I logged in but did not log my food and spent the day eating to deal with stress.
Today I picked my diet back up and started again. So don't anyone think that I don't ever have issues. Yep, I do. But I like this diet because you can mess up or even say kitten it, and you can pick it back up and keep going the next meal, the next day.8 -
Weigh in Wednesday
Highest weight: 435 (11/1/18)--lost 50 lbs. by the end of 2018 but got off track and gained back almost 31 lbs.
SW: 415.8 (4/17/19)
10/28: 191.6
10/31: 190.0
11/4: 190.6
11/11:
11/18:
11/25:
11/30:
Nov. GW: 184.8
GW: 160 (then reevaluate)
Weekly exercise goals:
- bike ride or exercise bike 5 times per week - 5/5
- strength training 2 times per week - 2/2
- chair yoga 4 times per week - 3/4
- steps onto aerobic step platform twice a day at least 3 times per week - 3/3; increased reps this past week
- bonus: 1 hike
The scale is up since 10/31 but I'm still down overall since last week Wednesday so I'm not too upset. Just missed making all of my exercise goals but did get in a 97 min. hike last Saturday.
I have had trouble sleeping again for about the last month or so. I used to have as part of my weekly goals to improve my sleep routine. I think I need to work on this again and try to get into a better routine.
As of now, I only have one trip to my parents scheduled for the next week so I should be able to meet my exercise goals. When I have to travel to their town 2 or 3 times in a week, it makes it much harder to hit all my goals.
Hope you all have a good week!6 -
SW: 247 lb. (10/6/2020)
CW: 236.4 lb.
I'm a little frustrated as my weight has been hovering around the same mark for the last week and a half. I have been consistently under my calorie goal, so I trust that eventually the weight loss will slowly pick back up.
I'm feeling particularly sluggish and achy today after a rough night of fitful sleep. I think today is going to be an off day in regards to getting exercise as I've had a headache developing throughout the day.
Hope you are all taking care of yourselves during these crazy times!6 -
Hi Ladies!
I'm new to the MFP community and would love have some accountability and encouragement when the struggle bus is no joke. After some un-fun health news, I'm ready to do this thing for reals. It's been about a month of legit tracking and calorie counting, and I'll admit that I'm a little bit sad that I gained back 2 lb this week. I didn't do quite as well in the last week food wise, but I do think I'm getting stronger, so non-scale victory.
Starting Weight (March 2020): 228 lb
Tracking start (October 1st): 219
Current Weight: 212 lb
I don't know that I necessarily have a timeline for loss goals, but I would love to be in the 1's again around New Years. I think my long-term goal is 165, but I don't want to get too caught up in that. 60 lbs feels like an insurmountable task, even if I know it isn't.
November goals:- Meet my calorie goals of 1220/d
- Drink more water
- Get outside!
- Get stronger
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It has been awhile since I've caught up with all of you, so bear with me!!
@MuttiNM I have been following your success as we are close in weight right now and your determination and goal setting is so inspiring to me!!
@Tarzan37 I'm starting a home work out schedule now that the weather has changed here too. Not always easy...but doable!!
@JAC581 It is dark now when I get home too...moving my exercise indoors has me anxious but it does help to know so many of us are in the same boat!
@laurajewalker Being able to recognize a craving verses real hunger is a tough one for me too! I've learned, too, that sometimes I am just thirsty!
@speyerj I am actually jealous of your goals this month!! I've had to adjust my running schedule due to the weather and time change. It will be spring before I can realistically start training for the half!! But it will be my number one goal of 2021!!
@orangequilt You've made me make a note to go back to check what percentage of my intake is snacks! Thank you for that!
@holdthefries Love the idea of a facial reward!! I think that should be my reward if I make it to my Christmas week goal!!
@KMC55 I love your positive can-do attitude!! And your response to me, personally? Well you brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for that. We got this. Both of us!
@AlexandraFindsHerself1971 You made me google boat pose!! Yay you!
@mamabearangie Learning that food is simply fuel is such a lesson...something that I definitely still struggle with.
@TooTallSalley I just hit Onederland the end of September and know how good that feels so I am so cheering you on!! You got this!
@MaxCat1000 Weight loss only requires a calorie deficit. When you feel better, you'll move more. For me, I have surrounded this whole journey with the idea of being kind to myself...so cutting myself some slack when I need it.
@mmdeveau I always love to find a fellow runner and 2 short runs + one long weekend run is what I do now too. Daylight is at a premium around here now, however, so adjusting, but missing getting out as much as I would like to!
@Zondeare Your bike accident sounds awful...and you could have used it as an excuse to derail your progress, but you haven't! You are tough to stay so committed!!
@Making_Impossible_Possible A fellow Team Body Project fan!!! I love them and their workouts!!
@peaceful0807 Just reading how you describe your exit from HR to "serving and assisting the homeless" tell us so much about your character and your motivations. I love that you've found this little group that has been a lifesaver for me and look forward to sharing this journey with you!
@Riddikulus89 I love your idea of journaling! I set this as a goal for myself in September but then it kind of fell by the wayside. Thanks for the inspiration to get me back to that!
@takera16 Your goal of sale without judgement? I am sooo with you on that. It's just a number. It's just data. No shame. No fear. I'll keep telling myself that until I know it to be true way down deep to my toes!
@MommaCargill My bff lost all her weight with counting calories and just walking. You got this!!
@Lasmartchika Onderland is sooooooo close!!! Cheering you on!!
@torih941 I love your 3 simple goals! I've simplified for this month of November too...here's to a wonderful month!
@azalea4175 There is a little snow here now too. Ugh. I will be climbing on my bike (and elliptical) too...quite a difference!
@JoDavo66 Welcome to the group! You have put such a great plan in place...looking forward to this journey with you!
@pamiede Wow. What an awful experience for you...so thankful you are doing okay and I'm beyond shocked that you're even thinking about your goals right now!! Such courage and stick-to-it-ness!!
@KeriA Oooh I love that you find your new job so interesting and that it isn't over the top stressful! Working from home is a challenge at the best of time but especially when it is a new job to work from home. Thinking of you as you get settled in!
@Mrsskinner2015 I am a fan of Jillian Michaels too. Now you have me wondering what I've done with those DVDs...hnmmmm
@chupacabragumbo My dear, you have a LOT going on. I'm sorry about your grandfather. Thank you for your hard work on the front lines of this pandemic. My cousin was front line in Detroit when it was such a hot spot this spring. And she has left her position...moving on to palliative care, after all the death she bore witness to; especially during covid when family members aren't allowed in so you nurses are their caregivers and their family. Much respect. And to be even thinking about your weight management right now? I'm in awe.
@ all my other lovelies who haven't yet posted their updates...I look forward to reading them and getting to be a cheerleader on your respective journies. You all have been such a source of inspiration for me. Happy November!11 -
@iloveeggnog I like what you said about Christmas, it's only one day, not a whole month. I am going to take a page out of your book and not sweat that day. I am going to friends', whose house I was at for Thanksgiving (Canada), and I didn't do too bad on that day. Typically, they have larger plates and smaller plates, because they invite quite a crowd (not sure what will happen this year) and I will try to grab one of the smaller ones as I know how easy it is to just fill the whole plate without thinking.
I have to go out tomorrow, and will be out during lunch time. I really don't want to pack and take food with me but I know it's the right thing to do else I will buy something that will blow the calorie budget! And I won't get home until probably after 2:00, and that's far too long to wait because then I will want to eat more than I ought. Guess I better go figure out right now what I am packing!2 -
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I have to go out tomorrow, and will be out during lunch time. I really don't want to pack and take food with me but I know it's the right thing to do else I will buy something that will blow the calorie budget! And I won't get home until probably after 2:00, and that's far too long to wait because then I will want to eat more than I ought. Guess I better go figure out right now what I am packing!
I have worked to figure "on the go go-to" so I can get something if I need to and also if I'm out with my husband and he says "let's grab lunch". It helps to make me feel more of a lifestyle and not a diet. It takes a little bit of planning but once you know them it is easy to say "oh, we are going ___, I will get this" and knowing I can handle whatever the calories are because it was pre-planned. 🤷♀️ just a suggestion3 -
Week 1 Check-In
Age: 39 Height: 5'6"
Highest: 272.2 (August 2019)
10/1: 239.4
11/1: 238.0
11/4: 234.5 (-1.3lbs from last check in)
November Goal: 230lbs
(this has been a goal since the beginning of January but I have found this wonderful community that makes me feel confident I CAN do this now).
Goals / Plans:
- Track all food honestly and stay within my calories 6 days (allow a break one day a week)
- Exercise of some sort (even stretching) 5 days a week
- Manage stress with cleaning or exercise.
Still doing good with my Goals. Exercise is slacking a bit but I have been extra busy getting ready for a very busy weekend so I am going to consider that still a win. Better than sitting around doing nothing. I am THRILLED with my weight loss and it definitely helps give me confidence that what I am doing is working. I have started to give myself a treat on my weigh in day. Instead of trying to fit junk in all week, I am working on restraint and whenever I get a junk craving I think "need to wait until weigh in" and if I still want it, I have it, but if I don't want it, I don't. It helps with feels of being deprived. It isn't that I can't have it, I just have to wait until Wednesday. I am proud of myself because in the past I wouldn't log it because I knew I would be WAY over my calories for the day. Today though, thanks to all of you and your honesty, I logged and and decided if I am over my calories, oh well, at least it is logged. Not a bad feeling at all. Liberating to know that I had a sweet treat AND was still honest with what I ate.
Hope all of you are having a good week, and if not good, educational. Sometimes it is more about learning a better way than just what food you put in your body.7 -
MaxCat1000 wrote: ».
I have to go out tomorrow, and will be out during lunch time. I really don't want to pack and take food with me but I know it's the right thing to do else I will buy something that will blow the calorie budget! And I won't get home until probably after 2:00, and that's far too long to wait because then I will want to eat more than I ought. Guess I better go figure out right now what I am packing!
I have worked to figure "on the go go-to" so I can get something if I need to and also if I'm out with my husband and he says "let's grab lunch". It helps to make me feel more of a lifestyle and not a diet. It takes a little bit of planning but once you know them it is easy to say "oh, we are going ___, I will get this" and knowing I can handle whatever the calories are because it was pre-planned. 🤷♀️ just a suggestion
I do something very like that. I know that there are a limited number of places the family's food allergies/intolerances will let us stop, and so if we go to place A I'll have chicken fingers, and if we go to place B I'll have the tacos con lengua and if I go to place C I can have a plain hamburger. (Tacos con lengua sounds REALLY good right now. I may have to go there soon.) I know it's not forever, it's just while I'm working on losing the weight, so that's a tolerable limitation.
Worst case scenario, I'll go over by 25-50 calories for the day, but that's not something I'm going to stress out about. There's always tomorrow and tomorrow is a fresh start.
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I woke up with my lower back and sacral area aching badly. This is a fibro thing, and apparently that area is still in full flare. Boyfriend massaged the muscles and worked out some of the knots, but it's still very sore. This may impact my plans to go to the store today and over to the home improvement store for flower bulbs. But we'll see. It helps a lot to know that everything I plan to eat today is pretty much ready to go; there's pulled pork in a small package in the freezer, and I have everything I need to make chicken fettuccine alfredo later.
This is where the planning helps me a lot; when I'm tired and sore and just don't have the energy, I can relax into the plan and just do what it says and not think about it. Thank heavens I don't have to figure out what I'm going to eat and what I'm going to feed the family! I just have to do it when it comes time and manage my pain in the interim.8 -
2017/18 - highest weigh in ever was 242
2018, October 236 logged on mfp
2019, October 193
Apparently fell off the band wagon without realizing it
2020, March 214 gym closed, no pool
2020, August 219-222 started logging again on mfp
2020, Sept 212
October 2020 Goal 205, did not make the goal - I am 208 this am (October was up and down).
Starting on 05 November at 208.
November Goal 200 really by Dec 02nd. I'm keeping this goal, but may need to reassess Dec at the end.
December 190
Feb 180
July 160
A1C 5.7 or lower in Jan
log all food and exercise
Swim almost every day and add night exercise 50% of time. (This plus up night exercise is what I really need to focus on)
Also - watch the chips....my serious weakness.
Final goal - Thanksgiving no weight gain. Keep focusing on loss, I will be out of town for a few days so this will be a challenge, because there is no pool at this location.1 -
@takera16 - try to think of the scale as a math tool, to determine if your calorie intake and fitness intake are correct for adjustments to intake and outputs of food and exercise.
@Making_Impossible_Possible You are exactly where I am with numbers (I'm at 208, didn't lose much in October - about 2-3 lbs, scale going up and down). It was recommended with the adding of weights, for me to add more water to drink. I'm going to buckle down a lot on measuring my food. Not measuring exactly is room for mistakes - when every I focus, I'm always "reminded, just how small 1/4 cup to 1/2 cup actually is" Easy to "top over that" if I don't measure it.
@iloveeggnog Fantastic attention to detail with everyone!
To All: I see there is a lot of ups and downs for everyone, and stress is prevalent with us all. Hang in there, feeling good, and being healthy helps us manage stress better. Although my #'s were not as far dropping. I can say over all I am healthier than I was just 2 short months ago, and more resilient to the stresses that will come my way. Health management is a journey, for ourselves and our families.
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@pamiede, oh my goodness, I was wondering where you were. So happy you're on the mend and I hope that process continues.
@KeriA, I hope the new job continues to go well!
@chupacabragumbo, so sorry to hear about the hurricane and your grandfather. That is a lot at one time, sending you hugs. And thank you for what you do as a nurse, I can only imagine what you're seeing right now on the front lines.
@iloveeggnog, plateaus are so frustrating, I hit one after my 30lb loss and like you, I gave into temptation but I've had a lot more trouble stopping. I gained about 5lbs back, but I am ready to focus again. Everything just seems so hard sometimes, but I know me eating my feelings is not going to help the situation, so yes, we can do this!
@azalea4175, consistency is definitely the key, something I am also working on. Great loss!
@KMC55, yes! We are in the same boat, a lot of posts you write make me feel like I wrote them. I love your last line, "everyone has their own journey but know that yours may seem a struggle but someone else sees your struggle as an inspiration". Very true, that is how I feel reading a lot of people's updates. I'll get there one day.
@MuttiNM, nice work meeting all your goals! Sounds like you have a solid plan in place.
@JAC581, take care of yourself, too.
@alorensen92, welcome! This is a great group to lean on.
@MaxCat1000, great idea, I struggle with packing lunches and all that and then avoiding eating out when I don't have any food with me.
@IsETHome, I am worried about Thanksgiving as well, just going to remind myself to be kind to myself.
This week exercise did not happen for me, and that's okay. I need to work on finding a balance in my life and starting with food and tracking my calories again. Too much Halloween candy in the house! I think I'm going to ask my partner to move the candy that way it's not as accessible for me and I don't find myself wandering into the kitchen and grabbing a few I don't need. Hoping the rest of this week is a bit smoother for me and for everyone else!5 -
Hi everyone...
38 years old
Height: 5' 7"
SW (6/9/2020): 330.0 lbs
Month SW (10/31/20): 259.8lbs
Goal weight: 180 lbs
10/31: 259.8 lbs
11/7: lbs
11/14: lbs
11/21: lbs
11/28: lbs
November Weekly and Monthly Goals:
* Keep logging in to MFP
* Continue the T-25 Gamma Hybrid Strength cycle workouts
* Do either a quick yoga, stretch, or cardio workout in the evenings in addition to my T-25 morning workouts
* Make time for me to relax even though classes have started again
By the end of year Goals:
Pass my classes
Maybe lose another 20 lbs by Dec 31st, 2020
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